I like the fact that my breasts are larger than many women (36 D) but I hate when people...especially men..gawk at them when I'm in public. Is that being hippocritical? *spelling*
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No, it would only be hypocritical if you said you loved large breats and the attention you got. Try to accept yourself as you are, don't wear obviously provocative clothing, and ignore the stares. They just have no manners.
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hey, welcome to planet earth. That's what men do - gawk etc. if you don't want to be 'gawked' at then wear clothing that minimises and covers them up (as opposed to anything low cut, revealing or design to bring attention to that particular area). On a personal note, why on earth does it bother you?
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My sister has the same size breasts and she just wears the right kind of bra and doesn't let it bother her in the least. Belive me, one day they will stop gawking alltogether and you will be complaining abou that. That is when you will be wearing your 36Ds like legwarmers.
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Enjoy all the attention you can. Later in life you may not get any. See the gawks as a compliment.
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i dont know how you dress so this may not apply, buy girls who walk around with about 15cm of cleavage hanginng out of there top are going to get gawked at, yet we're just facinated lol, ah fond thoughts guys dont stop gawking, they just get better at hiding it :P
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Do you have any pics?
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I can say as a man there have been a few remarks (I know your more interested in gawking) by women that I "made a note" of not liking. "You have a nice ass" - from a stranger women. "I like your huge cock" - a more familiar women Both times I was appreciative on some level - but also - there was something in the attitude that I didn't like. I have never been turned off in any way by "Your arms are huge" -seems innocent enough. I think I don't mind the complulsion to admire - but going out of ones way to gawk is different. If I find a women gawking at me - she will end up having a conversation with me. I don't mind the gawk at all. It is upsetting when a man gawks at me though.
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People only stare because they like what they see or want to see more of it. It doesn't matter what color shirt you wear or how you try to minimize it. Believe me, baggy shirts just make big breasted women look fat, vertical stripes just make them look more curvy, even if you wear black, which is supposed to be slimming, you still will be a beautiful, busty child of God so walk with a bounce and be proud of what he gave ya! ;)
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No it is not hypocritical. Unfortunately it is a fact of life men will gawk at them, particularly if you are in tight clothing or showing some clevage. I say that as a bloke. A quick glance is fine but a full on gawk is uncalled for.
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i have large breasts also hun and you know what. learn to love them i have. and so does y man. if people look i dont even flinch, if you were blessed with it love it and thats the only way
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Well, I am in the same boat with the staring, except I hate my 38DD boobs and want a breast reduction :) Too many sore back days...
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I dont think it is at all.You should be proud of your mama's because not all women are blessed(one of them being me).Be proud of who you are and what you have and let others know that staring at the tatas is not good for someone.Strut your stuff girl!!
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Hey woman, I am larger cup sized than you.. tall, thin, and with bodacious twins. Enjoy the extra attention they bring you. Dress classy, act classy... because when they stop gawking you will know that you are offically old.
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I'm myself am a 34 D. I have the same problem. I'm not going to hide my chest, and I'm not going to leave it hanging. There is nothing wrong with liking your body. People are going to stare regardless, even if you had a small chest guys would probably stare because that's what they do. Enjoy the attention.
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No. It'd be hypocritical if you went out in public and said "WOW, LOOK AT MY TITS" and then got pissed off at people looking, because those two things contradict each other. But your body is your own, and you shouldn't feel that you have to loathe it to justify people objectifying you - they shouldn't gawk, whether or not you are self-conscious/proud/anything else.
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I do not mean this in a pervy sort of way but is it not flattering that men like to look at you? I know that if I had an enourmous package i would revel in the attention of women staring at the bulge!!!
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Love it.... i am jealous
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you can get bras that actually appear to reduce your breast size. go to a good shop and get fitted, and ask what sort of clothing would make you look stunning without being provocative. There is a wonderful show on cable in Australia, from England called "What Not to Wear". If you can get hold of any episodes, these women are just magnificent at changing lives by teaching women how to be comfortable with their bodies, and look goooooood.
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It's not being hypocritical (that's the word you're looking for) at all - unless you're likewise gawking at their mantits. That being said, 36D is quite large - do you rent them out at kids parties as trampolines (just kidding!)?
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Why then are you pleased that your breasts are bigger than many other women. Women don't, as a rule, mentally compare their breast size to each women they happen to see. Perhaps, you find it pleasing because you, with larger breasts than many others, are able to draw greater attention from the opposite sex and therefore are more attractive (not that there's anything wrong with this at all - we all want to be attractive and desirable to others).
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It's not hypocritical to hate it when People stare at you (especially men) since you feel it invades your personal space. But, speaking as a guy, you walk by me with a 36 D chest, I'd look too. But It's nothing offensive. I'd think you're hot.
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Well depends on the way they gawk and for how long. I also have big breasts 42D and love every inch. I wear clothes that show them to advantage and men stare and even comment and I am not young!!!!. One day they wont bother so make the most of it and enjoy it as a sign of your sexual feminine power baby.
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Mine are 38DD and men gawk at them all the time. I don't take offense because I'm used to it. No, you're not being a hypocrite, you just happen to love your breasts and you don't care to have other people salivate over them......nothing wrong with that. :)
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It's not hypocritical but part of loving being larger is knowing u will get more attention than smaller breasted girls otherwise why would u prefer it. Most women don't like being bigger as it makes things awkward for them but they enjoy the attention of it. It is not nice to stare, but if a guy looks at u because he likes what he sees, is that so bad?
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Speaking for me, and being a man, I can tell you that I look at the face first, then the breasts. Now, I like breasts, and it doesn't matter if they are big or little. If they're visible to any extent of my imagination, I look. I'm not sorry for that.
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My wife is a busty Miss too. She has that problem as well.
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No, hypocritical is dressing specifically to show them off, THEN complaining when guys gawk.
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