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You have a choice. Either you are going to be whiny/needy/clingy and hold on for dear life, or you move on and allow others to move on ... you release your grip by setting your sights on other things/people. Happy Sunday! :)

Opening my hands!

• Clinging to solutions that don't work creates future failure. • Letting go of who I think I am may assist seeing these are one in the same (I may be the problem. That's okay, I can admit this and change MY behavior!) • Letting go of who I don't think I am and having the courage to leave it at that. • Its better to understand than to achieve in these kinds of situations. [Dr. Phil asks, "Ya wanna be right or do you wanna be happy?" Gotta get a kick out of that one, eh?] • Some things in life are truly unsolvable. No, really. Attempting to solve unsolvable(s) leads to torment. Nothing can be gained by torment. Leave it at that. • it is never our job to fix some one else. Its not our right, either. • Learn to see what upsets me as not as an exterior circumstance to be fixed, but rather as an interior circumstance to be understood. • What would my life be if I had wings? • Holding hurts, there is a natural (even sometimes laughing; a knowing) feeling -- a natural release -- when I left go. • Important note to Self: NO ONE 'knows' who they are. Since I accept this, I don't have to count of them to tell me who I am! • The only thing I've SURE of losing when I left go of something is that I'm now NOT afraid to live without fear.