Do you know how to say "No" ? (or do you endup doing things against your will or just to please)?
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roserose100
ANSWERS: 15
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Depends who for.
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Yes, but she likes me now, that's the problem she likes everyone.
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I used to be like that but I am almost 34 & have since gotten sick of people taking advantage of me. It was hard for them to adjust when they used to be able to ask me for something & I would do it, to me sticking up for myself & not allowing them to use me anymore. I have no problem tellign someone to piss off anymore.
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I read a book called "People Pleaser" and it tagged me perfectly - now I try do what I want to instead of doing it just to please others
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You mean 'please disease'? Nah, I grew out of that when I was a teenager.
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I have a VERY hard time saying no to people
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i have trouble with that sometimes. :)
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I don't say a direct no .. I usualy explain things and why I can't do them till the person gets it :)
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I have perfected the art of say no and Meaning it.
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I've never had a problem saying 'no' to anyone, not even friends and family. But that's not necessarily a good thing though; I think I can be a bit too headstrong sometimes.
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No, but I'm starting to learn now. I've gotten sick of being run down and taken advantage of. Good question! :)
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Yes, I am VERY good at saying no. I am also good at listening to people make their case. I never let people persuade me to do things that I believe are questionable or wrong.
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I am one of those... not easy to me to say NO. I get my self in trouble a lot caus that... When I get mad and say NO, usually I get shoot out by those who know me like I am the worse person alive.
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Yes. TM
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Oh im terrible. I always get roped into things, taken advantage of, all the rest of it! Can never say no. I too am learning though. I still always do the right things by my family and friends.. However I dont ALWAYS have to say yes!! I think ahead if its something I want or need to do. Before I say YES to please people.YES im a people pleaser.. But learning!! and I still help a friend in need anytime.
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