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My first reaction is simply that he's not good at verbalizing his feelings. (News Flash: Most guys aren't!) A lot of guys think their actions speak louder than words. They think that their s/o already knows, so there's no reason to vocalize it. Dumb, but very true. He thinks you're gorgeous, no question. He just doesn't know how to say it...right. Give him a break. At least he's trying.
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I've got a boyfriend that way too. In fact I actually started thinking maybe he just doesn't think I am. So I told him what I thought. Honesty is always best. He said of course I think you're beautiful. But don't you know that? I wouldn't be w/you otherwise. But more than your looks it's you that drives me wild. I told him us girls need to hear it. Makes us feel sexier. I will instigate sex more if I know you think I'm beautiful. He's been saying it a lot ever since. Hmmm...
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