well, try a different move in your sex, that ususally helps me, but if a little less physical, take her/him to a concert of his/her choice, if they dont like concerts or you dont have the money, then get him/her a very nice gift, wait, your already doing that, lets see, howabout an animal, get an animal like a dog/cat(prefferably a dog because they are more playful) and just go wild, the animal is an answer to the gift question and this question, i hope this has helped you in any possible way, yours truly, brucekennedy AKA willsmith

All you can do for her is bring patients, attention and plenty of complements. The rest is up to you! Good luck!

I wrote this 7 years ago, but I think it still holds true. On all of these but # 4, "HER/SHE" can just as easily be replaced by "HE/HIS": 1. Send Her A Romantic/Love Sentiment Card Unexpectedly. Sometimes the "just because" gifts, we give those we care about mean as much or more than those given on special occasions that are expected. 2. Arrange To Have Her Favorite Meal, Her Favorite Music, & Maybe Her Favorite Video, On A Night When You'll Be Totally Free & Alone. Create the atmosphere that you know by now she loves, and make it like a complete date; the great meal, the right music, and a romantic comedy or film she loves. 3. If She Works In An Office Setting: Send Her A Bouquet Of Flowers For Her desk That Will Last A Week. Include a card, letting her know you wanted her to have something lovely to look at that week at work. 4. Buy Her Something To Her Taste At "Victoria's Secret." They have all kinds of helpful people there, and will help you put together a gift package that will be appreciated, romantic, and hopefully, used! 5. Arrange Your Work Schedules So That She And You Have A Full Weekend Off ALONE. Take her to the nicest hotel you can, even if in town, and enjoy room service, good dining, indoor swimming, or whatever she wants to do. TV is optional. 6. Tell Her You Want To Shop With Her For A Special Present. Take her to her favorite gift stores, or ask her what she really wants or needs. Shop with her patiently, and allow her to choose a gift which you tell her you would like her to buy which would remind her of you and how much you care for her. 7. Arrange An Entire Evening Alone. After taking a bath or shower singly or together, give her good music, a warm, slightly scented oil body massage, good conversation, and whatever else she wants. 8. Write Her A Poem Or Love Letter. If you can, compose a love poem, telling her how much she means to you and has meant to you. If you are less poetically inclined, write a love letter saying the same things. Allow yourself to be soft and generous in your praise of her. Use the kinds of words you know she likes and would remember from your first weeks and months together. 9. Ask Her To Plan A Weekend For The Two Of You. Tell her you will go anywhere, do anything, and basically, cater to her and with her, for 48 hours. Hide the TV channel clicker, unless she loves television. 10. Remember That Actions And Gifts Are Nice And So Are *Spoken* Words. Tell her daily, in terms of endearment she likes, how special she is to you, and how much you love her. Say it in the morning, by phone, by voice mail, while eating a meal, before bed, while helping her zip her dress in the morning before work. Any time's the right time for this one! Gifts are nice, and we all love to hear the words for additional reinforcement.

Pretend you are in the early stages of your relationship again and invite her out for a meal. Arrange a meeting place and if you live together, could you get ready at a friends house instead of at home? Ask her lots of questions about herself whilst you are out, and be very attentive. At the end of the evening give her peck on the cheek, tell her it was wonderful and get her a cab home. If she dosn,t invite you back to 'her place' for a coffee, when you think she is safetly home, turn up on the doorstep with wine and flowers if possible. A bit far-fetched I know but a friend of mine once did this and they both really enjoyed it.