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  • have you tried telling him it bothers you when he does that? he just cares about you.
  • Tell him that he needs to give you some space if he wants to keep having a relationship with you.
  • That is more than just caring. It's obsessive behavior. I have a boyfriend who has become the same way & I'm contemplating breaking up w/him. He gets very defensive when I tell him I need some space & that I don't have that much to talk about during the MANY phones calls & emails every day. He turns it around on me & tells me that I am "ungrateful" & that ALL girls would be happy to hear from their boyfriend, no matter how many times it is.
  • You need to set some time aside to talk to him and establish some boundaries. Let him know that you truly love him and that this type of behaviour is damaging your relationship. Find out what is really bothering him! There's something that he's not telling you. Guys need constant reassurance that things are ok. I have felt this way and it only gets worse if boundaries aren't set. Good luck!
  • Hopefully he will listen when you explain this is damaging your relationship. Communicating openly is the best way to line out issues. If he is not cooperative suggest some time apart.

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