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How do u get your girlfriend to have trust in you again after you have screwed up a million times? That's an awful lot to ask after messing up so many times. It's come to the point where it's more or less "unforgettable". You may be forgiven, but it will be very tough for your girlfriend to trust you and that could cause a lot more serious problems.

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What can be the best compliment from a husband to wife? You are the apple of my eye.

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Are you out of work? I was laid off in December... So, I decided to go into my own business and it's terribly slow, but doable for now. I only hope and pray it picks up in the NEAR future.

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If you moved into a neighborhood and someone didn't want you there - would you move if they offered to buy you out for double the money? Where's my luggage??

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I'm reasonably certain that I am in love with my best girl friend, but she has a boyfriend now. We have dated in the past, but both decided to go our separate ways. More details inside. Chances are, you two could date again, but call it off again too. I would simply express my feelings and then leave it alone. It will be if it's supposed to. At any rate continue dating yourself.

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How do you forgive your husband for kissing another woman and sucking on her breasts? I was suffering from PPD and he left 4 a few days and did this with a co-worker! Sometimes I get forgiving confused with forgetting when it's something that intense to get over. Those are tough thoughts you will have to deal with until they fade more as time goes on... if in fact it's "forgiving" and moving forward together is what you want to do. He will have to live with the consequences while you have to work on the 'forgiving' part daily.

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Do you love a man in a suit and a tie or do you like the more casual dresser? Whatever he looks best in :-)

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If your in a serious relationship, do you ever miss the 'newness' of the realtionship? The excited part about getting to know each other and being nervous? Absolutely! That's why for YEARS I had a bunch of "new" relationships and when they were getting old, I went "new" again. But then I decided I had to finally recognize reality and grow up... bummer. :-)

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When someone takes their child by the shoulders and shakes them, is that considered abusive? I believe it is. Simple as that. You are rattling some things around that shouldn't be. There's no lesson learned from it either.

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Have you ever been a better friend to someone than they have been to you? Absolutely and there are those different levels of friendships out there... It just all depends on who you want to surround yourself with. If someone doesn't take my friendship as serious and treat me with the same respect, then they truly aren't my friend, or they have selfishness within them.

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I'm 31 years old and have yet to experience true love. I don't know how to attract women. I feel like ending my life. What do I do? Ending your life over finding a woman is definitely not the answer. Learn to love yourself first... it will be noticed and whatever is supposed to happen for you will. Don't try so hard and believe in yourself and that's where you will find your real happiness.

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Who is refinancing their mortgage? Are you finding deals that are really good out there? Because I'm looking for a lesser monthly payment, I refinanced to a phenomenal interest rate which helped me by $500 monthly! Depending on what you are looking for out of refinancing there are some wonderful deals! I went through this guy named Steve Hudson... his number is 513-290-0683. Tell him Shannon Pearce sent you. This company is wonderful!

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Help!Im in love with my married friend. Arg! Change your mind and contain yourself. If it's meant to be, it will be without actions. That person has prior commitments to be dealt with first.

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How angry should I be that my wife has: 1) lost interest in initiating sex, 2) has no interest in looking sexually appealing to me, 3) refuses to hang out with me unless we do things she likes, 4) makes no effort to communicate with me? How do I fix it? She may be a bit spoiled and got away with what she wanted to do over time... So, now she takes advantage of that. Anger won't make things better, but a serious conversation with her may help. She needs to know what she is damaging by not involving you and your needs.

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What's the best way to drown out the noise from nearby cubicles? Ear plugs if you don't have to listen for your boss or the phone... otherwise, the noise is just there. Been there... it can be annoying. I had to learn to drown it out.

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An alcoholic hasn't had a drink in months but at times smells like alcohol, why? I totally believe that this person hasn't drink anything. Depending on the length of time and how much was consumed in order to keep the odor for quite some time. It releases from the pores over time. Which means they are still an alcoholic until they pass the urges and odors.

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Why are some women so NAIVE when in a relationship and so QUICK and idiotic to believe their husband/ boyfriend when they cheat? Some women want to feel they are keeping that "innocence" by being naive... but yet, they are smart enough to understand probability.

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What would you do if your S/O loved you for your body only? Well, if that's the case, then technically... he doesn't love you... he's perverted over the physical aspect of it... So... I'd have my little fun and keep my eyes open for the "real" thing to come along. No one can live a happy lifetime together like that.

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If you were 20year old male would you go out with a 16 years old and do you think its wrong I can't throw rocks at any body. I met my ex-husband when I was 16 & he was 22. We married a year later and stayed married for 10 years. Times were different then and the laws have changed. The 20 year old would have to be very careful in this relationship for at least 2 years.

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How many people has been bullied/beat in their life and have a real problem socializing and just enjoy someone's company without having paranoid thoughts about them wanting to hurt you? I have been through that in my growing up life. My family was way off balance and it kicked me in gear as I got older. But then... I decided to make decisions. I HAD to make myself learn to trust someone until they break that trust and not worry about it before hand. I've also had to learn to go with my gut, which is a very important message coming from your brain. Over time, I decided...

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I dated a very very shy girl for 6 months i love her. we broke up. she says shes too shy to be in a relationship. is there anything i can say to help her overcome her shyness? If "shy" meaning just hanging around and she never knows what to say... Maybe you can remind her that you LOVE her that way (not just love her). If she is determined to let it go... then maybe you will need to move on.

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Can "true love" strike more than once in a lifetime? I totally believe it can happen more than a dozen times if you choose to! Not that you would... but my point is it could happy way more than one time. It only feels like "once" when you are still holding some of that love for the other person.

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So my girlfriend said i need to pick her over my friends, i told her i will always pick my friends over her and now she is packing her stuff and moving out, thats not fair to me is it? i mean its a sophomore year in collage, any way i can get her to stay? First off... she shouldn't ALWAYS expect you to pick her over your friends... but secondly.. you shouldn't tell her you will always pick your friends over her. You simply should have explained to her the important time you are having with your friends and how it will pass in due time. Get her to understand. You are both wrong in this matter.

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Im 16 next year and havnt had a boyfriend yet...i know im not good looking but iv been told by friends my personality is great.But, they've all had boyfriends or in a relationship now.Should i change the way i look or is there just something wrong with me First and foremost... happiness comes from the reflection in the mirror... Not from having a boyfriend. While that's all nice, loving and fun... You can find one that suits you based on how you feel about yourself. If you are that concerned, try a different hairstyle or make up..etc., but don't let that be the reason to find a relationship.

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Ok! he's don't it again, he's has a online dating profile set up! I love him deeply but I just don't think he loves me, Now I have a chance to rent a friends home for something I can afford, do you think I should do it, I mean end it with him & move out? Well if that ain't the biggest picture I've ever seen. If he's done it the first time, that should show enough he doesn't have the feelings necessary to continue a relationship with you. Move out before he finds that other person for his life and it hurts worse.

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My Girlfriend borrowed a pair of sunglasses and lost them. Is she responsible to pay for them? I payed $100 for them a year ago. Well that's a sticky situation. However, common sense says she should purchase you a new pair or give you the money for them minus depreciation in value. Yet, she's your friend and is it worth losing the friendship over? You have to ask yourself that question before you pursue anything else. Legal wise, she will have to pay for the value of them today - but that's definitely not...

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What do you do when people are so hell bent on you staying home and taking care of kids (that are making you lose your mind) and you want to go to work? You simply say, "I am going to do what makes me happy and what's healthy for me, in order to provide that to my children" then say, "I will be the one to reap the rewards of what I have done well and pay the consequences for my mistakes".

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Why is it that all the time I talk on the phone with my ex about our daughter, he ends up telling me I love you, even if he dump me for another girl and is living with her? The infactuation is a little old in his new relationship. He's a bit bored... so therefore... he loves you. Know what I mean?

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I feel like the guy I'm with is the one. How do you know someone is the one you will end up spending the rest of your life with? Here's my philosophy on that: if at 2 years you are still together with some arguing and normal relationship trouble... Keep moving forward together... If then you've both reached the 7 year mark, you know each other well, can be on each other's nerves, but still love one another.... Keep moving forward... If you both reach 10 years, then 20 years is here before you know it......

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Why is it that although people think I'm so amazing and close to perfect, they don't want to be involved with me at some point? I can't seem to find a best friend. Everyone ends up saying, you're great but I just can't be a best friend... Ugh. Maybe they are doing so much "un" great things and they know they can't hold up the bar to you. Therefore, it's probably a good thing because us sane people wouldn't like for you to get corrupted. You'll find another great, wonderful and close to perfect friend as long as you get all of those darks clouds away from you to really be seen.

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My heart has been broken so many times how do i get my trust back in people? i just hide now so no one else can hurt me. You have to teach yourself that it's not fair for the new person to reap the repercussions of your last relationship. The truth is you have dated enough to know the probabilities, you are no longer vulnerable and now it puts you in a new growing area in your life. You obviously recognize it, now you can read books that relate to your actions to help you. Then live it everyday until you are...

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My wife is driving me crazy. she is constantly telling me to "keep it down the neighbors will hear" i'm not talking loud but i think she is parinoid of people listening to her what yo do its wreaking our marriage Unless you are hackling babbling bully - she may just need to learn to chill. It sounds like she doesn't want to be one of the neighbors that the others are talking about. You two will need to find a good medium, so you can be yourself in a way that she's comfortable with as well. It's called.... "Meeting in the middle" on this one.

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What's the worst thing to say to your boss when she/he is in a bad mood? Saying anything at all is a bad idea. Let it ride... you'll get to go home and be the boss and feel the same way as your boss did. It's a bit intimidating - but keeping distance and not being a part of his/her problem, you'd be just fine. BUT if you want to say something to enhance the mood in a more negative way, it would simply be, "What's wrong with you?"

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Why can't I escape this black hole? Because you may be trying to "feel" your way out rather than actually watching where you are going.

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Why do most mens run out on their wives? It seems like it's most men only, however, it's the wives too. You are more than likely only experiencing men to think that.. However, it's both genders out there as sad as it is.

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How do you define "passive aggressive" and what has been your experience with it? I define it as "tough love" and my experience with it was raising my children. You listen, are affectionate and compassionate, however, teach them the hard way at times to understand and/or get it.

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Which is your favorite movie quote that is also a threat? From "Deloris Clayborn" (sp?) - "Sometimes being a bitch is all a woman has to hold on to".

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Would you find it strange if you went to someone's bathroom and they had a candy dish full of candy there? That's a little odd. Yet, if it's someone who entertains a lot their guests can take a mint while freshening up.

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Women claim that men are afraid of commitment, then why are over 90% of marriage proposals made by men? First of all, most women only experience men, so that's the only gender they can find in their experiences to have commitment phobia... when all along women have the same problems as well and they don't recognize it because they are focused on the "men". And for all to know, there is no such thing as "commitment phobia", it's just a sign that it's simply...

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Women: what sort of things would make you lose respect for the guy who you are dating? Lying and being sneaky. The first step of trust is already broke and that person obviously does not respect me enough to not lie, therefore, I've lost my trust in that person.

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He says he wants a break, to focus on his job, he's military, and his girls. Do I hang on? We exchanged things the other day, he didn't look too sure, even said he hoped he was doing the right thing. Normally, this means he is not sure you are the right one for him. When someone says they need to focus on other things, it's their nice way of letting you know it's not going to work. It is something most don't want to hear, but however, a fact. If you were someone he found really special in your life, there would be no way he wouldn't have room for you to be a part of his...

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My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years now, we have 2-2 year olds and just bought a house. Our relationship has been very hard and rocky. He recently told me he cheated on me with my BEST friend. He says he has changed. What should I do? It's hard enough to swallow the fact your spouse cheated on you, much less than with your BEST FRIEND!! Of course he's changed... temporarily. He doesn't have anyone in mind to screw right now. But beware, because the time is more than likely to come again. The worst thing that could ever happen to him or your so called friend is to never have a relationship with you again and...

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I work several jobs, one of which is freelance and which pays the most but spasmodically. I have regular bills plus the usual out of the ordinary things like car breakdowns, doctors bills etc. How can I be better organised to pay them? It would be of great help to have two separate checking accounts. One for bills only and the other for other needs and obstacles. The "bills only" account should be set up to pay debts automatically on as many items as you can with checks only and no debit card. While the other account will be the only one you will have a debit card to. Each time you get a pay check put it in the...

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Ex-husband is going to let our 14 yr old daughter's boyfriend sleep over his house during his weekend. He says that he will be on couch & will stay there. I was told "It's my house, my rules if you don't like it tough". I don't like it what can I do? Arg... I wouldn't like it too much either and definitely wouldn't have it in my home. There is no law saying he can't and what your ex-husband's rules are, are his as long as it's nothing that is physically, emotionally or mentally harmful to your daughter. I wonder if he would make all decisions WITH you based on the needs of your child and compromise?

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I am looking for a new direction in my life. I am bored with me , my partner is bored with me and if i dont change something soon things will go pear shaped. I am 47 and still fit and healthy. I just need to go out and do something on my own. Help please? Definitely do things that involve your partner. Let him/her see that you have ideas and things happen because you are with a plan. I'm in the same situation with my bf and he is 47 as well.. yet, I'm 10 years younger and now bored a lot. I love him... However, I am not used to laying around or doing the same things over and over... Therefore... I'm BORED. I want to go camping,...

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How do most guys like girls? Well, they generally want to talk to you often... and hang around you by their choice. That would be a good start to know if he likes you. :-)

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My cat is sluggish and not eating. He has some discharge from the corners of his eyes. He is 8 and remains indoors. I am taking him to the vet on Monday, but does anyone have an idea what may be wrong with him? It sounds like maybe he got into some poison, like pestisides or cleaner. He will definitely need to go to the vet for that. My cat got into ant spray once and had the same symptoms. They gave him a shot and some medicines and within days he started feeling a lot better. So, he really needs to be treated.

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Can you think of bands that just should have never really been formed? Cinderella (80's)

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Where does one can spare parts for a broken heart? The spare parts are free flowing in your chest waiting on YOU to repair it. It's an awful feeling to get a broken heart, but it's definitely not the end of the world or the WORSE thing that could ever happen to you. While this sounds easier said than done, it's the matter of how you force yourself to doing fun things again with your friends are getting out and dating. Do things...

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My boyfriend cheated in the past, i found out & he confessed everything. He says he will never cheat on me again cos it made him realise that he could lose me but i keep dreaming that hes cheating on me again? Is it a sign saying he will cheat on me again It's not a sign that he would cheat again, but a sign of the trust being broken. Once someone has traumatized a relationship in such a manner you tend to have a lot of "scared" thoughts that they will do the same thing again and therefore it subconsciously returns into your dreams. Chances are, they could again. It's now a decision whether or not you can have a relationship...

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I have an itchy neck and chin and am having a slight shortness of breath. I do have allergies. Is this all from the allergies or is there perhaps something else wrong? It definitely sounds as if you are having an allergic reaction to something you have touched. Take some Benedryl and it will help make the rash go away and then use an anti-itch topical to relieve the itching. If your breathing gets any worse... seek immediate help.

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Do you think it's stupid of me to be hurt because my fiancee who I've been with for two years does not know my eye color (which is brown) and he guessed blue TWICE? And is it ridiculous of me to be hurt because he said D34 bra size is every guys fantasy? Uh, I would be quite offended if my fiance' did not know my eye color!! He obviously is physically not in to you if he doesn't know your eye color and his boob size preference is something other than what you already have. I know he is not speaking for ALL men, because I've met a lot that prefer smaller breasts. He's speaking for those who has similar taste. Ask him this......

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Me and my wife for five years, have had a bumpy relationship. we have been separate for two weeks and she wants me to show her that i do love her what can i do to show her that she is my world. Does she know that you are probably needing the same from her as well? This is a two-way street and you both have to meet in the middle with your actions. Talk is cheap... being faithful, honest, loving, caring and in tune of each other's needs makes you both realized you are loved by one another and that's all you really need.

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Do you keep an open mind when taking parenting advice from others? Absolutely! When I gave birth to mine, they didn't come into this world with handbooks strapped to them.

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Why do people think childfree women are selfish and are not open to relationships? Most assume that because they only have themselves to ultimately think about and take care of while the mothers feel they sacrifice all of themselves for their children.

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I need a word for muscular Stout

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I'm seeing someone atm and she actually means nothing to me. I'm just using her as a tool to help get over my ex, which is actually impossible to do. I need to break it off before I hurt her but I don't know how to do it - can you help me? The damage is done... You've already hurt her before she is ever told. Now, be honest and she will hurt for a short time because she'll find you as a creep and it will help her to get over it quicker. Fudging it will be hurtful more than telling the truth.

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What are two things that just HAVE to go hand in hand? Toilet & toilet paper

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If you have a car that has upgraded speakers, tv, and rims, and that car is repossessed, can the owner take back the upgrades? No... anything and everything in that car is no longer yours. It's considered to be on their "property" and they are now in possession of it. Sorry to hear that.

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My boyfriend said that he likes an independent woman but the more independent and less needy I become the more he fights with me and tries to control me. He now says that if I don't give up all of my friends and family he will leave me. Okay.. um... you need to nip that relationship in the bud. He's either really trying to test you... which I doubt or he is a very controlling her person and that is never a good sign for a future with him.

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Girlfriend has had illicit sexual text messages on her phone of which involved her by the nature of the txt. she saved them in phone for me to see? and denies cheating ? do you think she has? Not neccessarily. She may have had the conversation... but by her saving them for you to see, it sounds like she is trying to make you jealous. Do you compliment her enough and give her plenty of attention? Women seem difficult that way and most are pretty high maintenance of it.

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Why would a man get angry when his mate compliments him & tell her that there is something wrong with her not just once but each time she tries to say something nice. As an example, you are so handsome, or you look good when you come home from the gym. He obviously lacks self-confidence and he doesn't believe you because he doesn't feel "handsome". It's not angry so much as it is him probably thinking you are only saying it to be nice, rather than meaning it. And if you do mean it... which I'm sure you do... He's just self-conscious and needs to work on that with himself or simply learn to just say,...

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Whats the difference between loving someone, and being in love with someone? in a relationship, my man said he loved me after only 2 weeks, but he didn't fall in love with me until 8 months later, why would he say he loved me if he wasn't in love with me? In other words, he was fond of you... In the sense that he loved you enough only to make the decision to move forward and see what could come of your relationship. Over time, his love grew stronger for you and he fell IN love, meaning he's doing whatever it takes to now keep the relationship and love you through the good and bad. You are a lot more tolerant of someone you are IN love with...

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Why can I just not walk away from him? Because you are simply stuck in a zone called, "habit". It's like trying to quit smoking or over-eating. Until you put your foot down to walk away from the situation you will always be in it and addicted, rather than it being something "healthy" for you. Once you take the right step...each day DOES get better, although it may not seem like it.

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Do you think waiting to be financially stable is a good reason to wait to get married? or do you think its just another excuse? if 2 people love each other why not get married right away? if they already have been together for at least a yr? It could take someone years to be financially stable. That should not be the reason, however, if it's the case of just saving money to have enough to have a nice wedding and honeymoon... then there is no needing in rushing to get married right away. Those are pre-marital special moments you can still share and grow together while you are in the process of saving up so it won't put a...

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I'm having problems with my boyfriends past, he was into the drug/party scene and has done things and been with girls just because he didn't care. its hard for me to forget his past even though he isn't like that anymore and treats me good. what do i do? It may be something that you truly don't care for, however you feel maybe he's had some sort of past unlike yours as if he's had more memories and fun and it's what he thinks about often and it may make you feel like you are competing against something. However, the best thing for you to do is pay attention to how he treats you... Who he is when he is with you and his deep...

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In what ways would you reach out to a person whom you believed to be suicidal? When someone I know went through that... I pointed out the truth. I never said, "It's going to be okay"... I simply said, "You are allowing life and other people control your feelings and finding a way out that will never resolve errors. The best thing you can do for yourself is find your OWN answers and then help others how to"... He did... and he's emotionally...

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If you are old enough-What comes to mind when you think of the 70's? Definitely rock n' roll.

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My boyfriend and I have been living together in a serious relationship for more than a year. He knows I want to get married and have kids - He said he wanted it to. I'll be 27 this month; he's 31. Should I spend anymore time on him and our relationship? Well, you shouldn't stop now if you are both wanting the same thing. Give it to it's 2nd year mark of your relationship. See if he agrees with that... To get engaged and not married and then marry one year following your engagement. You can't rush love and what is meant to be... But you can try to plan a date together where you both have an understanding.

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In order for me to keep under 100,000.00 at my current bank for insurance, should I open another account at another bank for their insurance coverage? Your SS# is tied to your account no matter where you bank and it can be looked up under all banking.

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What do i do if my partner of 7 years(i have a child with)want's me for life and i dont want the same.? i have moments where i am madley in love with him then others where i want to leave him just to see if i can manage! It sounds as if you still have the love for him it requires to have a relationship further than what you already have... But you haven't been married to him and have an easy way out now that everything is comfortable between the two of you. Picture your life without him... The things you two do together, how you feel with him gone at night and go from there. If you have a hard time seeing...

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Any reason why myspaceIM or myspace and any of its sites or links aren't working as of June 8, 2008, 7:30 A.M Central time? And it's still down... I just tried again too. I think they are doing some heavy maintenance on the site and they took out the IP address in the mean time to keep from any access to get the job done. They will come back soon. It's happened before.

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I've been with my guy for 7 years and never questioned his commitment to our relationship. But this last year i found out he messed around with his sisters bff. When i confronted him said they just made out and didn't have sex. Should I leave or stay? Oh that's a tough one. Well, surprisingly... for now on you are going to have to question his intensions and commitment to you. This depends on whether or not you can spend years going through this. Making out is just as good as sleeping with them to me. They crossed a line they shouldn't have. I couldn't live my life worrying if it's going to happen again and if it's...

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My boyfriend and I both agree that if you are in a serious relationship and/or married to someone that it's completely ok to have each other's passwords online whether it's email, myspace, etc. What is everyone else's opinion of this? If there is trust in a relationship, why do you feel you need each other's passwords and spy on each other? That only causes more deception and then something that becomes very possessive and unhealthy. If the both of you can use the computer in a mature fashion without going beyond relationship rules and borders, you'll be okay not knowing EVERYTHING about each other's time...

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I hate it when my bf holds my hand. It makes me really uncomfortable. I've never had a problem with it before? What does it mean? Help! It can only be one of two things.. Either you don't like him as much as you'd like or he has really clammy hands.

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Tonight, when you go to bed, and begin drifting off to sleep. I will jump out of your closet and yell SURPRISE!! How will you react? Pull out my revolver on instinct and blow you away. I don't expect anything jumping out of my closet and then live. :-)

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Our adopted teens (18,19) have strong 'you owe us' attitude. $ is very tight so we want them to get jobs to earn $ for clothes & save for car. We've made sure each have min. $70 per week, so they do have $. is this horrible? they think so. They are adults. They shouldn't be receiving allowance from their parents any longer.... They should be going to work even if they have to walk to get there. I have a now 20 year old daughter, who better work if she wants to make it in her life and 16 year old son who is old enough now to go to work and make his own money. The only way they will learn and really appreciate you down the...

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How many houses are for sale on your street? None now... The one's that were took it off of the market, due to the economy. They are only remodeling (I do that for a living) and waiting a couple of years to sell now.

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You take the good, you take the bad, you take them both and there you have ____________? Fill in the blank. A well-balanced meal.

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What is your reaction when someone says "DUH!" to you? "BACK THE TRUCK UP" is what I'd say... Like they never said or did something stupid or never would again. :-)

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Pro-abortion or Anti-abortion, why or why not? There was no such thing way back in the years and people had their children whether they wanted to or not. That's obviously how they are created and like then... people make the decisions to put themselves in such risk for something they are not ready for. I am anti if it was a mutual decision to have sex without all of the protection possible, but glad there is the technology of undoing...

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Should I waste 30$$ of gas, then another 30$ for alcohol then 10$ for smokes.... to go get drunk with my friends to forget how much my girlfriend's an uncaring bitch? Or stay at home and feel completely worthless? Uh... You'll probably feel more worthless when you end up broke while recovering from a hangover. The best thing to do is save your money and spend your time evaluating your relationship and whether you need to ditch the bitch or learn to put up with it... And if she's that bad... I'd turn the other cheek.

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Would you stay with your husband if he cheated on you while you were pregnant? It was purely physical, there were no emotions or relationships. We are both willingly in therapy now to get through it. It's always pretty much "purely physical"... Cheaters are cheaters to me and there is no amount of therapy that would make me want to trust that person and continue a life-time relationship with. I prefer someone who is as loyal as me and forget that part of drama all together. It's okay to have fantasies, but acting on them is a whole other beast. Good luck with counseling...

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Has anyone ever heard a strange phrase that they have no idea what it mean? for example, i recently heard a man say "Shut up, or i'll beat you like a red-headed stepchild!" (he said that to his freind, not his child) I sometimes say, "I'm busier than a one-armed woman painting a house". :-) That's pretty busy... because she's only has one hand to paint an entire house with.

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After 4yrs my girlfriend broke up with me again I have try to get back by visiting and sending her messages. She said she wanted to be alone. Now she has a new boyfriend. How can I get over it? Time gets you over it.. but it's what you do with your "time" during the process of healing. Find things to do that make you happy... each day gets easier. Allow it to keep making you a better person, rather than giving you sour thoughts about relationships all together... That way, you'll find years down the road you'll be in a long, good and healthy relationship and...

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I can't live with you. I can't live without you. Which one is better? Are you screwed either way? The thoughts should always be, "I can live regardless"... it doesn't take another person to be able to "live"... You are responsible for your own happiness. Either you can see yourself with a particular person over the course of years, or you can't. You hurt or get hurt... Either way... You still live.

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My computer wont even read a dvd but will read a cd and install games i have a dell optiplex gx240 can anyone give me answer of what the problem is? Pluss i got it from the school. It sounds as if you only have a dvd reader and not a cd/dvd reader/burner. You would have to go purchase that to read dvd's and burn them.

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What's one of the most important things you try to get across to a man or woman on a date? What I "don't want" in my life and or potential relationship. I can't ever say what it is I REALLY want because I'm still learning... However, I definitely know what I don't want.

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Im pissed. Tonight my GirlFriend is going to dinner and a movie with another guy. I told her it extremely bothers me, and that she has no respect for me if she does it. She says that the guy is probably gay, and there only friends. What should I do? Very wrong of her and disrespectful of your relationship. I would not stand for it and let her know before she goes. If she insists on going, she obviously could care-less about what and how you feel.

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My husband is making me leave my home. I am seeing someone. But this is my home and I have a 17 year old son, that wants me here. We sleep in seperate rooms. But he says i have to go. He has become very verbal., harrassing me every second he can. First thing is first... You should've started "seeing" someone when you left, not while you are still in the home of your husband. He's hurt and you can't blame him for wanting to get as much distance between you as he can. It's not healthy for your child to know and see this and let him think it's "ok" behavior, when it's not. You'll need...

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My new friend at work (2months) claimed she was VERY Christian yet told me she was leaving her husband because they argue more since she started working. (B4 she had in home day care). As a christian shouldn't she try to work it out/forgive? To me... arguing does not justify a divorce. You are going to continue to argue about the same thing over and over until you resolve the problem. It sounds like they are just giving up rather than keeping what they vowed for.

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Im so afraid to talk to this guy I like and He likes me back.How do I talk to him Instead of just Texting? Just simply be yourself with confidence and don't worry about how you will "sound" and it will all happen naturally. Texts are impersonal and not an easy way to get to know another person. That's useful for those who already know you and understand your personality when you send a message through.

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How do I stop my hair from frizzing up in the humidity? I take a shower at night, and sometimes I straighten it in the morning. I tried hairspray, conditioner, those anti-frizz things, nothing ever works! Humidity is a mean climate... there's not much you can do but pin it up. Washing it daily takes the healthy oils out of your hair and can keep it dry and more brittle over time. Try washing your hair every two to three days. I know that's hard for a lot of people to do, but they don't realize how much natural oils they are washing out and will need the older they get.

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I have O negative and RH negative blood. I am also anemic and two months pregnant. What kind of problems can this cause for me? My daughter went through the same thing... There is a shot called, "Rhogam" the doctor should have you take to prevent any illnesses for you or the baby and then they check you and the baby again after birth... but all should be okay and you shouldn't have any further complications.... so, don't spend time worrying... that's not healthy for the baby. :-)

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Is there an expiration date on cologne, after shave, body spray, or body wash? Here is what I found: (Good question) When To Throw Away a Fragrance Fragrances, in what may be a surprising revelation to many, do not last for an infinite amount of time. Like many other things in life they will eventually go bad. They will, over time, lose their qualities and eventually turn to something you certainly don’t want to smell like. How, though, do you know when its...

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My boyfriend is 30 and I am 21 and he moves really fast. He is already talking about marriage, and our lives together and I don't know what to say. I tell him I need to go slow and sometimes I feel he wants the image of wife and kids, not me. Advice? He's older and right at the age where he feels he needs to start the next phase of his life... You are way too young and need to experience more life for yourself. If you could see yourself married in 5 years then tell him you love him, but you want to make the right steps in the right time that is good for you... You need a little time to catch up.

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During a discussion, my ex told me that a woman he cheated on me with, makes him happy and I don`t.I got hurt and told me to leave me alone.He then called me to ask me to meet like nothing ever happened.If i don`t make him happy why does he contact me? First off... HE CHEATED ON YOU... There is no loyalty and trust there... the relationship is doomed. Tell him to stop contacting you and that you are in the process of searching for that special someone you can easily make happy being just who you are without them being deceitful. He's only contacting you because his new relationship has become comfortable and boring.

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It is easy to break a heart when you make a decision based on your moment of change..Have you ever done so without any thought of their pain but later realising your infliction and regretted your decision dearly? Have you received this pain from another? I have received this pain... The guy up and dumped me and I never knew WHY... However, he later regretted it and wanted to rekindle our relationship.. But I was too afraid to go through that again and did not get back with him. As far as when I broke a heart, it was for a pure fact of not being able to see myself spend the rest of my life with that person.

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Can you say a complete sentence with out using the letter "E"? I can not wait for Friday! :-)

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Have you "fallen in love" with someone, within a few weeks of meeting them? Yes, and beware of that kind of love. You are falling in love with the "new" of the relationship and not the good and bad of it... It's nice to feel connected to someone right off the bat... but it's safe to evaluate it for a little while as well.

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What do you do if your attracted to someone, you don't want to be attracted to? How do I stop these feelings? Make up something about them... Pretend they have a weird problem that is a total turn-off for you and then tell yourself in your head of this problem when you are around that person. Then just feel confident of who you are when you are around and it will start to vanish a little. It's normal... don't worry... but if it's something you shouldn't act on... Don't. :-)

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What do you think is wrong with the world? It's busy... everyone is a busy little bee... BUSY, BUSY, BUSY... Way too busy. The hustle and bustle of things have over-worked the mind to keep from maintaining a good balance...

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I have been dating a really nice guy for 2 months. It slightly bothers me that he always expects me to pay my half. I am a student and have told him about my tight budget. Should I ask him straight out why he expects me to always pay for myself? Well, if you are like me... which is a bit "old school" and don't hang your bra on any antenna... Meaning you are not for the Women's Lib... Then it's probably bothersome when your date doesn't pay for your meals. However, today, men are well-aware of this "women's lib" and some are pretty careful with it. Which is respectful on their part......

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I have a round face and my hair is dead straight any styling tips to give me that great look There is a couple of things you can do... A "stacked" bob length hair cut or layered cuts...as shown...

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I have decided to write a novel but I have no idea on what the plot should be. I have tried thinking and brainstorming and even just writing on 'impulse'. No success. Any basic ideas? It often helps to be in a serene and quiet place, close your eyes and find a story in your head... without brainstorming (thinking too hard), something should come to you easier. Is it a romance novel, mystery..etc.? Whatever it may be, the beginning should start with your imagination.

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How can I convince my friend's mom that I am NOT having sex with her old and balding husband? She is convinced that all of her daughter's friends did while she was living in a separate location, and is not letting anyone come over because of that. Oh, that's just sad. Did anyone sleep with him??? There's really nothing you can do to convince her. It sounds as if she's pretty set on her decision.

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I am cheated by a company ARN Limited in UK,bought phones but not delivered, i send them 1450$, if anybody can help me, pls reply? It sounds like you were totally robbed and not much you can do about it unless you do some things that require time and would only help other people rather than getting your money back. Such as reporting it to the news.... Locating the offices of the UK.... etc.

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How do you know if you're still in love with a person, or if you just love them? I've been with my partner for two years and the feeling is different now. I don''t feel any excitement when seeing him? is this normal I am going through the SAME thing at this moment. I totally miss the "new" of the relationship... Who he was when we were first going out together. Now it's so relaxed and we are way comfortable with each other.. he's lost the affection and it's almost as if I have to ask for it. I suppose adding some spice to it will bring in some fond memories and making a habit of...

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Where are the common places to missplace something? I've lost my phone! Public bathroom... restaurant... under the couch cushions... in the closet....under a car seat ?

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Can a guy really "let go" of an Ex gf? My guy says I've nothing to worry about, there's nothing there emotionally for his ex gf's. The other day I informed him that one is now engaged and he responded with a display of silence and disappointment. WTF? There is probably still some emotional attachment... But it doesn't mean he is still in love with her. It's natural to feel that way and truly, you may have nothing to worry about. Allow him some room for unresolved feelings. They will pass.

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After you and your S/O broke up, how long before you deleted them from your phone and such? Pretty much immediately to move on quicker. I'm not much for dwelling and making things linger, longer than neccessary. I have a 3 day rule to be over things.

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What are three things that would cause you to end a friendship? 1. Steal from me 2. Tunnel visioned (Self-centered) 3. Dramatized life (Drama lover)

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My girlfriend of about 2 months recently forwarded some half naked pictures of herself to another guy. He lives in Florida, and we are in Washington, and she said she just thought it would be a thrill, and she never expected to see him again. Forgive? Sure you can forgive... But, I would wonder what would have happened if you never found out and how far she would've went. Also, is she complaining about any troubles in your relationship? Lacking confidence? Self-conscious? Needing attention or compliments? Ask her these things to see if there is something you could do to prevent these feelings. Then tell her what you won't allow in...

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What is turning my copper pipes silver then black after only a few days of installing them? Hmmm...I am wondering if it's even real copper. I have copper pipes throughout my house and the only thing I see is the sulfer in the water causing pinholes in them... (A constant problem).

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Are you a loving person? Absolutely! I don't mix well with heartless people.

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What' s the worst snack food that you know is really bad for you that you eat anyway? French fries.

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Is it cheating when your husband is texting and sending photos and videos of masturbaing to and from other women? He might as well stick it in her... He'd get more out of it... that's CHEATING period and I would tell him to go get whatever he wants elsewhere, so he will stop disrespecting you, let alone.. your body.

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Why do women go through the most pain, such as period pain, labour pain e.t.c So we can get to heaven faster. Not to mention... it all has to do with men... "MENstration", "HIStorectomy", "MENtal"...etc.

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Why do guys always lie about their height? I have been out on five blind dates all have lied about their height by an easy 3 to 4 inches and I have had other women tell me the same. Haha... This has happened to me quite often... The tall guys always seemed to have told the truth.. but the shorter ones underestimated their height by several inches. It's an ego thing... They don't want to be shorter than 6 feet... but lying about it, surely won't make them grow.

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My girlfriend only mentions me to a few of her closest friends. To all her other friends (mostly online) she will talk about what we did, but not include me. What does this mean? Also, I had to force her to change her Myspace status It means she's still not sure about you for her long-term. She's still "single" minded although she has a boyfriend. Time will tell which way this will go. You shouldn't force her to change things such as her MySpace status...etc. That will only make her feel pushed to make decisions she's not ready for. You just need to get a clear and affirmed answer on what her...

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Do you have a window to look out of at work? Lucky me... I have a few windows... I drive my car all day. :-)

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My wife says I'm smothering her, which of course means I'm not holding the pillow over her face hard enough. How do I keep her from fighting me? It sounds like she needs some space for some reason or another without questions. There is obviously something going on in her mind and she may just need a little room to think. Give her time... she'll come back around in one way or another and the reason will come out as well.

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What is your opinion on daycare versus alternative at home care? They both make me nervous, but if I had to go back in time and remembering I tried both... I think I would stick with the daycare as opposed to someone's home... Unless it was a trusting relative. In a daycare there is more than one adult to keep an eye not only on the child, but on the other adults as well. As sad as it sounds, it seems safer. I would study the daycare for a while... I...

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When your in love with someone who constantly hurts you emotionally and is verbally abusive every other day, and you feel like you want to be with them forever.. how do you decide to stay or go? My g/f makes me feel amazing and horrible on a daily basis.. It's verbal and emotional abuse and the only way it's going to stop is if you walk away from it. It sounds as if she is taking advantage of you and taking your love for granted as well. It's easy to get caught up in such abuse, but you HAVE to have the strength to put your foot down and let her know what you are not going to stand for and what your limitations are.

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I have been talking to this guy on the internet. We started talking through a dating site. After several times of talking he sent me one the other day that stated he wanted me to be his life time partner. Is this possible being we haven't even meet. I find that to be kind of weird. No one can determine that via Internet. Watch out for things like that.. those are the ones you definitely want to avoid. Talk to someone who doesn't speak of those things.. other than great conversation and would like to meet sometime.

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Is being a hopeless romantic (believing that love truly does conquer all believing in soulmates etc) necessarily a bad thing? Some of my friends think I am a sucker for still believing in what they see as fairy tales. What's your opinion? I do believe there is the fairy tale of it.. However, it can be that tale if you find someone who shares your thoughts and views. You can have one powerful relationship if you are both hopeless romantics... but many people have experienced enough in life that they have a "bad taste" about that sort of thing. Stay open and keep searching for that "special" someone to share...

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I’m dating a girl who is very shy and doesn’t talk much. I asked her why, and she said there just wasn’t much to talk about. Is there a way to make her talk? You can't change someone's character. There are obviously a HUGE selection of characters out there.. and not into idle chit chat is one of them. If you are patient enough, she will get to know you and share all of her thoughts with only you eventually.. But for now... she's the type that has to warm her way up.

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Yesterday, Today, Tomorrow what do you always do daily? Definitely shower!

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Is a guy a jerk when he's like, "Man, I have to take care of you now?" Not saying it, but implying it. In a general way. It truly depends on whether he was be playful or not. If he wasn't, I find it to be cruel. If he was, ask him to joke when it's not on your expense.

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How do i tell this girl im sorry, after i hurt her feelings, and now she wont even listen to me, or let me talk to her. please i love this girl, and i cant let her go. Write a letter without sounding desparate. Include in the letter that you made a mistake as everyone does and you know yours didn't make sense to do, however, you are crazy about her and by your last attempt of writing her, you understand if she'd rather not contact you anymore, although you hope to hear from her.

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Can you tell if he or she is the right one for you by the first kiss? To me, someone could be one hell of a kisser... But it means nothing over time and they end up being total jerks. Hopefully, everyone can mutually fall in love with a great kisser! :-)

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What is the meaning of 'Slainte'? How is it properly pronounced? It means, "Cheers!" and it's pronounced, "slawn-tche"

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I had a friend at work who is being led astray by people who don't really care for her. She used to be a nice person, but, now, she is getting a bad rep. I tried to talk to her, but she took it wrong and now we don't speak. I miss her. How can I help her? It would probably be helpful to write her a letter. Non-judged letter and heart-to-heart. Let her know that you loved her friendship and you care about what happens for her in her life. Let it be heartfelt and if you don't get a response... simply walk away. You did your part and all you can... She is more than likely old enough to know the difference between right and wrong and it will be...

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What are things a person says which make them boring? "I LOVE to lay on the couch all night and watch tv, evertying else is too chorey and does not interest me"...

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How do you make a girl approach you and say something? A lot of girls are too shy to approach a guy and you can't just MAKE them do it. It has to be your first move and maybe a little work, but not over done to get her attention more. Girls love confident gentelmen.

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If any info is wrong on a ticket can i beat it? Only if you can prove it! It's usually their word over yours.. and without proof, accept the fact and move on.

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Are your views set in stone or written in the sand? Rigid mindset or flexible and open to new ideas? My views are in both sand and stone. When it comes down to morals, common sense and respect... I'm in stone.. However, when it comes down to a debate on a certain situation... I'm all ears. I consider myself flexible in what others feel or think.

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Are handkerchiefs out of style? In my opinion, they are not in style. For some reason, they remind me of my grandfather... :-)

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Do you think I should move to New York or Los Angeles? Which is the better city? Personally... I LOVE NY! I used to travel there from the south 6 months out of the year and still couldn't get enough of it. There are so many different people and there....... it's okay to be. I think that's nice.

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Ilove my husband we had some issues in our marraige i see what i did wrong and have changed myattitude- during that time he had a 3 wk affair- he told me and we started to work on our marraige then she told him she is pregnant,now he says he needs space First off, there is nothing you could've done wrong enough for him to have had an affair on you. He should have left first if it was that miserable for him. Also, you two should have worked on whatever the problem was BEFORE hand, rather than after the fact... He should have suggested that. It's sad what he has done and now the problem is even bigger. Set limitations for yourself and...

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Can someone please help me? I'm looking for a blackberry phone with unlimited text messages. I don't care about the internet. What's the best phone & plan for a 16 year old. Unlimited text messaging is a must. She's going through minutes fast You should get the new Sprint, $99 unlimited plan. It's unlimited EVERYTHING for a flat monthly payment.

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Why do women prefer the jerk over the nice guy? This is not a fact. Most NICE girls want nice guys.. apparently, you are meeting the "player" girls. Keep looking... You'll find what's best for you in due time.

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Would this bother you? Your watching TV with your BF/GF, a good looking person comes on and they don't hesitiate to say how cute, sexy etc they are..and it's not like once and a while it's like every time, and they don't even compliment you like that.. I think it's VERY disrespectful and not cool in my book. We all feel self-conscious enough as it is and try our best to hide it with confidence... it's helps the matter NONE for someone to be that way to their supposedly special person in their life. I wouldn't like going out with someone like that and who can't hold their tongue when necessary.

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I am feelin movement in my stomach and i know i am not pregnant i havnt done anything to get pregnant i have had them for a couple of days i have had diareha took to pregnancy test both negative what could it be It may be gas bubbles? Sometimes those boogers like to roam around and not exit.

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Are you an over protective parent? I was over protective when my children were little and really learning things. I was stuck on them like GLUE... but now, one is grown and the other two are teenagers and I have slacked a lot for them to learn to make their own decisions, sense I helped guide them through their young years. They have to know fear when they are around dangerous things.

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I broke up with soemone because I no longer wanted a serious relationship. I'm now in another relationship. I want this to work but somehow it feels as if I've carried on with the old relationship. In some ways I want it to all just end! What should i do? If you weren't ready for a serious relationship with the first person... then you may still not be serious for the current person. Sometimes, it's best to not date anyone for at least 6 months to re-evaluate what it is you really want.

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Whats a good age to start dating? Double dating with friends at 16 and venturing out on your own dates around 17.

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Why would you vote for Senator McCain? Why not? I believe this is the first time we've been in such a presidential controversy... The odds are too high in either party. At any rate... we all should choose someone.. You are merely placing your vote, by not voting at all... meaning letting the one you really DON'T want to win... win. This is a sensitive conversation.. However, from my point of view.. McCain seems to have more of what...

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What do you do when you watch a movie and then when you try to sleep you get too creeped out? i try telling myself that im just being stupid but im such a baby about that stuff, i get all tense and cant move or close my eyes haha. help! i need to sleep! Many people go through that. But I would suggest you spending the last 30 minutes before you go to bed reading something to take your mind off of it. It's the same as telling someone to not drink coffee or caffinated drinks past 7 o'clock.

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The past 3 week I have visit my doctor due to RLQ tendness. The pain begin at my belly button the travel to my right side. I notice change in my bowl, nause and pain when I walk. I had CT scan my appenendix was not visible is that a problem? My age 57 Has your doctor checked your gall bladder? Do you still have it? It sounds like the pain I had with my gall bladder, then I had to have it removed.

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I'd love to have a pet bird, like a parrot of some sort. I have never had one(except parakeets) but I super love animals. Is it very hard to learn to care for larger birds? Plus, I know it will outlive me, since I am in my 50's. Too late for this? Of course it's not too late for it! :-) Whether if it's high maintenance or not, it sounds as if you are really wanting one and regardless... I think you'll do well with it and it's something that will be good for you.

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My gf has a double chin...she is very slim and sexy, but her double chin is making me not finding her attractive anymore. I don't like it. It's not massive, but when she looks at certain directions it's looks very bad....what can I do. It sounds as if you are being way too picky into her looks, rather than what you feel about her. When you love someone, you don't notice these things as badly. Are you sure you're in love?

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What should you do if your partner starts playing mind games? Sit back and evalutate the situation before saying or doing anything. See where it is stemming from. Do your best to not be naive during this time... Don't ignore it, but don't start playing back. You'll have your answer in due time.

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I am considering joining a swingers club with hubby of 10yrs. My hubby and i have decided he to not have intercourse with the other female party, but he can join in with her hubby, pleasure wise. Is this a good thing for the realationship/not? Current stable relationship or not... It will end in a divorce. Especially, as easy as it is to these days. I wouldn't go there... share the fantasy in bed together and leave it at that.

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What are some good songs that express a hidden love? "Secret Lovers" by Atlantic Starr or "Part Time Lover" by Stevie Wonder

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OKAY I HAVE A BIG BUMP ON MY VAGINA THAT WONT GO AWAY.....ITS BUGGING ME. I TRIED POPPIN IT BUT THAT DOES NOTHING. MY FIREND SAYS IT COULD BE A WART. OR BOIL I HAVE NO CLUE. WHAT COULD IT BE. I NEED ANSWERS PLEASE If it's sore and is under the skin, it's more than likely a boil.. Which is common. You can pop it in time, but the best thing is doing it in a really warm bath... Warm/hot water tends to release the fluids and pressure. If it's on top of the skin, you may want to go to the gynocologist. It could be either skin tags which are a sort of mole or a STD like venereal warts.

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Do you believe in couple's counseling, or do you think you shouldn't try to fix something that is already broken? I believe that MOST things that can be broken can be fixed, depending on the extremity. Couple's counseling is never a bad idea, they help guide you along. You can give it a shot and if doesn't work out, then at least you gave it everything you had before cutting loose.

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Is it legal for a parent to take away something as punishment that the child bought and paid for 100% of? i would concider that stealing. is it? The parent has every legal right to take away the things that are important to you whether you paid for it, they did or someone else. It's not worth fighting over, they are only trying to teach you something in a way it's hard to understand at this point.

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If you were giving awards this year ~ who would you give them to and what for? As weird as this may sound... My ex-husband. We've been divorced for 11 years... but he's like a brother to me. He spends his weekends and week nights helping others... Whether if he fixes something broke down or helping pick up the pieces of their lives. On top of all that... he's a wonderful father.

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Is it possible to "fall in love" as a teenager? Has it ever happened to you? It's possible... However, the love is far more undefined at that age, than when you are an adult and aware of who you are and what you want in your life and don't want.

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My college student daughter wants her boyfriend to live at home with us for the summer. We said no so they are getting a place of their own. She has an unpaid internship (we agreed that was Ok for this summer) so she needs money to live- what should we do Well, two heads are better than one and sense they were smart enough to decide to get their own place for the summer, I don't see why they can't come up with a "working" idea to get their expenses paid. Let them see the responsibilities of being own their own.. the consequences and how hard it is. It's hard not wanting to help when you are the parent... So, if you...

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Do you think parents are to blame for the way you turn out to be as an adult? I believe they have instilled some things in us, right or wrong... but ultimately when we grow up, we all know the difference between right and wrong and should have full responsibility on how our lives turn out. We can then make those decisions and the way we lean toward... ends up being our own blame or reward.

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What would you like to hear today most of all....and from whom? It would be nice to hear from Ed McMann... Telling me I won the lottery :-)

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Have you reached a point where you feel your mind getting older by thought difference? ... Please explain? Absofreakinlutely! :-) Today, it seems a lot of people give up... I don't remember learning that in the days I was growing up. I'm a bit old school when it comes down to handling certain situations.

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What is something easy, cheap and imaginitive to do with small children? Something we already have around, if possible. They are all under 3 1/2. One thing that I did with mine when they were smaller and we had more month than money... I'd get a big blanket, put it out in the back-yard and have a little picnic. It was fun getting them outside and spending that time together.

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Why do people feel the need to push their idea's, and opinions on everyone? It's more or less of wanting to be heard. It can be quite annoying to hear one after so long, however, it's nice to hear different of opinions because we may actually learn something...whether we believe the other's idea or not.

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What does it mean to be honest with yourself? It's all in the same of being "true" to yourself. To me it means to not fudge the things that are wrong in your life as well as not convincing yourself you are right about something that is total opposite. Make things right for YOU.

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I live in west virginia and my dad told me that if i keep getting into trouble(no major trouble) that he is going to put me in a boys home. If he does, can my grandparents remove me from the boys home? No, your parents have the legal and authoritive right to put you there and keep you there until they and or the home counselors feel you are ready to return home. What kind of trouble are we talking about here?

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What's your #1 concern for the future? Will we actually have the retirment funds needed to keep from being homeless. The way the economy is going, benefits are lowering and purchases are increasing. It's like buying a bag of chips these days at full price for a 1/2 bag of air.

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How can i lose 120lb? im serious about this.? I need an example of what foods to stick by and what foods to not touch. Also for exersize will 1-2 hours of cardio evry other day work? basically if i stuck to a VERY strict diet ( which i know im capable of It's going to take the biggest part of you everyday to succeed at losing the weight you desire. Eat 1/2 of the portions you normally eat every meal. Also, take a daily vitamin to reach the supplement level your body will need to replace what is missing with 1/2 portion meals. Stay away from too much sugars, starchy foods and fried foods and you'll do fine. You can do cardio every...

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How do i know when i am no longer in love? You simply are not feeling it. You can picture your life without that person and feel okay about it.

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If you meet a guy out somewhere say the mall and he makes small talk and ask for your number. How do u decide if you give him it? and he seems nice If he's someone you may be interested in.. go for it. It's only a number... However, I always told a guy I'd rather have his number and I'll call him.

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I cannot find another way to discipline my back talking daughter besides spanking and even that doesn't work. What ways have you used to discipline a back talking, spoiled brat? Everytime she back talks you, walk in her room and take away something that is important to her and tell her why you are doing it and that you will not tolerate disrespect. On top of that take away privileges, such as going outside to play, or talking on the phone. If she is a teen, keep her grounded until she learns something, if she's a small child, continue to let her know what...

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Im working on a project and im using photoshop. i need a name for like a condom company, any suggestions? Ultimate-Pro, RubberUp, Seal-the-Deal

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How do you start off the covering letter for a job?? Is it Dear Sir/Madam or to Whom it May Concern? If you know the person's name, you'll do as follows: Maker & Son's Attn: Johnathon Tyler 555 Street Name City, State, Zip Dear Mr. Tyler ______________________________ However, if you do not know the name, you will do so as follows: Maker & Son's Attn: Human Resources 555 Street Name City, State, Zip To Whom It May Concern: GOOD LUCK! :-)

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I am going through a divorce and the ex is still extremely mad about it. Do you think it is fair for her to limit my time with my son because she is mad at me? We are currently just seperated and court papers haven't been filed yet. If the divorce was your idea... She is apparently pissed about that alone and the only thing she has to hold up in front of you is the separation of the child. Which is NOT good for the child in the long-run. Being despiteful with another human being that is NOT the cause brings trauma to a person's life that didn't deserve it. It's not fair what she is doing.

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A friend thinks they can sing, but they sound awlful, do you speak up? If you aren't honest, you might find your friend being at the "American Idol" tryouts, making a fool out of themselves. There's a way you can send a message across without sounding too harsh... Add humor to whatever you say... For instance, "Don't give up your day job!" Or "Just a few more years and you'll have that song!" :0)

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Im 19. Do you think I'm too old to be wearing gothic, grebby, punky clothing like I used to when I was in my early teens? Your style is your style period. If you like those clothes better.. it's okay. However, if you are wanting to do something a little more simple for work and future reasons.. add some of the punk style within a regular wardrobe. For instance.. if you are just wearing jeans, make sure there are no holes in them and wear a black shirt with punk braceletts. That way you'll get the clean...

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I hate getting pedicures because it tickles when other people touch my feet. What are the best products and techniques for giving myself a pedicure at home? All you need is the simple stuff.. But if you have dry flaky feet, the best lotion to get is called: "Foot Cream" by Neutrogena. Put it on while removing old polish, trimming and filing your toe nails, as well as pushing back the cuticles (Never cut cuticles off). Then wash your feet, paint two coats of your favorite polish color and one coat of clear. Then, once completely dried...

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The A/C is down today in our office here at work and I get naturally hot being pregnant so I am dying already its 82 degrees in here according to my clock, how hot does it have to be for them to send us home!? With you being pregnant is an exception to the rule. You have more than ONE person to think about and it's not healthy to be in a place that makes you feel ill under the circumstances. Don't wait for them to tell you when it's okay for YOU to go home.. Let them know you aren't feeling well and you need to get yourself to a more comfortable environment until the air is back...

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How would you grade your ability to communicate with upper level management, customers, and peers? 100+ - Because I'm not nervous in front of any of them.. I'm not fake nor worried. Upper mgmnt are humans too... They'd rather be around someone who works smart and hard, but has a personality when the mood calls for it. Customers and peers seek your opinion or only your ears.. You have to determine what each one will require to make it through the time you are spending with them.

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If you really like a guy/girl but they have a horrible first name would this effect your decision on going out with them ? why/why not Funny you mentioned that. I was watching the new "Bachelorette" last night and one of the guy's names is "Twilly"... I told my boyfriend I couldn't see having a boyfriend by that name and calling for him throughout the house, hollering, "TWILLY, TWILLY.. come here please". If I fell in love with someone with a weird name, I'd give him a nickname. :-)

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I got grounded because I have B's and two C's. Is this fair? You must've made quite an impression on your parents before letting them know your REAL capibilities. They are probably doing the right thing to help you from losing site of how smart you are and what you can do with that in the long run. It's TOUGH as the kid to understand what the responsibilties detail when you become a grown-up. Take advantage of their guidance and know it's...

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I dont know how to handle this, right after i broke up with my boyfriend his last words to me were "i love you." did he mean it? or was he trying to make me feel bad? Well, it's both... he means it and he's making you feel bad for breaking up with him. It was your decision to let the relationship go... it was all he could say during the exit to let you know exactly what he is feeling.

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If a man asks a woman out for the first time and she says yes, but adds, "This is not a date, just friends going out." , is it clear that she's not interested? It could be one of two things... Either she feels the need to say that because she only wants to evaluate the person before showing interest, or she is already seeing someone else and it's her way of making it right or okay in order to go.

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Is it ok to despise or hate your ex? It's okay to feel resentment... but hating only hurts you in the end. Although, it's natural to feel that way when someone hurts you, controlling your own emotions rather than allowing someone else to keeps you intact of who you are and is less painful than to have all of those hard feelings locked inside yourself.

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My ex broke up with me, 9 months ago, I cheated, a drunken mistake, I owned up. She left and took everything. I called & went to her work and she got me arrested for harrasement. We havent spoke for 6 months, I miss her and want her back, what do i do? There is no doubt that her mind is made up and you are going to have to move on without her. If you two were to get back together... she wouldn't ever trust you again anyhow and it would be one miserable relationship for the both of you. Your best bet is to find a new relationship and learn for your "mistake".

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What can i do to get my boyfriend back? we have split up i finished it and now i really regret it he says now he agrees with what i said before how we dont suit but now i want him back and feel diff i have text him a few times but he wont reply what do? Once we let a relationship go that we spent time in.. it's for a reason and maybe that reason still stands... You are probably just missing the normalcy of that relationship rather than the relationship itself. Your original decision may have been a good idea and now that he doesn't want to get back with you makes you want him back even more. Do yourself a favor and let it go. Move on...

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Do you have a character flaw, you would very much like to change? That's a tough one once you got every one used to you saying "yes"... The first time you ever say "no" expect a bad attitude from them... You MUST learn on your next "easy" task to at least say, "I would love to, but I have already planned to do something else". Make that your test to yourself... even if you are WANTING to do it. Each step will help...

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Would you NOT go to a 2nd wedding or a vow renewal bc u didn't want to buy a gift? We r renewing ours and we don't want gifts but it says not 2 list that on ur invites. Some1 told me they wouldn't go if it didn't say "no gifts" You should list it whether someone thinks you should or shouldn't, if that's important information you want your invitees to know. Otherwise, don't worry about it... you want those to come who WANT to be there regardless.

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After a break-up, how long do you wait before dating again? I would suggest after and only after you realized you learned something from the last relationship whether you were in the right or not and you feel you are emotionally past it. That will give the next person the benefits of a better you without extra baggage.

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After being cheated on,could you ever be 100% over it, or will it always hurt? I will 100% over it as soon as he is out of my face and my life.

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What're somethings you heard from your mom on a regular basis when growing up? "I hope you grow up and have a bunch of kids just like you!"

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We caught our 12 yr old in a small lie. We discussed about being trustworthy and that re-earning trust is harder that earning it. And how admitting to a wrongdoing or mistake can make one more trustworthy. Within 30 min he told another. Any advice? One thing I believe I was good at when raising my children was teaching them about NOT lying. When they are caught in a lie, they are in double trouble. I take things away from them for a week, nag them to no end and then when things calmed down... I explained to them how if they simply told the truth, I would be upset and have a talk with them about the situation, but the trouble wouldn't...

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Is being a parent really hard? Well... Lets see little miss... Um.. YEAH IT'S HARD! :-) But you are so worth it... I'm sure it's hard being a kid to a parent at times too.

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What is the worst thing you could say right before proposing marriage? "You are my main squeeze!"

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I BROUGHT A GIRL TO MY HOUSE THAT MY BOYFRIEND CHEATED ON ME WITH HE SAID HER WAS DONE WITH ME AND WANTED HER SHE DROPPED HIM ONCE SHE FOUND OUT HE HAD A GIRL NOW HE KEEPS SAYING SRY AND WANTING ME BACK WHAT DO I DO I would say, "Uh bu-bye" Adios cheating amigos!"

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Is there a software that can take a scaned documat and converet it to an excel spred sheet(open office)? Adobe... But you have to have the complete package which can be costly, but very useful.

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How do you ask a guy who you met online for more pictures of himself when he said he doesnt have any? "Does your cell take shots and you can send it via email?"

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If you were a drill sergeant, told one to "drop and give me 50", and he takes a $50 bill out of his pocket, drops it on the ground, and gives it to you, THEN what would you do? I'd tell him to give me 50 more until he was broke.

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Why doesn't life come with an instruction manual? Because it's our lives to figure out. Manuals don't cover the many different people. Everyone has an opinion and everyone has options. You can create your own manual.

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What should you never do with your eyes closed? - Funny answers only....... Walk across a busy intersection.

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When a guy says " When I call you, dont say your busy," does this indicate he wants to see u again b/c he "likes" u? or would a guy say this to any girl wether he likes her or not? He obviously wants you to be available to talk to you when he calls because he wants that connection. Of course he is interested in you.

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Have you and your boyfriend ever started play fighting but then he accidentally really hurt you? Yes and sometimes the guys don't realize their own strength and their reactions are at times based on pride or ego by nature. Just make sure you only do some fun rolling around wrestling and just let him win... That way he's where you want him to be both physically and mentally. :-)

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Why won't my fn button on my laptop work? It is unresponsive for any combination of the fn+key. Make sure there is no dust under the key... You can usually pop them out and clean it, but the easiest way is with dust spray to blow it out. If that doesn't work, the best thing to do is take it in somewhere there are experts to avoid further damage.

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What is the worst last name you've heard? "Rottencrotch" (NO LIE)

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This guy keeps flirting with my girlfriend, i told him to stop and he wont, now he wants to fight me. Is there any reason i should hold back from fighting him? There is NO reason to fight. It doesn't solve anything... well, unless you win.. but say you don't... the problem will keep arising and you two will have continuous problems. Try to just simply say, "Dude, not out to fight and not scared, but I think it makes more sense if we just leave this alone and let me and my girlfriend have our relationship".

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How many time did YOU end a relationship? More than I can count. I wouldn't settle for less than I think I deserve. If I find that I love a person, I give it all I've got, but if time shows that we won't be compatible over the years to come, I end it yet again.

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My wife told me she wants to be my slut wife, she has been reserved for 25 married years. how should i encourage this with out being to forward? RRRIIIRREEE! Your wife has reached her peak again! It's up to you to fulfill her needs until she feels satisfied... :-) It could sound a little off to ones who don't expect it or who is not into it like that... but it's a true fact that you will learn to like it too once you get started. New memories can never hurt a couple.

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What did you see in the mirror today? One tired woman!

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Why do we only talk when we are in bed getting ready to go to sleep? Most feel they are getting their partners undivided attention and a little peace and quiet with privacy. Counselors never recommend that... however, I would... ONLY if I knew I didn't have to get up wee hours in the morning. I would feel that's when no one else can over hear my conversation and we are in a comfortable place to discuss whatever it is.

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When you think of Louisiana, whats the first thing that comes to mind? Batonrouge! I took the wrong turn on my way to Florida and ended up there. (???)

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Have you ever seen a elderly person and wondered what kind of life they had when younger? Always. When I am around elderly people, I don't hesitate to ask. I also ask the secret ingredient to their long-lasting marriages. They love for young people to ask them questions... they get lonely and feel the need to share their wisdom. It's good for their heart.

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I want to start a web site,were do i start, any help appriciated. Start with Microsoft Office Live. It's Free! I have one for my business.. you can check it out at www.revampsolutions1.com

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What do you buy someone who's got everything Normally, something unique with meaning to it is all it takes. Such as a photo album, special music CD, something to put their meaningful things in...etc.

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I'm 18 and going to college. If I need medical help because of a car crash who foots the bill? my parents or me? i'm still living at home. I'm a dependent on my parents taxes. nether party's have health coverage. if i'm not a dependent does it change? It doesn't matter whose taxes you are on when it comes down to medical bills. You are legally an adult to the biller and you will be ultimately responsible for your bills. You can be a dependent when it comes down to taxes until you are old and before you die... but it doesn't change the fact that you are now in the system with your social security number at adult age. Hope this helps.

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I let my boyfriend of a year talk to his ex because they were together 5 years before I showed up I didn't think it was my place. Now she texted him that "I kind of miss you" and I feel like its time to stop this? Should I? Or should It's definitely time for him to cut the cord with his ex. They are having conversations that is disrespecting your part of the relationship and in order for him to move on, he has to let her go completely. If he wants to keep you in his life, then he needs to do what it takes in that situation to keep you feel secure.

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I am 44. My guy is getting into photography to pursue it as a part time career. he has joined several sites to network including: www.modelmayhem.com Talks to these attractive women willing to poe nude. Should I beconcerned? It depends on his passion for it as opposed to what other thoughts that could really be going on in his head. It would be very tough for me and I don't think I could have a relationship with someone who has that kind of passion. However, some are okay with it. Check and see how much you can take of it.... Time will only tell.

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What do you ladies find more attractive, honestly. Money / looks / self-confidence? Definitely self-confidence without conceit. It's attractive in itself.

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What is your most irrational pet peeve? Phony people.. those who pretend to be a certain way to get your attention or "love" and they end up being someone else. Very scary.

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I applied for a job online and my boss found out. Since I'm applying to jobs in the field that I'm currently in, I assume my boss found out through colleagues at companies to which I applied. How can I avoid this and still search for jobs online? The best way is to do it from home and don't share any information with any co-workers, even if you think they are your close friend. They say something to someone else and the line of gossip carries on. Your boss can't scold you for wanting to find another job that would be better for you or your future... especially if there is not a non-compete contract you are under.

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What is a good way to keep your self thin and healthy? @(o.o)@ Don't eat junk food and eat more things that are easy to digest, like fruits, soups and salads...Also, come up with a good exercise routine that fits your week! :-)

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Why am I so jealouse of every women that comes in contact with my ex. Is this normal It's normal if you are self-conscious and lack confidence. It's tough training yourself to feel different about yourself... but it's important for you to in the long run.. for YOU. If this is the case... read books, write and tell yourself something good about you every day.

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I caught my girlfriend in bed with the pool guy. She explained to me that it was just an accident. She said their clothes were both really wet and while they were changing "she tripped and he fell". Should I believe her? Accidents CAN happen I guess. Oh yeah.. sure... believe her. These kinds of accidents happen all of the time! ;-)

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How do i win my ex-girlfriend back? it seems shes tired of all of the compliments and lovey dovey stuff. but she is not yet 100% over me. i really want her back. Don't try to win her back... then you'll be lowering your expectations in a relationship. You may want someone who loves the compliments and affection to share your character.

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My boyfriend was contacting women on a website while on business and looking to meet up with them for 'drinks'. He did NOT see any of them. He says he it was a huge mistake and is sorry. Should I forgive him or break up with him? Uh oh... it sounds like you have weak man with a broken zipper... I'd keep an eye out that's for sure.

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What is one thing no one ever told you about getting older, having kids, work, etc? They did tell me it wasn't going to be easy... but they NEVER told me it was going to be THIS hard! :-)

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How do you stop someone from spending money on random things when they're $2000 in debt? You can't just "stop" someone... you can control your own over-spending and help teach another. It's a hard habit to break, but there has to be ground rules for yourself and in your relationship. Or take up a part time job to have extra play money (Whoever the big spender is).

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Freudian test: answer these questions with the very first thing that comes to mind: what is your favorite color and why? what body of water do you like the most (puddle, ocean, etc) and why? what animal do you like the most and why? I will tell u y after! Yellow, it reminds me of the sun Lake, lots of fun things to do Horse, it's beautiful

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How come when your kids come home from school they fight with each other, and scream at each other really loud like we can't hear them, what is going on are they crazy or are they just trying to make us crazy? I think i'mm going to take a bath! Although it feels like they are making us crazy... they are irritated and taking it out on each other. I made my children sit in the living room floor until they gave each other a sweet hug and apologized to one another and exchanged "I love you".. they hated doing that, so they quit fighting.

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My new BF of 2 mos still has his profile on Match & is still getting online. He stopped answering my emails after the 1st time we became intimate (after 1st mo) but calls every night. He waits until the last min. to make date plans ... am I wasting time? Absolutely you are wasting your time! He is simply using you to pass time and fill voids until he finds someone he thinks is better for him. If you stick around, in the end you will be the one to ultimately hurt. Don't give him that satisfaction.

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Do I have to remove wallpaper paste if I am going to paint the walls? They are in good shape and removing the paste is a never ending job. Absolutely you have to remove it. In due time, your paint will only bubble up and it will look horrible. The easiest way to remove it... It to get a bucket of warm water and a sponge... Soak down large sections and go back to the beginning with a puddy scraper and simply slide it right off. Easy as that!

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I just wrote in an answer that I feel like a spring chicken. What the heck does a spring chicken feel like anyway? I would think it feels clumsy, unaware, and naive.

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My ex, whom i'm friends with now, asked me why i left him yrs ago. I told him the truth, it was for someone else, although i never cheated on him physically. I feel terrible and scared i'll lose his friendship. What can i say to make him understand? Just letting someone know you left them for someone else... they will never understand. However, by stating that someone else was simply there during the time you felt that you two weren't compatible enough to stay together... may ease it up some.

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Whats the best way to deal with bad breath? I get self conciense incase I have it. If I do its social suicide, please help! Sometimes i find after brushing my teeth I feel less fresh is that wierd? Try cinnamon chewing gum... I hear it's the best for your situation.

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If everyone on the planet was Homosexual or Lesbian (which i'm no doubt sure they would want) what type of world would it be? A short lived world... We wouldn't be reproducing.

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What color should i paint my room?? im 14yrs old and a girl, my room right now is light purple and im getting sick of it. i know i dont want pink. my room is small so i dont want like a color that will make it look any smaller or weird. you got any ideas? I like this color (below) for a lively room & makes it look bigger. Add any other colors. You could also paint your largest wall a different solid color.

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So I just wrote a letter to my X best friend of 11 years. She got with my boyfriend behind my back while she was married. So is it wrong for me to write her after a year, expressing how I feel? She would probably deserve to hear about it EVERY year actually. That's a horrible thing to do to a friend and to a husband. She's obviously needing to hear it from someone.

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Would you rather be seen or heard? Nature of the beast wants me to be seen... However, being heard makes me feel more like I'm existing. :-)

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I have a hard time forgiving someone when they have done me wrong and end up paying for it myself by getting stressed out. How do i change this? If only we could go through life without anyone doing us wrong. Sadly so, this is a part of our life's growing errors. However, by understanding just that.... learning to forgive that person and keeping your distance will better help your stress level.

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Is emotional cheating worth forgiving. My fiance "emotionally" cheated on me. Should I give him another chance or not? If you are referring to "emotional cheating" in the instance that he is confiding in someone else of the opposite sex where he should be applying that energy and those efforts toward your relationship... That would be a hard one to get over. That in my book is cheating. However, if you are referring it to his emotions wandering in other directions and away from you and your...

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I'm angry with the girl I love and I just want to see her one time, randomly show up say my piece and leave and move on. She doesn't want to see me but this would be the only time I ever see her again. I've had enough, should I do it? If you've had enough and her as well.. there's really nothing else to say, although it seems to be. It won't make you any more right... Move on knowing what you know and feel.

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Girls: Have you ever asked a guy out??? How did you? Also: do you prefer to ask or do you prefer for the guys to? I'm a bit hold fashioned when it comes down to dating and I'd prefer the man to ask me out.. However, I'm not afraid to show my interest to let him know it's okay to ask.

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Having a debate with a friend. In Ace Ventura 2, is the bat dropping called GaunO or GuanA? It's Guano

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Im having a june wedding and cant figure out the color scheme I love these colors for June weddings... (Attached)

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Girls, honestly what do you expect us to say when you ask "does this dress make me look fat?" Honestly, I'd want to know the truth! That way, I'd know to change my clothes. :-)

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I hate that I am so emotional, materialistic, selfish, competitive and complicated. It made me loose the love of my life. How can I change? Well, now that you may recognize these things about yourself and you are really wanting to pursue in making the changes... It's good to start with books that are titled as such. Then you have to take the suggestions and work them in your all day, everyday life until you feel comfortable with where you are within yourself. Find a good balance and repeat new habits as much as possible. It...

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What are some good phrases for kissing (eg, "swappin' spit", "playing tonsil tag"...) "Lip locking", "Tongue tossing", "Smooch smearing", "Kissing karate", "Mouth munching" :-)

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I keep pushing my husband to look for a job after his last job, but seems to me like he's not putting any effort, what should I do? He may be a little depressed and needs more than just encouragement now... He may need a scare from you. Or you could make plans to do things without him if you are fronting the money and tell him you don't have enough for the both of you. Come up with something that will push him along.

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Ive been seeing each this girl a couple of months, she says she doesnt want a boyfriend as shes not ready right now, she wants to take things slow, we have sex, hold hands, kiss, cuddle etc, I only see her once a week, its frustrating, what do I? She's obviously looking for convenience to pass time until she finds that one person that she automatically falls in love with... It's not you... You are merely to fill a void until something else pops up for her. Don't let yourself get caught up in that too deep... you'll be the one to hurt in the end.

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Do you believe the after life, or do believe you just rot in a hole?... and whats your reasoning? I believe there is after life... because there has to be something WAY more rewarding than what we live. I think it's the fight we have to take in order to get the reward. I have to think this... :-)

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Does anybody have any idea of what's in zoloft I just recently went back on this crap to tame my ocd problems and am thinking about getting off of it again because I can't stand being on something that causes me to be a "zombie". Zoloft is as you know an anti-depressent... But it can be used for other things... For instance... I take it for dizzy spells (weird, I know.. but it helps) Your doctor may have you on too high of a dosage... I take mine right before bed time and I don't feel the side effects at all. It's different for everyone. You may have to take them for a while before you get balanced with it or...

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What's better always being angry? Or always being depressed? Actually, being angry is one of the signs of depression. Both of them are very unhealthy and when someone recognizes the moment of these certain feelings, they should train themselves to immediately start writing, reading and or thinking what to do to refrain from those thoughts.

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You catch your 12 year old son looking at child porn!... how do you approch this!?!?!... is it ok because they are around his age in the video? Although, the curiosity is normal behavior, this is not okay. This is where you step in and teach him right from wrong when it comes down to "sex". It's going to take a lot out of you because it's not a "one-day" conversation... It's over a period of time. Now that he recognizes what's going on... explain to him how inappropriate it is to think of sex in...

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Does it hurt to be a virgin? It hurts to lose your virginity... While sex it a wonderful thing... it can also cause you a lot of pain in more than one way.

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For those of you in serious relationships right now, when do you think you'll get married? I'm in a serious relationship, but we've only been together for 7 months. I feel it's appropriate to be a serious couple for at least 2 years before ever considering it. That allows you to go through all 4 seasons twice and see your partners behavior for almost the most part of all you need to know.

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Is breaking up with my boyfriend of 3 years due to his inablility to manage money a good reason to end the relationship? I'm thinking of our future together, and I don't want to be struggling later in life. Some people need a little guidance in what to do with money and the smart way to spend it.. They need someone with patience and tolerance to help them recognize because they are simply not good at it... They are more than likely good at something else and in other areas which can help balance you. If it's something you've been trying to do for quite some time and he's not...

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The guy I'm dating talks about himself ALL the time. Football, work, beer, his college days. Whenever I talk about my interests he gives a one word answer, and then goes back to himself. How can I create more balance? Well, you can do one of two things... The first one I would do... RUN... however, if you are wanting to give it a chance... reply with the same answers he gives you towards your experiences... He will see that he is boring you with all of his bragging and he'll either start asking you questions about you or he will show his true colors and move on until he finds someone who is quiet with...

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Where is the most appropriate place to go for a first date? I would find a unique restaurant so that both of you are pretty much experiencing a new environment and setting a new scene for each other to break out in a conversation at least starting with where you are. Also, there after, for something a little more to do, go for a drink where you can sit outside and talk or a neat place for dessert. I'm a woman and I just love a man with a plan and...

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If i had sex on the day my period was going to start and sperm got inside of me am i pregnant?? that was last Tuesday and my period hasnt started? It is possible. Although, it can be tough during certain times of the month.. it's NEVER impossible. There could always be an egg waiting to hatch! You could also worry yourself enough to thinking you are pregnant that it can stop your period for a while as well. The only thing you can do now, is wait. 5 to 10 days before your next period, get an over-the-counter pregnancy test and go from...

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I have a friend who has been dating a cheater for years and every time she hears that he is cheating on her she says "I have to see it for my self. I can't just break up with him because I was told something." Why would someone be this way? She's co-dependent and in habit of a poor relationship. She has obviously done it for so long she is now confused with what love is really about and what she deserves. Finding her a good book in relation to her behavior will help her to recognize, rather than just hearing it from a friend or family member.

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I found out my boyfriend cheated on me 3 times in 2 months, and the next day, I found out I'm pregnant. Do you think the baby will be a wakeup call and he will stop cheating, or should I just move on and raise the child on my own? Move on... before you have to deal with a guy who is the father of your child plus the father of many other children from other women. It's going to be tough being a single mother, but even tougher dealing with a boyfriend who is unfaithful and then some.

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Can I program my outlook accounts to always give me a "read" email, or do I have to do it one by one? I have Windows Vista Ultimate. Can't find the permanent option anywhere. The only option to that is to go to "Tools", "Options" and under the "Preference" tab where it says Email... click on the "Email Options" button and then the "Email Advance" button and make sure all boxes are checked under, "When New Items Arrive In My Inbox" - You will get a highlighted new mail notification on the right bottom of...

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I used up all my default tabs( sheets) on the bottom of an Excel spreadsheet book. How do I add another tab? Right click on one of the existing tabs click on "Move or Copy" and at the bottom of that box, select "Create a Copy"... It will be another identical page and you can delete whatever you want on it without messing with the original tab.

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Just elected for highway superintendent and finding that I can't handle the job. How do you resign without looking like you are running away from this? Simply explain that you are in search of or found a job that is good for your career and future and you would really like to pursue that and it will take the time that you are applying toward what you are doing now.

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Is possessiveness an insanity, or is it just another form of love? I would call it a dysfunction more than I would instanity. It has nothing to do with love and easily confused most times. However, it's nature of the beast in most, sadly so and hard for one to recognize if they don't learn more about it to change that emotion.

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"Should an adult be held responsible for a minor's suicide if the suicide is linked to harassing on the internet?" (link in my answer) That lady is an adult for heaven's sake.. what kind of grown up would contribute to such an act?? It's definitely something she pushed to happen. It is incredibly undeniable she is at fault.

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I have been with my fiance since i was 15 (nearly 8 years), i am now 23 and he's 25. he has recently broke up with me for no apparent reason and i need some advice on how to move on. i cant see a life without him at the moment. help! Very sorry to hear that... However, there is no fast and easy cure, yet, there are things you can do to push yourself through a little easier. Find a favorite spot outside and write, think, listen to music. Go walking as much as you can, do things with your friends and keep yourself busy. Just make sure you find some time only to yourself to start making decisions on how you are going to move...

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Do you use public restrooms? I hate them... however, they are a savior when I REALLY gotta go. :-)

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How much would you spend on a promise ring? What does a promise ring mean to you? My boyfriend and I recently bought promise rings... Although we wear them on our right hands, due to my wishes... However, we paid about $600 between the two. It's not important to spend a lot of money on promise rings when and if you two are to marry the bulk of money will go towards your lifetime wedding rings and the promise ring will more than likely find it's way to the jewelry box.

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PLEASE TELL ME HOW MANY ACRES ARE IN A HECTER? I believe you meant hectare A hectare is a 10,000 square meters An acre is approximately 4,840 square yards or 43,560 square fee and is used in most English-speaking countries. If you do the math, you will find that there are 2.471 acres in 1 hectare.

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I snooped my partner's emails. he guessed+was cool. he once cheated on me 6 yrs ago+we also broke up for 2yrs so he could play the field. He says he didn't want to make the snooping a big deal, that we should move on. Why am I still uneasy? When trust is broken it's hard to regain it again. It's a very fragile thing to tamper with and he has, therefore, you worry what has happened before will happen again. Don't be naive, but if you feel he wouldn't do it to you again... Don't make the two of you miserable being suspicious all of the time. If it were me... It would be real easy to forgive that person and...

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What do you do with a daughter that lies and steals from you? She also steals from her teachers and friends. Every word that comes out of her mouth is a lie! I'm at my wit's end! I would do things that would embarrass her when it comes down to the stealing aspect of the problem. For instance, walk her straight to the person with a gift she had to earn (by mowing the lawn or doing something in your favor) and make her apologize... Or announce to all her friends what she does...she will think twice next time. Then take away all things that mean the most to her. She...

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My boyfriend is a catholic and married in a traditional african wedding. he is in the process of getting a divorce after he caught his wife having an affair with his own bestfriend.can we get married in the catholic Church after he gets his divorce? As long as both of you belong to a Catholic church and have taken the RCIA classes. You have to go to confession to get past some of the sins that may have been created. Catholicism is a strong religion in their beliefs but not as strict as they used to be. By his soon to be ex-wife having an affair allows for a lawful divorce in order for him to move on and remarry.

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I have been with a guy for 6 months now and have never met any ofhis family is this weird?. Are you two sharing "I love you"s? Either way, if you are in a committed and serious relationship, moving forward is meeting each other's friends and family. In due time, I bet you meet them all if the relationship itself is sincere.

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What is the best dessert recipe? Here's a really easy one. Get a tub of your favorite ice cream (I like Snickers or something in that sort). Let it soften and evenly spread it over already cooked graham cracker pie crust (be sure it's not too soft, but soft enough that you don't break the pie crust). Add whip cream and sprinkles to the top and place it back in the freezer for a couple of hours to harden......

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If your s/o refused to move, kids are gone, and you felt it a mental necessity to get out of the place, would you move with out s/o, or wait 5 more years. It depends on why he refuses and if you are talking about just from one place to another locally or out of town. If it's out of town, I'd discuss it further and see if he could come up with a mutual agreement... say like in a year or so to revisit it... If he would at least agree to that.. then you may get some head-way. If I love my husband... I wouldn't want to leave him, but...

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Do you ever feel like life has passed you by? Quite a bit and especially when I didn't utilize my time wisely. I'm a camper, hiker and outdoorsy person and I feel the more I get to be a part of the things I enjoy the better I'm spending my time and life. It also passes by quickly when I find myself working for the weekend... rushing away my week days.

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You knew your relationship was over when...? When he started digging through the garbage can on a daily basis to see who wasn't recycling and then wanted to play captain to my children and I and us be his unit.

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I keep dreaming that my boyfriend's exgirlfriend comes over for a visit and demands my boyfriend for friendship. his ex hated me for no reason and treated him like shit. ma boyfriend is the perfect gentleman and has always told me any detail about her. Normally, you dream about things that worry you or rest on your mind when you are awake. It's not a sign this will happen, it's a fear that has entered into your dream world.

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Women: do women ever break up with a guy, because their unsure about his feelings for her, even if he shows her, without first asking him how he feels? Not at all if it's only been up to a year... Anytime after that, some emotional words need to shared by then and at that point, I would consider finding out where we are heading for the fact I just invested some time toward this person and relationship.

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How important is a person's AB level to you? Not at all important. If someone has a really good and honest answer and they JUST started this site, then I'd rather hear what they have to say. You have to work at this a long time to get huge points in order to prove yourself.

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How do you met people at a coffee shop. I aways see it on the movies? Movies are far alone not the same as real life... because if it were, there'd be a lot more happy endings in real life.. ha! However, you can meet someone at the coffee shop and it has a lot to do with staying there for a really long time until someone you may be interested in comes through the door... Then you take the chance in starting up a conversation. It's truly a lot of work.

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Men always think they are right!! Why? It's not specified to the gender, it's the individual and it has a lot to do with "ego". I personally have experienced guys (being I am woman and not lesbian) - And the one I'm experiencing now had rather fight than be wrong even when he is OBVIOUSLY wrong. On top of that, he comes up with sorry excuses on how he's right...Poor pitiful thing.

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My wife just ended our marriage im 20 i feel like i will never love again, i truly believe she was the love of my life, i feel so horrible right now, how do i make myself feel better and move past this? Oh, you will find that someone else will be the "love of your life" as you move on and meet new people. You are just hurting right now because your love is sincere. Time can only heal wounds and believe that they will... each day will get better and better... Just keep yourself busy with things you enjoy and have some "alone" time as well. There is no immediate cure for such...

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What does it means when a guy is in a really bad relationship and its obvious that he wants to be with you? It means he's looking for an escape goat and/or he doesn't want to leave his current relationship out of habit, but would like to have someone else to run to when he needs it. It's unhealthy for you to make yourself available to someone who is not. You will be the only one hurt in the end if you don't move on.

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Im bored at work and with where i work, i have put in a transfer to somewhere else but its not till end of june. What fun things can i do without getting caught to speed up the time? I hate when that happens! And definitely know where you are coming from. Maybe you can create a form for the company and area you work for now that will help them when you leave... Find yourself cleaning up and organizing an area for them... I know that doesn't sound fun, but it definitely passes time. I used to write as well when I felt that way. It's dragging time, but don't do...

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What do you say to someone who is sad they cant find a relationship online, but after a first date if they dont feel an amazing connection, they move on to the next first date, and on, and on? You tell them to just chill for a while. Learn to be happy with themselves before they move on. That way they will enjoy their company more. It's tough finding that connection these days and can be quite discouraging... However, putting yourself through it over and over again is creating your own misery.

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OK parents of teens I need advice. I LOATHE my daughters new b/f. Now I remember being 16 & if my mom told me she didn't like my b/f, I'd stay with him out of spite. How do I make her realize that he's a loser w/o pushing her away? Some times we have to let our children fall flat on their face in order to learn from their mistakes and know how to grow... just like we had to. However, we can't just sit back and say nothing at all. I've been through this several times and it has always worked for me to talk to them as a friend in a "cool" kind of way and yet leave it alone at the same time. They...

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My ex-husband spent years in prison for sexually abusing my children. I know it's beneficial for me to forgive him, but how do I go about doing this? Everytime I think of him I want him to suffer as they did. One of the toughest things you'll ever have to do in your lifetime is forgive someone for the harm they inflicted on your child. Especially, when you have to look at your children in the face and know what trauma has happened to them. You may even find yourself living with guilt for having him in their lives. However, the damage is done and it's noone's fault but HIS. Your heart...

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Women 20+ if you were dating a guy, and he still hadnt told you he loved you yet, and you hadnt said it either, but you wanted to hear it from him, what sort of things would you do? your 25 and its been 6 months If you two understand how you feel about each other without really saying anything... in due time it will start spilling out on both parts. Being patient especially this new in the relationship reaps many great rewards. Anything pushy causes stress and could jeopardize the relationship all together.

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Will you share your favorite household tip? (My newest discovery: A paste of baking soda and water may remove tomato sauce stains from plastic.) If you burn yourself while cooking, quickly get the cold mustard in the refrigerator and apply it to the burn. Keep it there for a good hour... It helps take the burn out and keeps it from scarring.

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Are you afraid of being alone in life? Unless someone has a some sort of disorder, I don't believe anyone wants to be "alone" in life. However, there is a different in being alone and beling loney and defining the two will fine tune how happy you are in your OWN life.

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I am living with a guy I just met because i had no place to live. we have been having sex everyday. he has a girlfriend he only sees 4 times a month because she lives in another state, do i have a chance with him? Arg! What a sticky situation you are in now. If his feelings are strong with his long-distance girlfriend... You are merely someone who passes time. He's getting away with having a girlfriend and a sex partner. I wouldn't even want to have a chance with someone who is cheating on someone else, even if it's me he's cheating with.

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I am a very shy person. i like this guy a lot but he says i have no social skills, because, i dont have a lot of convo. what can i talk about to make me seem more interesting? It's always easier to find yourself as "confident". Shy people are mostly shy due to the fact they are afraid they may say something wrong or stupid. When the truth is, you aren't being judged as much when you say SOMETHING with confidence. Just talk about general things in life that most could relate to.

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Do we always have a choice? Absolutely. There is the "wrong" choice and the "right" choice. There is only two choices in every instance and situation.

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Why does my boyfriend always email his ex and say he misses her, thinks about her , dreams about her but yet he spends all his time with me and says he loves me, they had a long friendship and 8 yr relationship before he met It's obvious he is not over his last relationship before he hooked up with you. When he met you new emotions evolved putting you in a bad place, while he continued his attachment and communication with her. I wouldn't allow this in my relationship... I assume to not have one until someone is ready for me and vice versa.

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If we learn from our mistakes, why are we not geniuses by now? There are more mistakes to be made than life has in time.

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What's the most embarrassing thing to happen to you in front of a crowd of people? One mother's day years ago when my children were smaller, I dressed us all up and took us to the mall to purchase something for them. My two oldest were walking and my youngest was in an umbrella stroller. We all went down the escalator in the mall with the two oldest in front... Once my youngest and I reached the bottom, her wheels got stuck and she flipped side ways, screaming... (I was...

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Do you really feel comfortable with your s/o flirting with other people or do you just say you are comfortable with it? It's disrespectful and rude to you if your s/o is doing so. I would never be comfortable with that. I would want to be the "apple" of someone's eye and they know I'm enough to look at and flirt with.

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I understand when noncustodial fathers get hell for not being in their childrens life, but why is it that when there's a good father, the mother tries to keep the child away? Possibly her vengeance... Mad about something for her own selfish reasons.

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I am 14.I have a bf that i really like but i still really like flirting with other guys.I don't want to hurt him,but i just can't seem to settle down. Is this my age or am i really just a bad girlfriend?Is this normal to still look and flirt at this age? You are still very, very young and have plenty of years and time in your life before you ever have a boyfriend at all. There is no need to hang around one boy all of the time. Have fun with your friends, focus on the important things while you can and have fun being a teen.

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My boyfriend that ive been dating for 5 months asked me to marry him. i dont know what to say. his mom likes me a lot & she called me last night & told me how much he loved me & i know he does & i love him too. but i dont know if im ready. how can i tell? You are ready when you can say "yes" without hesitation. I believe serious couples should AT LEAST go through all 4 seasons with one another before taking that step.

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If a couple files for divorce, but prior to the divorce being final the male purchases a home, can the woman still make any claim to the house? If the wife invested money into the home during your marriage, she could fight for return on it if she has proof. It would be tough, however, can be done. More than likely, they will see that you are owner of the home deed and loan and it will all continue to be yours. Worst case scenerio, she can gain some of the equity she has put into it.

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When life has you lost and turned around....who do you turn to for direction? In my world... I turn to God and myself... I re-evaluate what's going on and start picking up the pieces, step-by-step.

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I fell in love (K). K moved and we ended it. I was hurt and never dated until I met a man (J) who finally made me smile again. I am so in love with him. I saw (K) after four years and feelings were still there i want to marry (J) but Y do i stillcare4K? They are still there because you didn't break up over something terrible and it was left with good memories. Someone you'll never forget and something you two shared that keeps those love feelings within you. If you found new love and it's solid and working out wonderfully... keep pursuing where you are now.

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How would you handle friends that resent the fact that you don't consider them to be your bestfriend? You don't handle it. You continue being their friend. Good and bad moments over time makes someone your bestfriend. We all earn that title by being there through thick and thin. If they no longer want to be your friend because you haven't reached that "label" in your heart, then they were never really a good friend to you at all.

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Many people hate feet. Do you? Although, I have been divorced for 11 years... I was married to my ex-husband for 10 years and I never so much as pointed at his feet. He didn't have ugly feet... I just know they walk bare on the floor and are couped up in shoes all day.... It's all in the mind because I can guarantee we touch much dirtier things on a normal day-to-day basis.

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Whats e-dating? (where you dont ever meet) It's strictly having a relationship via Internet and you are expected to not betray it by talking to other people in the same manner. A sad "relationship", but it happens.

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What is the hardest part about ending a serious relationship? Actually ending it is the hardest part. You don't want to hurt someone's feelings and on top of that, if you've invested a lot of time... you've created habit and it's tough to get out of that.

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Should a woman ever pursue a man who has lost interest in her? I believe that the woman should state clearly one time only exactly what she feels and then move on. If his interest is back... he will come back. Otherwise, let go of what is supposed to go.

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A friend once told me that guys don't actually like girls who drive manual cars... is that true ?? yes or no and why? No. I don't believe they really even think about it. They just look to see if they are attracted to the girl or not...

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My boyfriend and I had been together for over 2years. he kissed a girl and begged for forgivness.However about a week after i found that out he slept with her twice.I found out and he keeps saying he has changed,his sorry the usual but can i trust him? Obviously, you can not trust him and you will never be able to. If he lied and copped out with only a kiss after knowingly that he slept with the girl more than once.... then he will get away with it again as long as you stay with him and allow that behavior.

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Has anyone ever damaged your trust in them so badly that you cannot ever fathom being able to trust them again? If so, what did they do? Also, even though you can never trust them again, would you be able to forgive what they had done? Being lied to betrays my trust enough. I can definitely forgive anyone because it's simply in my nature. Howevever, I know I don't have to live with them either. It's tough being with someone who broke the rules of a "relationship". You find yourself suspecting them all of the time thereafter. It's an individual point of view. If you have the will enough to get...

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Have you ever come across a gay man that wasn't selfish and inconsiderate? I Haven't. Actually, that's a good question. I have met gay men through aquaintances and they are all over the place with what they want, how they feel and when they want. They are very strong natured because they are male in a feminine state of mind... That's like mixing explosions with lighter fluid.

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Women 21+ if you worked in a bar on the weekend, would you expect your boyfriend to come in? I wouldn't "expect" him to. It wouldn't be nice to see him partying while I'm working... haha... However, if he wants to come to see me while I'm working and have a couple of drinks, that would be okay... I would have nothing to hide... However, it may mess up my chances of getting better tips from the other guys! Not meaning that in a negative kind of way, but...

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What are some of the benefits of marriage over cohabitation? Who really knows what the benefits are. However, you can have a good healthy relationship with the right person. If you find a couple with no problems, then there are deeper issues than they are letting on. Everyone argues and gets on each other's nerves, it is the growing aspect of any relationship. It just sucks having to go through it to be comfortable enough with each other in 20 years...

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How do you know you are in love? You know you are in love when you don't know WHY you are in love with that person, you just know you love them.

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I went out with this guy for about 2 years and now hes goin out with my best friend, but i still have strong feelings about him wat should i do???? p.s i already told him i have feelings for him HELP!!!!! If you already expressed your feelings and he hasn't reciprocated, then you should do everything you can to move on. Find someone new... trust me, you'll have those feelings again for someone else down the road. Allow this time to find out who you are and what will make you happy. Spending your time focusing on him will only cause you more pain. On top of that, best friends don't...

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What is the right way to kiss you? Women only please. First and foremost, it depends on the circumstance. If it's a first kiss, move toward her gently and then follow her lead if she accepts. If it's someone you've kissed a lot before, however, she doesn't think you are a great kisser or you just want to improve and/or do better... sometimes it's what two people are made of together, or there lack of. Kissing comes...

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If a close family member was on life support and had previously told you not to let him live like that. Would you honor his wish to die or go against his wishes in hopes he could survive? I would definitely do as they wish. Because, I know if I was in a shape where I could never be dependent upon myself again, I would want the same and hope that someone loved me enough to do as I wish. It's a VERY tough place to be in when you love someone.

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Women,when your breaking up with a guy,in what situation would you tell him the real reason as to why your breaking up,and in what situation would you give him the 'your a nice guy' line? Well, although it's not my style other than to be honest... I do know that others would say "they are not ready for a commitment or they are too busy for a relationship... it's not you, it's me" when it really means there is someone else they are or may be interested in. If someone has a good enough reason without it having to do with someone else or for the fact that...

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How can I make my boyfriend of 4 years and I happy when he is dealing with liver pain? It's been 1 year since he's done something sweet for me due to pain. He hardly calls, texts and wants to see me. He is not himself but he is pushing me away. Help? It sounds as though he is trying to tell you that he doesn't have time or energy for a relationship. If he's totally avoiding you, then you should move on. Otherwise, he may want you to suggest being with him all of the time to help him through and see how sincere your feelings are for him. He needs someone who is willing to give all right now while he doesn't have the "feel...

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Guy you don't know but know through brief encounter-just said hi, comes up to me and we talk for a few mins while in line/grocery shopping. Ever since then, he makes a point of being noticed/says hi.Is he shy/a player/should I go up and ask him what's up? These days people are more afraid of rejection and do everything they can to make you notice them (even guys), however, they don't have enough balls to ask you out. My suggestion is to next time say, "maybe we should go for a bite to eat sometime"... if he says yes to that... just say, "here's my number, give me a call over the next couple of nights and we'll see...

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I' suspecting the person I am living with to be abusing drugs. As a result, I will be leaving. He wants to split sooner, but I am not leaving abruptly. He's feeling really guilty about things he has done, but can he just have me put out? It all depends on the state you live in. Normally, if you have been residing in a home for over 6 months with someone, it's considered your home as well and the police can not kick you out on the street. Your boyfriend (?) can however enforce it, but it will take a lot of work on his part to have it done. The best thing for you to do is find another place right away and get out of that...

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When I'm at work or school working really hard, all I can think about is going home and going to sleep. But once I get home sleep is the last thing I want to do and I feel like I have so much energy. Do you ever feel that way? It's a sign of depression. You are not happy with your job or having to go to school. You may defind your "life" free from things you are HAVING to do, as opposed to what you WANT to do. Try to find yourself being happy no matter what you have to do and it will come out more rewarding and easier for you during the process.

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My husband wants me to change. He doesn't like the way I look, the way I do the things. As I have been home maker since marriage. He doesn't even like the way I take care of house. He complaints more and appretiates less. How can I change myself? While you should always do things to better YOURSELF for YOURSELF... His promises during your marriage vows does not seem to stand true. It obviously sounds like he's not happy anymore and by you running around trying to change things that aren't already a part of you is not going to change what he feels. His complaints are due to unhappiness more than anything. If you change... do it...

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I just had my birthday and one of my co-workers got everyone to sign a card for me. I work in a small department with only about 7 people. Everyone signed the card except for one person. I always sensed she disliked me. Should my feelings be hurt? No, you shouldn't let your feelings be hurt. Not everyone is going to like everyone and if that's the way she feels, just stay out of her way unless it has to do with work and or if you are just saying "hi" to be the bigger person.

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Would you try to stop a person who wants to commit suicide? If so, why....if not, why? Absolutely. They are obviously not in their right mind at the moment and need serious help. It's often hard for me to find sympathy for those who want to escape the easy way out by choice, however, those who don't think that way do not understand the type of pain they may be experiencing.

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Has anyone ever settled their credit card debt with the credit card company because they couldn't pay the minimum payments and how did you go about doing this? How bad does it affect your credit rating? Yes. I called their customer service number and explained to them that I had prefer not to file bankruptcy, but if I don't figure a way to settle my debts, I will have to... and they quickly came up with a solution for me because they had rather get something rather than nothing at all.

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You work at ice plant, you call customers to see if they need ice, what if you called customer & got their order, the drivers deliver, but when you get in next morning boss tells you customer did not want ice for yesterday but today, would you feel silly? Not silly.. but I would giggle at myself and admit to saying, "I wonder where my mind was yesterday??"

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Do you think sometimes your mom or dad could not care if you where died or live sometimes? my mom can be VERY cold sometimes. i feel guilty if i do not talk to her so what would you do? Always be the bigger person by being polite and nice. It doesn't mean you have to like her behavior toward you and it may not be because of you. She may have her own issues and anyone around her could be the punching bag, par say. During this time in your life, let this be your true test to strength and learning how to face people who can oddly behave, while knowing you are above that.

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If a friend is avoiding your calls and text messages, how long should you give them space? Does that include avoiding were they work(bar) even if your other friends are there? Doesnt that show you are week? If a friend is avoiding you, simply step back. If they know you've been trying to reach them, that's enough to know... they don't want to talk. I wouldn't however stay away from where they work if it's a place you enjoy going. If you do go, just say "hi" when you see them and continue on with your fun and plans. Simple as that.

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A secret: I don't know how to feel loved, or how to trust unconditionally. I'd like to blame this on others, but I cant blame anyone but myself. Help me to fix me. My insecurities are killing our relationship. The only unconditional love I am aware of is a parent's love to their child and vice-versa. However, you MUST overcome your fears and learn to know there's nothing you can do of the things you have no control over. If someone is untrustworthy, it will show in time... you just have to be willing to take those risks. They are worth it however, because you too learned something from it...

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If you knew you significant other was the one to marry, but also that they were not a christian and did not accept Jesus as their Lord and Savior, would you still marry them? That's tough! However, you have to go with your heart as who he/she is as a human being and you can not allow it to interfere with what you believe. I don't believe I could ever love enough to put my life in a situation like that and feel it's going to be forever rewarding. Yet, you have to know your strength and how YOU could deal with it as an individual.

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Any women here with Polycystic and Multicystic Ovaries? I'm wondering how hard it was for you to conceive having both of these conditions. Did you use IVF? Conceive naturally? If so how long did it take and were there any problems during your pregnancy? I am 37 and have had polycystic and multicystic ovaries since I was 13 years old. I have 3 children. It definitely doesn't stop you from having babies. :-) The trouble with them, is they cause you pain from time to time and unless you have your ovaries removed, you have to learn to live with them. When they feel painful and inflamed, do not do anything or carry heavy items to cause them to...

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I for awhile it has felt like theres always urine or soemthing left in my penis and often times i feel if i squeeze in it will dribble out constantly. occasionally but rarely it will have a slight burn when i urinate . anyone know if this is a problem? It sounds like you have a bladder infection. The silent kind that may not cause you pain. Get your bladder and kidneys checked.

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WHAT IS THE LEGAL AGE TO MOVE OUT OF YOUR PARENTS HOME WITHOUT PARENTAL CONSENT IN THE STATE OF ALABAMA? The age is 16

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My husband wants a divorce and moved out, but he still acts like he wants to be a family and he says he still loves me he just cant be with me. How do I know If he wants to come back or not? He doesn't want to come back and he doesn't want to be with you. He's hoping by what he is saying, time will pass through while you two are apart and it will be easier for him to walk away. I'm not trying to be crude, but it's the hard-core truth. I can even hear it in your "mixed" typed message. Sorry you are dealing with that. Now, it's time for you to...

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What makes us reveal ourselves on line? The comfort of not having physical and verbal confrontation. It's shameful, because the mystery is lost when people 'tell all' and conversations end quicker. You've already had an entire relationship and by the time you meet, it's over.

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I'm constantly criticized & met with sarcasm,here on AB, because I am a police officer. So many seem to have a problem with authority/police, Why?...theres laws, break them, theres repercussions, it's not that difficult to stay out of trouble is it? I'm no police officer, but I do recognize the same behavior. People have confused themselves with "freedom" vs "rules" - They do not want someone telling them what they can and can't do. They get irritated and come up with excuses why you shouldn't be bothering with their trouble. Such as... "There's people out there killing people, why don't...

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What are the disadvantages of having a tour guide? You are stuck with them if you decide you want to break away or don't like their presentation on the guide.

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My instincts seems to always be wrong lately; I am attracted to someone and sense that it is mutual but don't know that I am correct in assuming that; I can I discreetly find out in a mature way without making a fool out of myself? Dating is no different than it's ever been. However, behavior has changed in many people and their responses. Some may not feel the same, but do not want to hurt your feelings, therefore, they try to do it the quiet way. The ones who feel something are in the same position as you are. The best way to find out is over time. It doesn't make you look foolish to say something like,...

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Why are you like that? Because I chose to be.

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Why is it so difficult to keep our minds in the present instead of the past or future? Because we are either dwelling or hoping too much. Frankly, if you train yourself to recognize when you are doing either, immediately start focusing what you already have at hand. It's okay to plan for the future, but not a great idea to try to live in it. All we have is here and now. Yesterday is gone, whatever hurt you then, can no longer and whatever made you happy, made you a better...

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I met a girl last night who was really cool and someone who i could see myself dating. I got her number and was woundering when i should call her. I am unsure how she enjoyed my company last night but i want to see her again.....help If she enjoyed you as much, I can't see where it would hurt to put anytime between your call, well besides the fact of "right away". Sometimes, it's healthy to put at least a day in between. It gives you that time to remember how great your time was and hers as well.

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If YOU came with Instructions what would they say? Leave me alone when I'm not giving you eye contact. Believe that I will follow through with what I say.

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Which will have cheaper utilities? Ranch style or split level/2 story home? Heat rises and during the summer it causes your airconditioner to work harder on higher levels. With Ranch style homes, everything runs accordingly across the board and makes it a more leveled flow. At any rate, it's always cheaper to install light switches that turn off automatically if you are in the habit of leaving them on and doing other energy efficient changes as much as possible.

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Can you live in a house without a bathtub? I redesign bathrooms and kitchens for a living. Many people have requested their tubs to be replaced with a shower only. I personally would like the benefit of both. When I want to unwind and relax, I bathe otherwise, shower it is!

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Can you love one of your children more than the other? I have three children, which one is grown now and the other two are teenagers. From time to time, each one of them have asked me, "Mom, am I'm your favorite?"... "Absolutely, you are!" I would tell them all the same thing individually and when they grew up, they shared my secret with each other and came to realize that I felt the same about each one of them. Most times...

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Do you recommend blind dating and why? Sure. There are many different types of avenues in meeting the man/woman of your dreams and blind dates can actually be one of them. These days, most of all the mystery is already gone because you read everything about that person online (well, the parts they want you to know) and when you decide to meet after reading too much about the other person, you find yourself sitting in a restaurant or...

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If you had to name your newborn child after a part of the human body, what would you choose? If the child is Asian, I would name him "Chin".

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Can a single mom raise a son to be a man? What is one's description of a man? If it's being responsible, getting up and going to work, then paying the bills... Well, then I'm a man, because I do these things... When in actuality, I am a woman. Absolutely, your son will grow up to be a man... Especially, if he started off as a boy. I have a 16 year old son, who will merely be a boy for many years to come and he'll...

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Do you share paying the bills with your s/o if you live together? Absolutely. Everyone earning an income living in the same home should pitch in finances. For instance and in my situation... I'm a single mother of three with a live-in boyfriend. He will need to pay a 3rd of the bills for his upkeep of utilities, space, water, cable, groceries and so forth. It's only fair, because regardless... the other individual will have to pay to live somewhere,...

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My husband is physically and emotionally abusive to me. We have kids and they do not want me to leave him. He does the abuse in front of them sometimes. Is leaving him wrong or right. Iwant what is best for my children but i do not like the abuse. Leave! Children will be much happier when they know the good side of things. They know what they were raised with and scared of change and without you making that change and showing them a difference, they will never learn how to seek happiness for themselves in the long run. It's your responsibility to make a change. There is NO room for abuse in children's lives, to teach them that...

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My boyfriend of 7 years is so defensive, that I hate talking to him anymore. How can you talk to a overly defensive person without having to walk on eggshells? Typically, men like that do not like to feel like they are wrong about things, even when they are and they know they are. They don't fess up... they argue and try to find an excuse to make them look as if they are right. They also play on what you feel and turn the tables. It gets deeper and becomes verbal abuse. It's an illness and I'm not quite sure what to call it. However, I...

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