Why do so many assume that a question is the belief of the one asking the question? - rather than give time to understand that they ask only to seek opinion to an issue - not a statement of belief - judgement without understanding why > is harsh?
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I never try to make that judgment. But as a writer, I may tend to say *you* so as to address my reader, the questioner. I don't so much as assume the question is all about the questioner. But as an answerer, I tie it back to the questioner so that I can be as helpful as possible. That's how I can best express myself!
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That's just how some people are:) They just jump to conclusions..I can say I have been guilty of this:) Live and Learn:)
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Good point
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I agree with you 100% on that...
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I do that alot.. I ask questions just to see what people think about a certain point.. It does not mean that I believe in what the question says ..
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I guess it would depend on how the question is asked that would make me view it as someone's belief or not...I like when the people answer their own question...
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I have wondered that too. But I don't ask a lot of questions.
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Right. I believe people have to be careful when they ask a question. Sure, ask away if you want to learn, know people's opinions or even debate, but be a little observant of the phrasing or tone. If someone is looking for all kinds of opinion, they should keep that tone neutral and impartial. If you feel strongly about something, express it as well, but there are consequences to that. However in my opinion most good questions are often devoid of statements. Questions that are more like statements like "I hate "X", how about you?" probably will recieve either: a) "I agree with you " answers and "have some points from me". b) I disagree with you, maybe even downrates from someone. It bothers me when people complain of downrates or dissents in those type of quetions. Not everyone will agree with you. Live with it. I must mention also that often when a question involves a "hot button" topic, people are bound to make assumptions on the posture of the questioner.
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