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You shuld contact a transgender society to get some support abd advice on how to break it to your family
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I agree with Amby...your local center will be able to help give you information and support. They often have groups as well, which will give you some people to talk to who are going through the same thing, or have gone through it in the past. If you feel that it is time to say something, then go ahead and say something. Your mother seeming supportive of the issue is wonderful...although she will probably still have to adjust to the idea of you as a girl instead of a boy. On the flip-side, you are still young and have many decisions ahead of you. Maybe "coming out" to someone close such as your mother and then taking it from there would be a good idea. You don't always have to come out to everyone all at once. Best of luck, Bliss
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I think you are too young to compartmentalize yourself already. Grow up a bit first.
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Not only is it unhealthy to keep things bottled up and held in but it will surface sooner or later. Chances are if this is who you really are then your mother, God bless her already knows this and that may be why she is or seems understanding of a transgender story. This is not only a giant step you are thinking of making but it is a step that will effect everyone around you, not just yourself and you will need some help preparing for the launch of your new feelings. Try talking with a doctor first but make sure that you get a doctor that has either delt with this kind of situation or is liberal enough to not tell you that you are crazy or wrong or any of that bullsh*t. Do not deny yourself what you are feeling but realize that this will effect your ENTIRE FAMILY and you need to understand that while some may cry with you and welcome you others may be hurtful and scared of what has happand to their little boy. Good luck to you and may cautious footing be on your side.
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You should decide for yourself. This isn't the kind of thing you want to take other peoples advice on. The second you come out, you'll face ridicule and abandonment, and only you can decide if you're ready for that.
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There is no right or wrong way to tell her. I have found that being honest does one positive thing. We are free from our fears and at least we know where we stand with the ones we love. There is no easy course. Be true to yourself and other will alway appreciate you!
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Hi, I can't imagine what your going through! It sounds like you want to transition to be a female, but what a hard thing to explain to the parents! I'm not transgended myself, so I can't say I know what you're going through, but I do empathise, and I'm pulling for you!! lol
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Your mother if supportive of TG people on TV, will be supportive of you. It will likely be a shock at first, and she will resist the idea, as it will be a shock. But tell her, ask her to help you learn how to use make up right. She will resist, but relent, because she wants you to be happy. In time, she will stop resisting, and just be happy for you. Ad for how your father will react, he is likely to be far more resistant, and may even be completely opposed to the notion. But, he may also be a more caring enlightened person. So tell your mother first, she will no him far better then you. He will have to know eventually, but if he is the explosive type, it would be better to do things in secret with just your mother for support until your 18. The first thing your going to want to do, is get hormone blockers to stop puberty. For this you will need to see a gender therapist, and an endocrinologist. You'll want to do that as soon as possible, you will only need 2 or 3 visits to the therapist before he will approve the use of hormone blockers. Usually at least 6 months before he is likely to give the approval for female hormones. As for surgery, depending on where you get it done, you can get it as yound as 16. Most likely though you will have to wait until you are 18. Finally, for anyone who thinks you are too young to decide, i say bullshit. Most transsexuals i have ever met have known since they were toddlers. Some only realized it when they became teens. The only thing young transsexuals lack is the vocabulary to express how they feel.
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Be like you feel. For me wearing pantyhose and stuff makes me feel good!
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But dont tell anyone unless you are sure that you want to live as a woman. If not, well people dont have to know about your private life or your fetish.
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You cant help how you feel even though some people think you can. Talk to your mother alone first,she probably already knows on some level.
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i'm sure some people already notice you feel that way. it's kinda hard to hide what you feel cuz it comes out anyway. trust that the people around you will love you just the same. i can't say i agree with it, but i do wish you happiness no matter what you choose
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Tell people when you are READY. Remember, some people don't know how to handle that. But just know, that your gender and sexuality are secondary to the fact that you are a soul and are very important.
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well im 16...and im a girl...who...also feels like and girl....but no i don't think you should tell anyone until your out of highschool because you can't really do much right now and highschool kids and.....d-bags....idk how else to explain it their all immature and...ugh...no just wait the whole world is ugly and the younger u are the worse it is
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its ok i aways wanted to know how it would feel to be a boy to fuck girl and to get blowjobs
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you never know how they will react. i came out the closet at 14 and my family split over that. half wont talk to me, the other half love and respect me. find a transgendered website and look up some advice they will have on there for you. good luck hun!
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Honesty is such a freeing method. You know your situation better than anyone. Make sure you are not going to be thrown out on the street and then tell your honest feelings. The real question might be " Am I readyn to face myself".
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how do you masterbate .does it feel dirty playing with your own cock
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you mite feel that way now but how about if you live like a boy first and have some fun then see how you feel in a couple of years and your mum mite be supportive to those on tv because its not her family its happening to and you want to see how your dad feels about people who feel the same as you good luck any way
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15 is an odd age. lots of stuff going on with hormones. the one thing you will realize with time, is that you are the bottom line. remember a long time ago when your mom told you that if a person doesnt like you for who you are, then they werent your friend to begin with? sooo true. live life for you! maybe just wait a litte longer until you are sure. you may lose support from "friends" and family...so its only worth losing them if you KNOWthis for sure.
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