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cause you worry about it to much. If you cared less about what happens in life you end up getting more than you couldve dreamed. thats how it works
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If you are ending up alone multiple times, that means at some time you were with someone, so why don't you switch your thinking around and say, 'How do I always end up with someone?'. Besides, you're young yet. There's someone out there, especially for a smart, sweet person like you. Like the new avatar btw.
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You're too young to be ending up! You're just starting and believe me, you are a wonderful human being and incredibly smart. You will not end up alone unless you choose to. Be patient:)
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Life just sucks sometimes.My wife just kicked my ass out.Just give it time Mr or MS right will come to ya..
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Life just sucks sometimes.My wife just kicked my ass out.Just give it time Mr or MS right will come to ya..
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I bet it sounds really condescending when other people say because you're so young. It did when I was your age. Bet that sounds *really condescending*. OK shouldn't have said that. To be honest, you're a semi-adult. You probably think of things diferently than you did when you were younger, you're more aware of how you can affect others and how others can affect you. And unfortunately in life we all have periods of feeling isolated, especially in our teenage years. I'm 23 and my love life is nothing majorly interesting. Whether this is due to me being really picky (definitely true in part), being too shy (again definitely true) or just not being able to read other peoples signs, life can feel cruel at times. However, just like that, life can do a complete 180 at times when you least expect it. All that it asks is that you are patient, and in the meantime do things that you enjoy. Look longterm. If you decide to go to college and/or uni, I can guarantee that life at first there can be even worse, but once you settle in, it gets SOOOOOOOOO much better.
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You're not. I'm back. Can we please, please forget this and go back, I can't live with myself knowing I hurt you, and I'll do anything I have to, if it just means you can forgive me.
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you are never alone. the Lord your God is with you always until the end o ftime.
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You are not alone. we are here.
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You are not alone, and you won't end up alone. Not only am I here, so are the other ABers. I think the one causing you to ask this is still there, too. I don't know what happened, but I can tell that it is causing you a lot of pain. You even changed your avatar. Email me at any time. You can get my email from Stableboy, or email me through my website. {{{BAM}}}
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Hi BAM. You've read all the warm, fuzzy answers already. So, I'll walk a different path. You can believe we are all part of some cosmic whole and linked at the quantum level. OR You can just accept that the feeling of "aloneness" is one that haunts many of us at times and is a fleeting emotion until we become engaged in something interesting. Existentially, we are alone and this is uncomfortable. We, therefore are motivated to socialize, seek the "meaning" in life, etc. The "alone" feeling is a warning that we need to get off the computer and ENJOY life while we can. Hope that helps some. RF
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It is really all perspective. If you end alone than you must start with someone. So the negative of ending may be canceled by beginning. How much time is spent alone relative to being with someone else. If you look at the glass half empty then life well seem worse so it may turn out worse. Vis versa for the glass being half full. But if you look at in the perspective that the glass is two sizes to big for the amount of water in the glass then your perspective is beyond that dull cliché that haunts me to this day,
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UUhhh.... could it be that being online in your room is not a group activity? Personally, I get real bored staring at my friends' back while they chat on the net, or try to pick up underage kids on the net, or watch videos on the net... Maybe go take a class... get out, be active! ;)
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it mit be your personlly and the way you act
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Dammit. I don't need to hear this outta a solid kid like you! E me! I want to talk to you about this crap privately. zazzy_one@yahoo.com.
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I spent my entire youth alone and rejected by my siblings and peers. I am 45, and understand I will be accepted by those that do, and wont be by those that dont. Right now I spend my days alone, freelancing at home. Alone isnt so bad once you get a real taste of whats out there. You may be more insightful and smarter than peeps around you, and they dont know how to take you. I'll take smart and insightful over popular and shallow any day.
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well that negative attitude wont help! maybe you should go out instead of sitting at answerbag all day, maybe you'll find a nice guy.
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The first thing to do is get off your computer and join some kind of club with people of your own age. Unfortunately we are becoming more and more dependant on computers to solve our everyday occurancies.
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I can completely empathize with you, I've spent most number of my new years and all the other major festive nights alone, even though I've been in good few relationships, but it is this feeling of being alone that seems to be lasting, I've started to enjoy it, I wait for new people to come in, they do trickle in, and then they go away, start accepting life, loneliness is no better or worse than being with someone. Yes, being with someone special does make you realize that time can fly, but good things happen so less, happiness (much hyped term) takes a long time to come back. Till that time, it's not too bad to see the patterns of life.
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