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You might need to use the toy for/on him/her to break the ice.
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Suggest it. I am sure that they wouldn't mind using one if they are as adventurous as you when it comes to sex. Get ahold of a catalog that sells the products you are thinking of using and look at them together...pick together. Explain to them that although you have a wonderful time with them when you are not using a toy, you want to spice things up for the both of you. Good luck ;)
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talk to him openly, tell him you think it would create a more pleasant environment, that you'd get more excited and that will benefit him/her.
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Ok, the best way is to talk to your partner! I know when my husband and I had first gotten together I had a number of toys and when I told him about it at first, he didn't like the idea what so ever. The best thing to bring up is the fact that just because you use toys doesn't mean that sex with just him or her is boring or that you're trying to replace him or her. That was the biggest problem that my husband had. Once I assured him that I just wanted to spice our sex lives a little he got more into them and now we have many couples toys to play together with. Bring it up in a conversation, maybe while you're lying in bed together. You might start off by saying that you stumbled upon a site online that sells toys and that you might want to try one out together some time. Good luck!
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