How do you keep from being the person in every class that gets made fun of? There's something about my personality where I can never fit in any place and people ask me if I'm high on drugs when I've never done any. People say I go to the beat of my own dr
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I say as long as you have a little rhythm then drum away
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Mediocre people esp. teenagers make fun of people who are not like them. you sound like a special person who is high on life. That makes you better than the common herd. Great people seldom fit in with the common herd. Try not to show your annoyance - laugh at yourself - laugh with them and they will soon stop. They only target you because they get a rise out of you.
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There are compatible people for everyone. Look for people who are like you and reach out to them.
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You sound quite intelligent. Stop and think if you really want to fit in with people so quick to judge.
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You don't have to fit in. I managed by 'blending in'. I remained true to myself, but stifled just enough individuality to not stand out as being freakishly different.
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I was the class chump. Don't sweat it though. In ten years when the star quarterback is working at the local hardware store and you sell you internet business for 5 mil, things will look real different.
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Well you can pit them against each other my favorite since they are usually not to bright or you can bulk up learn martial arts and handle them one at a time when they attack you in Isolated areas. Either or both works in combination I was picked on a lot and the school would do nothing my solution was and is a little less radical than todays solution plus you can laugh about it later. .
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The only "light" I can offer you is that eventually, you WILL learn to accept the fact that the only place you need to "fit in" is with yourself and once you genuinely embrace yourself for who you are, you will find that there will be others that will accept you, completely, also. I've been there, since childhood and now I am in my late thirties and I am STILL there to some degree. People reject those that think/act differently. They equate different with something negative or threatening and that is far from the truth. I no longer feel the need to fit in anymore but I do have many friends and acquaintances that accept me completely...and many that don't but it doesn't bother me. I know it isn't the easiest path to be on but you will come to appreciate you for being YOU.
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I used to be the girl that everyone makes fun of because I'm so shy and quiet. But I've learned to expand myself and make some friends who understands me. My advice is: Ignore the freaks that talks about you behind your back and do whatever you want without the fear of someone judging you. I used to be so afraid of doing everything in life and missed chances. I wasted a lot of time wondering what people thinks about me.
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