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The US sends about $3billion a year to Israel. What does the US receive in return? Please explain your answer. In theory, we're buddy-buddy with Israel because we backed the movement to return Israel to the Jewish people after World War 2. That was supposed to be out of remorse for the horrors of the holocaust. Of course, in doing so, we basically kicked a bunch of other people off of that land. So, they're all pissed at us. And at the Jewish people. And then you throw in the fact that Israel is...

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On St. Pattys day, instead of the usual "Kiss me, I'm Irish" would you care if you saw someone wearing a shirt saying "F*** you, you're Irish"? Bad form, all told...

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How many calories are in a pint of Guinness? The question becomes more relavant when you add the number of calories in a half a shot of Bailley's and a half a shot of Jameson...

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Why are "Loners" not like other people is it normal to be a loner? I consider myself a bit of a loner. When I'm alone, I'm rarely bored. I collect hobbies. I play guitar, and play computer games, skateboard, snowboard, work on projects and so on and so forth. Generally, I enjoy other people's company. Particularly when I'm in the mood for it. But, I find that most of the time, I don't really relate well to extraverted types....

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Has anyone ever heard of Newegg.com. Is it a legit website to purchase things? newegg is legit. They usually have pretty good deals, and from what I understand they do a good job of taking care of their customers. It's a big, popular site, and it's been around since at least 2000. You don't get that big and stay around that long unless you've got something going on.

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I have 4months with my bf were in long distant relationship.i dont really see him and i have a feeling this is not goin nowhere,i dont know if i should tell him beacuse his in the military and i dont want to distract with this what is the right thing 2d0? The most obvious answer: Talk to him about it. He could well be feeling the same. As an ex-Navy guy, I can tell you 2 things: 1)This situation is not uncommon for military guys. 2)Long distance relationships with military guys rarely work. With only 4 months invested, chances are neither of you has enough invested in the relationship to make it work. But, that's not all...

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Last night i heard a guy i grew up with doesnt have long to live , should i go see him , i havent seen him or talked to him in 20 years. Boy, that would be a great conversation: A: "So, you're dying, huh?" B: "Yep" A: "So, what else is new?" B: "Ummmm..." Unless you have a connection with the dude, it's gonna be wierd.

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K this guy I like tells my bff he likes me as a friend but he constantly is still staring at me ALOT!at 1st I thought it may b n my head but my frends c it 2. he still talks 2 me but what does this mean? I think you already know the answer: The guy likes both of you.

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I'm a popular guy and I like this unpopular girl. It sounds weird but in my school popularity's a pretty big thing. I've liked her for a year now and I want to ask her out but i don't know how. She's shy and its hard to find her alone? What should I do? Popularity is a funny thing: You think that the popular kids have something special going on, when you're in high school, and then later, you realize that they're just as neurotic as everyone else. For the most part, "being popular" means letting your social group decide what you can and can't do. Sounds like hell to me. As far as the girl: If she doesn't...

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How do you achieve good credit when first starting out? How does it work? The easiest way: 1)Get a credit card. 2)Set up online banking 3)Pay your bills online. 4)Immediately after paying your bills online, pay the balance on the card. 5)Do not use the card for anything else. By doing this, you will have an active card, with a continuously active monthly history. You will be paying it off each month, so you're not going to pay interest....

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Although we're part of the same large social group, this guy and I always seem to banter insults only towards each other. We often forget about the others in the group, hardly talk to them, and only focus on being rude to each other. Is this flirting? I would say that's probably flirting. Do you find the guy attractive? If so, it's flirting.

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I install the F.EA.R COMBAT 1.07 ,,after clicking on icon there is only dark screen and no display...i can hear the sound but no display...my system contains...1 GB RAM, 64MB 3d card , 3.0 GHZ intel processor, help me plz Update your video drivers.

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Why do guys always go for the girls who are sluty and not the girls who are classy and dont have there body showing On the most obvious level, because a girl who's showing off a bit turns us on. Also, a girl who's showing off a little bit seems available. Also, there are other factors to consider too. Most of the girls who are "slutty", are used to dealing with guys, and don't make us feel wierd when we talk to them. More conservative girls often tend to put up this...

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What are the secrets in becoming the guy that women fall for in an instant? Silly question. Women spend most of their life doing things to try to get our attention. We drive them crazy in two ways: -Not making a move. -Being a douschebag. So, a "normal" guy, who is not at all smooth, but has the balls to talk to women, without making too much of an ass of himself is pretty much golden. There's no magic bullet or secret formula. Turns out...

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Have you ever been screamed at by your g/fs? How did you feel--scared or angry? Honest answer please. I felt mortally scared when my ex screamed at me! By the way ladies why you scream at men like that? I understand we are stupid but why scream! I was raised in a pretty strict house, and so I tend to see any emotional outburst as a symbol of weakness. So, when my girlfriend loses her cool, I tend to dismiss it as craziness, and assume she's off base. Also, I tend to act pretty ambivalent about it, and tend to make her feel a little silly for doing it. She's actually a little paranoid about acting over emotional about...

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Would you marry a woman that didn't cook? If she's otherwise awesome, maybe... Oh, who am I kidding? I'm never getting married. <grin>

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What do you look for in a relationship? Life Insurance.

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I have been dating an awesome man for a month. He moved things very fast and I thought he was "Mr. Right". Suddenly he has pulled back saying he wants to be friends and then says Im a keeper but things moved too fast and we need to slow down. What to do I think you pushed his "crazy bitch" button. Just a guess. A lot of times, we'll charge right into a relationship, and we're all stoked about it. But, then, you do something classically girly, and it freaks us out. So, we start questioning things, and pull away. Of course, this is a fairly normal guy pattern, and if you get freaked out about it too much, and...

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Did anything make you laugh today? http://questionablecontent.net/comics/1399.png If you can't relate to that, you're just not human...

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Why are all the women I am meeting are psychopaths? And this is not a new event? Pschology 101: Projection and denial...

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What do you do if your best friend JUST married a guy and now he is hitting her and being mentally abusive? I talked to her and told her she needs to leave now before it gets worse but i dont think she'll listen to me. What would I do? I'd probably beat the shit out of the guy... But, that's not very helpful to you... You're probably right. But, you can't help someone who won't help themselves. It sucks, but that's life. If you try to press the issue too far, she may choose to cut you out of her life. I would suggest offering your place as a place to go if she needs...

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Should i be upset that my husband is not interested in my sexual because i'm 8 months pregnant? I think that's sort of normal that late in the pregnancy. Be honest with yourself here, you're stressing because you're pregnant, horny, and hormonal. But, it will be okay. Good luck with the kid, all right?

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Theres this guy i like and last night i was on msn & i said i had a boyfriend but then i said i was kidding then he said oh good cause i got worried for a sec. what do you think that means ??does he like me? Yeah, he likes you. That's probably just really, really weak flirting. But, to be fair, you did just try to make yourself off limits to him.

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Question: My best friend cory has sister and he all protective and dnt let her have boyfriends and i got with the sister and what should i do and plus idk wa our friend ship will happen Firstly, you're an idiot for getting with a friend's sis. But, you know that. Now you have to either: -find a way to exit this situation gracefully, without hurting her feelings. (difficult) -try to carry on secretly without him figuring it out. (doesn't work) or -come clean, and deal with the consequences See why that's such a bad idea? There is NO good...

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One of my mates bitches about me and loads of my other mates behind our backs and people tell us but she denies it when we ask her and now shes speading a really tight rumour about my best mate and still wont admit anything what should i do? Who cares if she denies it? She's probably got a reputation for talking shit. Don't tell her anything you don't want repeated, and don't let her talk shit when you're around. Call her on her bullshit. Some girls really get off on starting drama. If she's one of those, you really should avoid her. I'm guessing you put up with it cuz she's a hottie?

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Should I compete with one of my best guy mates for his girlfriend? She flirts with me.. ALOT. (And yes I do like her). What would YOU do? That would be breaking the "man code". But that doesn't mean you CAN'T do it. Just make sure you can deal with the fact that your buddy has the right to kick your ass for it. Also consider that you'll probably be trading a buddy who's got your back for a fling with a girl that probably won't work out. High price to pay for just getting your dick wet, if...

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Hw do I get it into my boyfriends head that I am NOT cheating on him?He drops me at wrk, collects,me sleeps over EVERY night and still has the cheek 2 accuse me of Seeing sum1 else?How do I handle a situation like this?Coz he is going to drive me insane Most people who are really worried about their s/o cheating on them either: -Have been cheated on before. -Are themselves, cheaters. If it's not the first, it's the second. Either way, if you feel smothered, tell him so, and if he doesn't get his shit together, move on. +-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+ PS: It's bad nettiquette to use...

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Which part of a woman/man do you notice first? I tend to notice a girl's hair, and figure. And how she's put together. I notice her vibe, energy, presence. Once we start talking, I notice a LOT more. her eyes, her smile, her voice, her scent, her cute laugh. But so many things can get my attention. It's hard to predict, and can even surprise me sometimes.

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If you had a bad day, you tell the person asking "what happend" nicely you DON"T want to talk about it. But they KEEP instigating and you end up taking it out on them. Is that your fault or theirs? I guess that depends... Since you're a girl, it could well be that the other party expects that when you say "nothing's wrong" or "I don't want to talk about it" that it's an empty gesture. (Not that I know you, but a lot of girls like to do that.) Do you ever get your feelings hurt if you say that "nothing's wrong" and they...

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If your s/o told you once when you first started dating, that his ex gf is the one knows he's supposed to marry someday, would you always hold onto that and doubt his sincerity for you even after you've been together for a long time, or could you forget? Sounds like it would really bug most of the women... I agree with the posters who say that we all say stupid shit sometimes. I suggest that you value your relationship in terms of the connection that you share more than any one specific thing he says or does. Those things have some weight, but you can make yourself crazy trying to read too much into every idle comment.

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What are you supposed to do when you are so lonely and long for companionship but when you take a look at yourself inside and out you wonder how your supposed to find someone when you don't like what you see and wouldn't even date yourself? I've been there. It sucks. For me, when I'm alone for a while, I get this wierd mix of lonely, restless, and horny. But, those feelings are also good motivation for you to get your life in order. There's actually a lot of energy mixed up in this. Put that energy to work. If you don't believe in yourself, at least believe in your potential. If you're not happy...

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How nagging of a nag can a girlfriend be? Rather than trying to figure out how much bad behaviour you can get away with, maybe you could try finding a productive way to voice your concerns? Nagging pisses us off, because it feels like you're "mothering" us. Remember when you were a teenager, and your mom would nag you? Well, add that feeling to the emasculating feeling a guy gets when he feels like she's...

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Ok here goes my husband is faithful he is home every night but there is one thing that urks me and that is he will look at other women online or if we are driving somewhere and see's a women with a nice body he will look. To me i feel direspected. I've looked through some of your other posts, and I think that you've some trust issues with men. I'm sorry that you've had your ups and downs with the opposite sex. I suspect that no matter how reasonable I try to be, and no matter how politely I try to word my responses, you're going to read the worst into whatever I say. On the other hand, I feel that I did...

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Do any of my answerbag friends have Facebooks? What's your opinion of it vs MySpace? I enjoy Facebook and absolutely HATE MySpace. I have all of these. Social networking can be pretty cool, or very dumb. Depends on how you use it. It's just a tool.

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Ok here goes my husband is faithful he is home every night but there is one thing that urks me and that is he will look at other women online or if we are driving somewhere and see's a women with a nice body he will look. To me i feel direspected. edit: deleted, misposted

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Why would a man who is married sign up for a dating site? Probably stuck in that guy place of eternal bachelorhood. He never made peace with his marriage. Or else, he did, and he's looking to cheat...

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I think I might be Bi...I have a BF and just discovered this whilst being with him; i'm scared to tell him. Would you be bothered if your gf/bf told you they were bi? My girlfriend is bi. It's actually very comfortable for me. We check out girls together, and she doesn't get all wierd and jealous. Just be prepared for the guy to want to have a threesome. Of course, if you're into that, it's not a bad thing, is it?

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How do you attack life? Like a Pit-Bull or a Poodle? I'm more like a golden retriever. Not really attacking, just kinda chillin' and having fun along the way. Frisbee, anyone?

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I have completely destroyed someone I love for no good reason. Is there forgiveness after something like that? Actually, people are pretty resilient. He's a big boy, and he'll get over it. He may well never forgive you for it, but don't hold that against yourself. In my younger days, I remember having my heart smashed into little pieces by a couple of girls. It hurt for a while, and then I adjusted my expectations and moved on. If he carries around a resentment for years after,...

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My girlfriend called me gay two times, and the first time I didnt care to much but the second time I started to think that she actually thinks I am and doesnt care that it sorta hurt my feelings, what should I do? I guess the question is, does it bother you because you think she may be right? Or does it bother you because she's giving you shit? If it's the second one, (and I suspect it is...) grow a thicker skin, and be more dominant with her. She's not calling you gay, she's calling you a wussy boy... If she REALLY thinks that you're a wuss, your relationship is on the...

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My wife is more mature than me and is at her wits end. she used to party more and i want her to again i dont want to party like im 20 again (im 30) but i do want her to relax a little. what can i do to help her feel comfortable with letting a little loose Have to love all the angry "mature" women on this thread. (And, hell, on AB in general.) Girls, guys will ALWAYS be little boys inside. Our toys get bigger, and cooler. But that's okay. Women are secretly little girls inside. And what do the girls do while the boys play kick ball? Gossip, play dress up, and talk about how wierd boys are. See? Nothing changes... I...

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Ok here goes my husband is faithful he is home every night but there is one thing that urks me and that is he will look at other women online or if we are driving somewhere and see's a women with a nice body he will look. To me i feel direspected. BTW, managed to neatly sidestep this problem in my current relationship: She's bi, and she's more likely to point out an attractive woman than I am. It's VERY refreshing to be able to be completely honest with a woman, without her being put off by it.

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What is the rudest form of social conduct? I think it's trying to force people to be like you. Funny how often people surprise you, if you just give people the space to be themselves.

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Ok here goes my husband is faithful he is home every night but there is one thing that urks me and that is he will look at other women online or if we are driving somewhere and see's a women with a nice body he will look. To me i feel direspected. All women get upset about this, and all guys do it. I think in a totally honest relationship, you should be able to call him out on it in a way that will imply that you're not threatened by it. I can tell you, for what it's worth, that it doesn't mean he's dissatisfied, just that he's (gosh) attracted to women... Anyway, in my relationships, I've always tried...

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My internet girlfriend comes online every night and she hasnt been on for the past four days now. i am afraid she has left me. (to any users that want to slate me for having an internet relationship = i want advice, not critisicm.) Maybe she's got other things going on in her life? Maybe she's a little bored? Most relationships tend to progress in a more and more personal (and physical) direction. Without that progression going on, it's sort of hard to maintain the momentum of the relationship. I guess that's the difficulty in doing your thing online. I'm not much for the online thing,...

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I have a 4 year old daughter that took her clothes off in public and was acting out in a sexual way. My daughter is in foster care and the foster care worker called me to tell me about it. How do I talk to my daughter about that? I don't think it's entirely unnatural. And, I'm not being a pervert here, either... On the whole, we want to reject sexuality in young children, but any psychologist will tell you that it is during those years that we form many of our predispositions regarding sexuality. There are documented cases of really young kids masturbating, etc. If you act too strongly to...

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Is the concept of a god,that is considered separate from mankind,and has a human personality and form, a continuation from the Egyptian,Roman,and Greek ancient beliefs,thus continued into today's western religions? I think that if you want to trace the origin of the Christian God, you have to actually start in ancient Mesopotamia. Back then, Jehovah (known by a different name, which escapes me... Elohim?) was one of many Sumerian Gods, which, interestingly enough, many are actually mentioned in the Old Testament. Abraham, the father of the Jewish people, basically chose to follow only Jehovah, and...

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There this chick that i like we always give eye contact.So todai i saw her and we stare at each other, She was gonna go class since the bell rang i can tell.But wen she saw me she walk pass me and went to the washroom kinda looking back.What does it mean? Listen: Learn the art of the flirtacious "hey..." It's easy, you can do it even if you feel shy, and it opens doors. If not now, then maybe later. All you do is look right at her, nod your head a little, and say "hey." Now, if you're feeling a bit more ballsy, stop her, and have a conversation. But, if you want something low risk that says, I see you...

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Do you believe the sun should never set upon an argument? No, A lot of times, arguments take time to sort out. By saying that you have to settle it in X amount of time, the chances are, you're not going to reach a suitable conclusion. And, in a relationship, it's okay to disagree, and agree to discuss it later when you have more time, or aren't so pissed off.

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I have been with a guy for almost 2 months, but he still hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend. How do I know if he is serious about me or just going on dates, every other weekend, just to have a good time? This is a way tougher question than the simple answers you see here would sugggest. (A few of the girls are nodding, most of the guys are thinking "huh?") Here's the thing about guys. We're very happy having things fairly undefined. (Well, most guys.) And we hate being pushed. ********************************************** Mistake one: Timing: i.e. Girl and...

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What's the easiest way to utilize RS-232 in my hobby circuits? It would probably help a bit if I knew what you're working on: If your working with something like a PIC, there are a lot of PIC programmers on the market. If you want to homebrew that, then you just use an RS 232 transciever chip wired into the processor, and a terminal client with a script. You can use a jumper to set the read / writee pin to the proper level for programming, and...

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How Do I rock my hips when I'm on top of my boyfriend? Is there anything I can do to him while on top to make him feel better? I can't imagine how anyone could explain this in text. Why not check out some porn, and find one where the girl seems to do this well, and see if you can duplicate it. I'm sure your boyfriend will be happy to help you practice. In the process you may discover that you really like porn. (Some girls do.) I've enjoyed watching porn with my last two girlfriends, and as long as...

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What would be good sex? Primal... You know when you're having sex, and you're pretty much unaware of your surroundings, and it feels like you're moving without thinking, like it's happening all by itself? There's an animal thing about it. -But, I like to be sweet and gentle from time to time, too...

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Complete the sentence......Women are like_____________________? Cats. On the one hand, moody, and unpredictable, with a tendency to be a little bitchy. On the other hand, once they decide they like you, they are fiercely loyal, and loving, and sweet. --But they still have claws and teeth, and don't you forget it.

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I can't find a date because I'm too smart! Not really in academics, but I'm definitely finding it hard to find a man that can match wits with me. Where do smart men hang out? Being smart is over rated. I'm pretty smart, and I get tired of being smart. It makes it a pain in the ass to relate to other people. Let go of the need to be a know it all, and just enjoy the people around you for who they are. If you really want to meet an intellectual guy, take a philosophy class at your local community college. For that, be careful what you wish for....

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Why do women always agree with each other on things, such as thinking that a man is a bad person? Women agree with everything another woman says! Think you're drawing a broad conclusion based on limited information... On the other hand, if you screw your girlfriends' best friend, don't be surprised if all the women in your life decide you're an asshole.

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What pickup up line has worked the best for u, when getting girls? Girls what pickup line would u like a man to try on u? Is there anything that works better than a pickup line?? What's the best pickup line you've come across? A guy who's constantly looking for a better line probably has some issues to work through. If you must use a pickup line, realize that it's not the line you use, it's the attitude that you project. Generally speaking, it's not what you say, it's how you say it. A clever pickup line is probably a lot less powerful than: "I noticed you sitting over here,...

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Recently I found out that this girl my boyfriend gave his number has been txting him asking for him to come visit her at work. Really pisses me off that she knows that he's with me, but still does it. Is there any solution to this? The short answer is no. Any attractive guy is going to have girls flirting with him. The more attractive, and together he is, the worse (more frequent) the problem is. Unless you want to date the lower end of the gene pool, you're going to have to deal with it. If it's any reassurance, he's with you for a reason. If you guys have something, and things are pretty good,...

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I have developed feelings for my longtime friend, but he has an unstable girlfriend he always complains about. I don't think they will last but what should I do? I really want to be with him. I'm gonna go ahead on put on my devil horns for this question, hope you don't mind. If you want to undermine the other girl, here's how you do it. Whenever he complains about her, you defend her. Not so much as to change his mind, just enough that he wants to keep griping. Do this long enough, and he'll convince himself that he needs out of the relationship. Guy: My...

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My boyfriend is really smart(smartest in the whole school)and im average. well sometimes talking to him i feel really really stupid, i try to study to be smarter but i still dont get what he says, then he said i was clueless but it was cute. wht tht mean? You know what? I'm really smart. (And, I know it's not something that you brag about, but the rest of this isn't gonna make any sense unless I start there...) But being smart isn't actually all it's cracked up to be. For one thing, you have a really hard time relating to people. When you try to explain things, things that seem simple to you, you get wierd...

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My boyfriend isn't very intimate with me. He doesn't like to snuggle or french kiss (even after sex) or even sit next to me on the couch. He obviously loves me, and treats me well, but I can't help but want to feel closer to someone. Should I get over it? Well, if you're feeling unfulfilled now, ask yourself how you'd feel after ten years of marriage to the guy. Talk to him, tell him what's up. If you can't get through, maybe it's time to find another...

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Do you think my girlfriend would be okay with getting married at chuck-e-cheese? Well, you know what they say... "Chuck E Cheese is the new Vegas." LOL

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How do i please my girlfriend in the bedroom, like really turn her on? Take your time. You want to tease her a bit, and get her turned on, and wnating more before you step it up a notch. And it starts outside the bedroom. For instance, you're watching TV with her, put your arm around her, lean in really close and tell her how she's turnining you on at the moment. When you kiss her, you pause for a second first, to build a little anticipation....

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How do i get my boyfriend to want to hang out with me more, instead of with his guy friends all the time? Be more fun. Maybe I should explain this a bit. If, every time the two of you hang out, it's movies or TV, there's a good reason he's choosing to hang out with his buddies over you. Another thing, you can always hang out with him and his buddies. In general, we really like a girl who can put aside being girly for a while, and have fun with the guys. (Although, I...

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I am a college student, and my dad still doesn't know that I smoke. Should I tell him? Sure makes it awkward when you're around the family, and you get that itch to smoke. You could just show up smelling like smoke. Let him put two and two together...

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How do I become emotionally tough? Bottle everything up, and make sure that no emotion ever escapes. Stay shut up in your apartment and never leave. Keep all friends at arms' length. Never be romantically involved with anyone. (Okay, those all suck.) The truth is, you get tougher when you're kicked around a bit. Also, broader perspective tends to translate into thicker skin.

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I feel as though one of my friends has betrayed me, she comes round in the morning to my house and gets a lift to college, but then she ditches be at college. At the end of the day she comes all sweet and gets a lift home - what should I do? Take a little social initiative, and hang out with her a bit. If she seems to be INTENTIONALLY avoiding you, the friendship is over, and she's just using you. The chances are, though, that she's just gotten busy. Part of the process of going to college is finding new friends. Sounds like your friend has done that, and you have not. This is another place where you may need to put...

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Everytime I see my ex-gf with her new bf, I physically want to collapse it hurts so bad. The pain is so intense and it's driving me crazy. Is this the worst inner pain you can experience in life? :( Anything anyone can tell you right now, will probably seem callous and distant. I can tell you that the pain you feel is the pain of clinging to something that's gone. Until you can let go, you will hurt. Unfortunately, the process is that of grief, and there's a road you have to walk before you can let go. It is a cold and lonely road, but when you reach the end, you will...

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When atheists go from door to door in their white shirts and ties, are you serious with them, or do you have fun with them? Do you even answer the door? Ha! Back in the day the Jehovah's Witnesses would come to the door while we were getting high, and we'd invite them in, and discuss God and such, in the way that you do when you're high. The Jehovah's Witnesses were actually really cool about it, and to be honest, I think we all enjoyed the discussions. All things considered, they were more open minded than many...

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Can you drink alcohol while taking amoxicillin? i read the label and it didnt say 'not too' Yes you can. I've done it personally. You know how they say that one of the potential side effects of amoxicillin is eupohria? Throw some alchohol in the mix, and you are a very comfortable drunk.

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Are you homophobic? I'm honest enough to realize that I am slightly homophobic. But only because it's unfamiliar. I have no problem with gay people in principle, but grew up in a religious house with a lot of wierd messages about gay folks. So, yes, I am a bit... But I'm working on it, and I feel like I've come a long way...

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I think i fell back in love with my ex-boyfriend, what should i do? I think you need to consider that you're just lonely and maybe it would help to make a list of all the reasons that you broke up. Also, don't spend so much time by yourself. Hang out with some friends, make plans etc. Good Luck

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My boyfriends ex fling is writing flirty little comments on his wall. I think he should delete her! It's not appropriate. What do you think? Jealousy is a funny thing: It's expressed as a desire to hold tighter to what you love, but what it does is drive them away.

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Would your guy get upset if you waited til you saw him to let him know you had your period? i know this sounds crazy, but my friend just had this situation come up.... Sounds like a douschebag to me. It seems to me that a guy would be a complete idiot to ever be that blunt, even if he WERE only in it for sex. (And I am not justifying it, just pondering how even the shallowest guy could ever be that stupid...)

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Why is love so difficult to understand? What is love? Love is reveling in the presence of another. If no two people are the same, then it follows that no two relationships are the same. It would then follow that love may be cast in a myriad of forms, and is not a static concept. It is completely unique, and changing, moment by moment. The more you try to analyze it, the more any definition slips away. Yet, in the moment,...

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If i sleep with 3 different guys in two weeks, does that make me a slut? Look, fuck what anyone else thinks. Make yourself happy. There are all kinds of people in this world. A porn star would think you were naive for asking the question, while your grandmother might think you're a slut just for making out with a guy in his car. The question is: What do YOU think?

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I like my boyfriend to spank me hard with a belt is it harmful to me Sex is a funny thing. It's hard to know what will turn you on, until you're there. The rule of thumb is, if it feels good, and you're both into it, and it's not hurting anyone, go right ahead. Just because it's kinky doesn't make it wrong.

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"I'm selfish and I want you all to myself." What would you think if someone said this to you? -Wow, she really better have been laughing at the time. -Or it could be erotic, if it was said in the right place and context, maybe a breathy sensuous female voice... Can't really think of any other context where I would be okay with hearing that.

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WHAT I MEAN IS IM ALWAYS THROWING UP AND FEELING SICK TO THE STOMACH AROUND HIM AND WE ARGUE O MUCH You know, you didn't get around to asking your question, but I'll help you out anyway... BREAK UP with the dickhead. You'll feel better.

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How come all the folks that hatesw george bush the most is always real bad retarded? Are you familiar with the term "irony?"

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Is it ethical to tell someone something that is not true to see how quickly it spreads and comes back to you? Sounds like high school girl shit to me. But, if that's your thing, ethics probably aren't your strong suit anyway...

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Would you ever date someone who is obese Nothing against obese people, but I don't think I could. I mean, how would the sex work? Girl on top? Out of the question... And what about sleeping together? And the list goes on... Then also, would she want to do the things that I do that are active, such as snowboarding? After all, it's a lot of work for me, and I'm a skinny, well muscled dude, and I'm...

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Would you ever want to be in a relationship with someone who had herpes You know, for all the people who claim that they would never be in such a relationship, consider that herpes is very COMMON. Probably half the people on this board HAVE been in a relationship with someone with herpes. (Or have herpes, since it doesn't always have symptoms) If you've ever gotten a cold sore -- you have herpes... Personally, I could deal with being in a...

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How do you tell if someone is bipolar Somebody said that you can't, only a doc can, but if you have someone in your life who suspect is bipolar, it's a good idea to read up. After all, you need to know when they're actually being shitty to you, and when they're just dealing with being bipolar. My girlfriend is bipolar, and we fought a LOT, then I started reading, and realized that she couldn't always...

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Can a guy like to wear girl clothes and not be gay? Or what would you call that? That's called crossdressing / being a transvestite. You can be a crossdresser and gay, or a cross dresser and straight. Being gay or straight is about who you fuck, not what you wear.

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Is it ok for a 9 year old to think about sex? Actually, if you trace the roots of our sexuality, it actually goes back farther than that. Most kids are vaguely aware of sexuality, and as they get older the picture gets clearer and clearer. Additionally, whatever messages that you're given about sex at this age carry through for the rest of your life. I would say that it is less bad for the kid to be thinking about sex at 9, than...

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Not too long ago a couple had a baby and they named him "Adolf Hitler". A lot of people were very upset and thought they should face child abuse charges. What do you think? Actually, I was reading on yahoo news that a judge had a child taken from his parents and placed in protective custody, with a court ordered name change for this type of shenanigans. I don't know if I'm in favour of that, but I would feel sorry for the kid.

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My main goal in life is to be a divorced woman or a widow. But I am not married yet. Any suggestions? Vegas?

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If a guy stared at you everytime he saw you why would he get a girlfriend? Why wouldn't he ask you out? A guy i like stares all the time but recently got a girlfriend and even when he was holding her hand he still looked into my eyes. The guy thinks you're attractive, but unavailable. You missed the boat, because you weren't friendly. Did you smile? Did you say hi? Chances are, he found a girl who was a little easier. If there's a lot of tension between the two of you, but you're both too shy to break that tension, it's not going anywhere. Such is life.

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Why dont I trust my boyfriend Is it just your boyfriend, or is it guys in general? If it's just your boyfriend, you probably have good reasons. If it's guys in general, you probably have some issues. Maybe you're afraid of being hurt, or maybe something else. Hell, maybe you're a lesbian, and you're just deluding yourself. Really hard to say, since you didn't give us any details.

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Which should you trust more — your head or heart? If you always lead with your head, you miss out on a lot of what makes life worthwhile. If you always lead with your heart, you tend to be very wishy washy, undependable, and have a hard time keeping your mind made up. So you have to strike a balance between the two extremes.

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I have just changed my plugwires, but the car wouldn't move once put in gear. i called 3 different auto places and they each gave me a different diagram for the rotation of the plugwires, i have tried them and now the car won't start at all, whats the pro You can actually damage your engine by putting the plug wires on in a wierd order. This is particularly true with certain overhead cam import cars, where the valves, when open, occupy the same space in the head as the piston does at top dead center. It's not THAT likely that you've damaged the engine, but don't take this thing lightly. It's not a trial and error...

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Why is it that girls cant help talking about people behind there backs? People who spend too much time talking about other people, generally do so because they don't have enough shit of their own going on. It's a wierd form of living vicariously, IMHO. Plus, it makes you feel important for a few minutes. If you're in a position to criticize, obviously you're better than the one you're criticizing. Of course, this is flawed logically,...

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Do you think its true that everyone uses someone for something? I watched this movie, "Secondhand Lions" last night, it's a little Disney, but still a deep, interesting movie. In the movie one of the old men gives the speech, what every boy needs to know about being a man: "Sometimes the things that may or may not be true are the things a man needs to believe in the most. That people are basically good; that honor, courage,...

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I'm 15, and my lover is 17. My mom wants to press charges on the 17 year old. Can she do that? Will he be sent to prison? age difference is a pretty big factor, they look differently at 15 y/o hooking up with a 17 y/o than a 15 y/o hooking up with a 30 y/o... I know it's preachy, and I know you don't care, but you really should wait until you're older. That's probably what pisses your mom off more than anything is that you are so young, to be having sex...

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Is it considered "impolite" if a man does not flirt back when a woman flirts with him? When a girl flirts with me, and for what ever reason, I do not intend to return the gesture, I always feel a little awkward. Flirting doesn't neccessarilly mean that you're sexually attracted. Take the case of flirting with the waitress at a restaurant. Sometimes, you flirt just to make the other person feel good, and brighten their day a little. So, choosing not to flirt back,...

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Can you write me a Zombie Survival Guide? A plan to survive the plague and horde and then repopulate the world and set up a new Government? What your plan to save te world from the Zombivication of the Planet? Also pretend like its a Gov. Doc. thanks? Believe it or not, such a guide exists, and can be purchased at Barnes and Noble. There is also a guide for surviving a robot uprising, if you're interested...

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I want to get boyfriend Christmas gift, any suggestions I was thinking a cologne set, what cologne do you like? Any flavour that comes in an XBOX 360 case... Do you know your boyfriend at all? Personally, I think that a girl who gets a guy perfume (and cologne is perfume...) is probably out of touch... You're getting him something that you would like to get, instead of something he wants... Unless the guy is metrosexual, get him something from Best Buy instead...

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Very small office. Very detached boss. One person on staff of 16 is always late, always shirking her share of the daily duty roster, always leaving patients unsupervised when they desperately need direct supervision. How do I tattle without tattling? --I'm not sure I see the problem... If the "shirker" is a piece of shit, they'll get theirs... If you take steps to make that happen yourself, you are overstepping your boundaries.

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What are some good drinking songs? "Chug a Lug" by Roger Miller. It's a classic, so old most will not even know it. Not quite country, from the era of Johnny Cash...

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Guys: certain Freudian mechanisms dictate that if you behave in a particular manner around a girl, and DO NOT allow yourself to be counted among her "friends" but stay an "acquaintance," she will fall for you whether she wants to or not. Agree? Discuss. I think that most of the people who are wrapped up in trying to over analyze the whole dating thing, and trying to manipulate people into "liking them" or "falling for them" have some serious issues to deal with. 1) Self worth - Who cares if she "falls for you", there's always another girl... 2) Manipulative motivations - You can't control other...

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Do you agree?: That relationships, monogamy, and marraiges,are kind of fading out... that if your not already in an existing one, chances are it aint happening... Think about how many people you know that recently claimed a new relationship? I don't think that any of those things are truly fading out. I think there is an instinctive human drive to create lasting bonds, and another to nurture a family. As somebody else said, young folks tend to not know exactly what they want. There's a level of exploration, and figuring out what's out there, at a younger age. I don't think that's bad, in and of itself,...

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Do you find it disturbing that the Hist. channel and the Disc. channel glamorize the destruction of our forests with shows such as ax men? hahahahahahhaahahahhahahaahahahhahahahahaha <sniff...> whew... You're kidding, right?

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Why do men read books in the bathroom? I do my best thinking in the bathroom...

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What if an officer is given consent to enter a household for say(searching for a convict) and goes straight to a closet in a bedroom and finds something else(say a marijuana plant) and confiscates it, and one will be "hearing from them soon" what to do? I think the mistake was the 'consent' part. If you give your consent for them to enter, their powers are pretty broad. If they have to get a warrant, the warrant spells out pretty specifically what they're there to do, and it gives you a pretty strong legal defense if they step outside of those boundaries. As far as damage control goes, you'd better walk the...

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What are the odds of a 20 year old guy vs a 30 year old guy coming back to a realationship? I think it's more a question of maturity level than age. For guys especially, age does not dictate maturity level. I would say if a guy's fairly mature, and has his shit together, if he breaks up with you, he knows what he's doing, and it's probably over. A less mature guy will probably have a tougher time keeping his mind made up.

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Would you rather have a tooth ache for the rest of your life, or be toothless? I see you drink Molson too... Cheers!

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The guy i like is very cool, and he likes me back, but now he is annoyed because everytime a girl would talk to him i would get upset,and we werent even dating! now he will barely talk to me, did i totally blow my chances, even when he said were cool? It's a bad move to act jealous when you're dealing with a guy, and it's almost definitely going to get you branded as 'crazy'. But, how do you deal with the emotion? First off, the only reason that you're feeling jealous is because you're putting too much emphasis on having this guy. You probably don't feel like you have that many other options, or...

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DOES A GUY COME BACK TO A GIRL, EVEN AFTER SHE HAS MADE DESPERATE ATTEMPTS TO "TRY AND GET HIM BACK"? Well, let's play a game called "reality check." As a woman, assuming that you are not ridiculously obese, or horribly disfigured (in other words, 99% of all women) you are automatically in demand. When you go to buy groceries, or stop at Mickey Dees to grab a bite to eat, guys are checking you out. We can't help it, it's what we do. Now, get on craigslist, and...

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I love to talk to people I know, but I'm pretty shy with new people that I don't know too well, is there anything I can do to not be so shy? I think that a lot of the anxiety is caused by making things bigger than they really are. I think it helps a little bit to step outside the situation a little bit, and realize that in the grand scheme of things, it doesn't really matter if the person you're dealing with likes you or not. Once you loosen up, and let yourself go a little bit, I think you realize that the people...

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I recently found out my live-in boyfriend has been lying to me about going to strip clubs and hiding his cell bill. Is he cheating? I don't think that going to a strip club is cheating. As one of my buddies says, it's not about where you get your appetite, it's where you eat dinner... But then, I'm not really that into strip clubs either... Hiding his cell bill may be cause for concern, though. Can you get the bill off the internet? I know my cell provider lets me... Although shame on you...

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Can a woman drive her husband to commit suicide? Why? Are you trying? (Or is your s/o?)

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Regular pentagon, why would this be a difficult choice for tiling an area? Pentagons don't tesselate... (tile) You can prove this with a little theory: Sum of the angles of a pentagon = 540 Divided by 5 corners = 115 degrees since 360 does not divide evenly by 115, the shape does not tesselate. Could show you this better with a picture, but maybe you take my word for it...

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Men: What is the perfect breast size? (Using bra sizes.) I think the only correct answer a guy can give a girl, when asked this question is: Yours.

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What does it mean when a guy says he is confused? He says he doesnt know exactly how he feels about me (as in he doesnt know if he wants to be with me). Guys can you help me understand what is going through his head. There sure is a lot of man bashing on this forum... Is it possible that the guy is just confused, and needs some time to think? Girls tend to make decisions quickly and emotionally, while guys tend to take some time to think things over. Standard Mars and Venus stuff. Give it a week, if he's still waffling, it's time to move on...

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Why is it after long while girls tend to get mad at everything you do? Women see men as a work in progress. They figure out how they want us to be, and set to work "civilizing" us. Men on the other hand, meet a girl, decide she's perfect, and pray she'll never change. Unfortunately, we don't change as much as they'd like, and they change way too much to suit us...

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I have been seeing a guy for a while now and we were talking on the internet and it was getting kind of dirty. I asked him "how big he is" and he flipped out and doesnt want to be with me now. What should I do/say to make it up to him? Was asking rly bad? The guys probably on the small side if he's sensitive about it. Technically, you did cross a line there, but if the two of you were having a dirty net thing goin' anyway, I don't think he's got that much room to complain. (Not judging...) Anyway, you can bank on it that he's on the small side if the question bothers him. If that bothers you, proceed accordingly....

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How do you tell or hint to a guy that you like him? Good advice on the flirting thing. Now, I know you don't want to hear this next part, because it's more work, and you would have to take a little risk, but I'll just throw it out there... A lot of younger guys are pretty shy. If you're dealing with a younger guy, (High school to early college) who isn't constantly surrounded by girls, you need to consider the...

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If a woman goes out on a date with a man for the first time, should she meet him somewhere, or should he pick her up at her house? In general, whatever's most convenient for the two of you, although if it's an online thing, you oughta meet someplace public first, so you can make sure the guys normal before you let him know where you live.

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A co-worker called me a girly-girl the other day, which surprised me. What qualities do you think constitutes a girly-girl? What I'm trying to say goes a bit deeper than that. It's cool for me to have guy interests, and I don't need you to pretend to be into those things. I don't need a girlfriend to talk cars with. I've got plenty of guy friends who like to talk cars. I don't think you need a guy to talk clothes and makeup with. You've got plenty of girlfriends for that. ...

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A co-worker called me a girly-girl the other day, which surprised me. What qualities do you think constitutes a girly-girl? Ahh, but the counter point to your argument is that you would have to be willing to talk to me about the bigblock 450 Chevy motor that my buddy down the street is rebuilding in his spare time. I wouldn't expect mush more than superficial interest from you, and I wouldn't expect that you would expect more than superficial interest from me about your dress. As in: 'That dress...

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I'm married and having and affair with a married man. I'm in love with him but had try several times to end the relationship.He doesn't stop calling me. He swear that he love me and can't let me go. Should I believe him? Change your number...

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Assume my crush likes me. Why would her friends do "accidental touches" to me? I'm confused... With girls, a lot of times, there's this 'queen bee' competitiveness, where they sort of compete for the guys. Also, particularly with young girls, there's a tendency for them to not be able to decide things for themselves. But, if the group concensus is that a guy is 'cute', bring on the mass flirting... Add in that competitive thing, and you've got...

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A co-worker called me a girly-girl the other day, which surprised me. What qualities do you think constitutes a girly-girl? Girly girls are attractive, for sure. They put lots of time and energy into being attractive. And I think that has it's place. But when a girl is so deeply entrenched in girl world that she can't relate to guys, she's basically a Barbie Doll. She'll always wonder why guys are so shallow, and they only care about her looks. Interestingly, she's built this dynamic...

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Why does everyone lie about the antecedent attraction behind relationships? everyone proclaims that personality is paramount, but that's fallacy. looks is key. again, why does everyone lie about it? I think that attraction is absoultely necessary. It's not like a guy puts his ego on the line to talk to the fattest grossest girl in the bar. Girls, despite their say so otherwise, won't put any energy into talking to a guy who they don't feel some level of attraction for. So, almost no matter what, your looks get your foot in the door. But, what happens after that is...

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What is the hardest thing to deal with when you are single? Time. There's just too much of it. You wander around the house, bored, then you go out in town and wander around, hoping to meet somebody. And then there's the fact that, the moment your single, all your friends seem to meet someone special, so they don't want to hang out right now. And on the weekends, you go out, more out of habit, than out of hope. There's...

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My bf accidently said the words "love you" 3 times in two days either thru voice mails or when he was saying good night.......after he said them he kinda stuttered and tried to cover them up.....? what does this mean? As everyone knows, those are loaded words. If I could offer some advice, resist the urge to read too much into it. There's a hundred different possible explanations, but you're not gonna figure it out by analyzing. Let things be. If you love the guy, let him know, but as another former military type, I can tell you that the guy is about to change dramatically. When you go to...

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Why is it that most good looking guys are jerks? Do they think that their good looks compensate for the lack of character? Just today, I was out grabbing a bite to eat, and lo and behold, in walks a tall leggy goddess, wearing a low cut shirt, and those crazy hooker boots. I noticed her immediately when she walked in, and she noticed me noticing. Her demeanor changed, she shifted into this sensual thing that floated across the room, to grab a straw from the dispenser, and then she turned and walked out the door....

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Men: Do you prefer women who are more assertive or more passive? If there was a 1 to 10 scale, with 1 being completely passive, just rolls over and lets me have my way all the time, and 10 being totally aggressive and confrontational, and never being willing to back down from a fight, I'd like a girl who's about a 4.5. In english, though, I just want a girl who's relatively laid back, but will push a little bit when things aren't going...

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I haven't requested child support from my boyfriend and he wants a paternity test. Its his but I feel it doesn't make sense being that he isn't doing anything for my baby which is due in a month. What do you think? Ummm... Is it his? Does he actually have something to worry about here? If you know for a fact that it's his, you've got nothing to worry about. Get the test. It's just ammo in your can if things fall apart. If you have some doubts, you might be better off not getting the test. If he's asking for a paternity test, he's looking to put the responsibility...

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Do you know tactics to prevent your bf from taking you for granted? A few thoughts on the matter: In the early stages of dating, the guy does all the legwork. He calls you, he sets up the dates, he drives to your house to pick you up, he takes you home, he makes the first move, etc, etc, etc.... But then you've been dating for a while, and that game starts to get old, because you've been doing this long enough that it's a pattern. The guy...

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When you tease a girl is it because you actually fancy er or are you like that with everyone>>i<e<your friends and other girls too? I'm a big teaser. With my guy friends, it's strong, male pattern bonding stuff. With girls, it's lighter and gentler. If I'm teasing a girl, it's because I like her. If I don't care one way or the other, I treat her like a guy aquaintanance, who I don't know well enough to tease.

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One of my friends invites me over to hang out and we get drunk and start kissing and then hookup.. Does this mean she likes me? or was it just a drunken fling.. Also this was the first time weve hanged out together all the other times were with others Well, if she had sex with you, even a drunken fling, there's some level of attraction. If you like this girl, you need to strike while the iron is hot. Tell her how you feel, and why you're into her. (more than physical, don't be a pig...) She almost definitely needs some reassurance from you, because otherwise, she's gonna be feeling a little used and dirty. If you...

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WHY IS IT THAT MEN LIE ABOUT WATCHING PORN AND THEN TELL YOU THEY LOVE YOU AND ITS ALL OK? OR AM I OVER REACTING? Personally, I'm pretty straight up about my porn habits. I watch porn from time to time. It doesn't mean I don't love my girlfriend. She knows I watch it. We don't watch it together, because that would feel a little wierd to me, to have her judging my reactions. I have watched porn with other girlfriends, and we enjoyed it. I wouldn't push it on a girl myself, but I...

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What shud i do if i hate a guy how he is now, but cant let go of what he used 2 b like? When you're first in a relationship, a lot of what's going on is idealized. In other words, you see him as more than he is, and he sees you as more than you are. Add in the fact that, at least to some degreee, you're both trying to impress each other, and the problem gets worse. Eventually, life just catches up, and eventually you see each other in a more truthful light. If...

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This guy was really into me at first calling and texting all the time. I told him that I wasn't sure what I wanted but I liked him. He felt the same way. So now he barely calls at all, he makes excuses everytime we are supposed to hang out. What's up? He's not into you. If he's into you, he'll find excuses to hang out with you. Pretty clear cut. That may be because you didn't seem interested, or there may be another girl that he likes better, or he may have become a monk. God knows. But, one things for sure, he's got better things to do now...

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During a party your date keeps texting his friends whenever you're not with him. Is this a good sign or a bad sign? I'm gonna go against all the other answers... I don't think that texting when you're not around is necessarilly a bad thing. It depends on who he's texting, of course. So just nonchalantly ask him what's up. If he's way guarded with his response, then you might have grounds to worry. Another possibility is that he's fidgeting with his phone, something...

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Can I mix audio files on a computer with a mixer that has usb? yes, ost definitely. Check out Audacity. It's free, and it works pretty well with my usb output of my guitar FX pedal, so I would think it would get along with your mixer...

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Give two examples ( actual equipment) of non linear loads that produce harmonic currents. I would think that any ac motor would fit that description.

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Give some random tips about anything. Do not taunt happy fun ball...

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What are some good opportunities to meet new people? I'm guessing you're probably not one with the bar scene. That's cool, I'm not either... I think the easiest, most low pressure way to make friends is through your friends. Have a get together. Have your friends bring people. It's a little tough for the introverted type, but you've gotta take a little initiative, and pick up the phone, and call people...

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DOES A GUY COME BACK TO A GIRL, EVEN AFTER SHE HAS MADE DESPERATE ATTEMPTS TO "TRY AND GET HIM BACK"? Actually, it's the desperation that drives us away. How about just trying to be normal, maybe turning over a new leaf? If we're gonna come back, you better give us time to miss you...

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My heart has been noticeably aching for two weeks now. We broke up three weeks ago. Is this a real life broken heart? Will this subside? The longer you dwell on it, the longer it will hurt. That's not to say you need to try to deny your feelings. Notice them, pay attention to them, nurse them a little bit. Then, go out and do something for yourself. I don't know if that's a night out with your friends, or if it's a bike ride, a hiking trip, whatever... But, wasting away, feeling sorry for yourself is...

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Why does it take a breakup for some men to *tell* you how they feel...? (like compliment you or tell you they are "inspired" by you) It's funny how this break up thing is so damn universal. When you're in it, you think you're the only one who's ever gone through this, but then you talk to a couple people, and you realize just how common this sort of thing is. The perspective makes your problems feel smaller, and farther away. Anway, I'm gonna leave this alone now, but thanks a lot...

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If you were my boy friend, would you hate it if I call you "silly boy" in public? I'm here, if you ever need someone to practice on... ;)

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How can u tell if ur in love with a girl who hardly notices u? and how do i know she likes me back? This might not be the thing you wnat to hear, but dial it down a bit. You're not in love yet, you just have a thing for her. You're never gonna know until you get to know her.

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If you were my boy friend, would you hate it if I call you "silly boy" in public? Wouldn't mind a bit, as long as you're not defensive when I reciprocate.

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Is it true that a girl knows within 5 min if she will sleep with that guy? I suspect that a girl knows if she feels attraction within the first few minutes, but she's holding her breath, wondering if she's finally met a "good guy". At that point, she MAY sleep with you. If you don't fuck it all up by being a pig.

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Why does it take a breakup for some men to *tell* you how they feel...? (like compliment you or tell you they are "inspired" by you) Maybe the guy wasn't justifying the relationship before, but now that you're gone, there's this big, gaping hole in his life, and he has to work through that, figure out what's missing, and somehow pick up the pieces...

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Ok well what if i told him id kill myself unless he spoke to me even if it was to say he hated me? Also, if you're hoping to get the guy back by strong arming him with those sorts of threats, forget it. You make that phone call, and you are his new crazy girl story, which he will tell for the rest of his life. Trust me on that one, I've got a few of those stories, myself...

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How is it possible to have two contradictory facts about something and have them both true? Any conclusion you may reach concerning wether something is true or not is based on a model you have constructed to explain it's behaviour. It may be better to question wether that model is useful than wether it is always true. Case in point: Light. We describe two theories of light that are each true in certain instances, though neither can fully explain the behaviour of...

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Can you be "in love" with two people and still continue both relationships for a long time - but where one of the persons is in the dark? I think you can have feelings for more than one person, and you can even pursue more than one person romantically. But, to hurt the one you keep in the dark... Is that love?

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What do you love to hate about your partner? She has few interests of her own, and sees my hobbies as competing for her attentions...

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Is romeo justified in love when he falls for juliet so fast after loving rosaline? Love is pretty irrational, so who's to say... However, IMHO, Romeo is young and naive, and more in love with the idea of being in love than he is in love with Juliet...

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How on earth are you ever going to explain in terms of chemistry and physics so important a biological phenomenon as first love? To take the philosophical argument: Life is experiential, maeaning that it's all about experience, and how you EXPERIENCE all those chemical reactions is on an emotional and physical level. To try to catagorize the experience as empty, using a pseudoscientific argument, is to lose touch with your own humanity. Love may be irrational, but it is real.

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I want to make my face up to look like 'He who must not be named'. Do you know who I am talking about and do you have any ideas about what I should do with my nose? You could just buy a 'Bush' mask and save on makeup...

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Please help me. A message has just come up on my screen that says, "Windows has detected spyware infections". It says I should install (for a price) up-to-date spyware. Do I really have infections or do they just want my money? I'm not computer savy:( Yeah, if you click anything in a popup window, (often including the 'X' that closes the window, the popup may redirect your browser to another site, or attempt to install some sort of software on your computer. If they have to trick you to get you to put something on your computer, chances are, you don't want it... As far as the window that pops up saying that there's...

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When are they going to stop selling analog tv's without a converter box to go with it? I was under the impression that all TVs manufactured after a date in 2007 were supposed to come equipped with a digital tuner...

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How much is a converter box for analog tv and who sells it? The government decided to give out those rebates as a concession to the naysayers who said that the move to Digital-Only Broadcasting next spring (nationally, some locales are making the switch sooner) would make all the old analogue sets obselete. This is true, although all televisions manufactured past 2007 (I think) are supposed to be equipped with a digital tuner. Although it's...

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Do beautiful women also serve as blockers for their less blessed friends? A lot of times women have this queen bee mentality, where she has to prove her worth to the world. For women who define their value in terms of beauty, her worth is measured by the amount of male attention she recieves. Not all women are like that though... Just the ones struggling with a certain type of self esteem issue.

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How come women always find a reason to hate their s/o ex-girlfriend/wife? Simple enough... No one wants to be the asshole, so you gotta justify yourself. Funny thing is, the justification doesn't have to be grounded in reality, just convincing. Plus, let's be honest, the average woman has a jealous steak a mile wide, whatever whe may say to the contrary. She's gotta prove (in her mind, at least) that she's better than the ex, so that the...

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Do you think that a broad, varied college education without any specific major is valuable? Sure, In terms of being a well rounded person; But it might be tough to find a job...

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My husband was looking at porn. I was mad because he tried to hide it-I want to watch some with him but he is full of a lot of shame. Is there a way that I can help him open up out of his shell? I am not shy at all with him and it hurts that What if he caught you watching porn? Would he be all pissed, or be cool with it? Maybe that's a way to get him to loosen up. I think a lot of guys feel like they have to hide this stuff, because there is a perception that porn is dirty, and you don't want to get caught watching it. Many women feel slightly betrayed if their S/O is into porn, so you gotta deal with that...

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LOVE SUCKS WHO AGREES Sometimes, but sometimes it's pretty damn good...

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Guys do you like your girl to wear perfume? I think a little bit of perfume is kinda sexy, but absolutely hate it when a girls' scent is so strong, you can smell her when she enters the room. It's like nasal rape... I think the right amount of perfume is when I can only smell it when we're close, it makes me want to get closer...

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Why are you sleepy after sex? Actually, in guys, there is a sleepy chemical released, so we naturally tend to roll over and go to sleep. In girls, a cuddly chemical is released, so they want to cuddle afterwards. Not making this up, either...

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In a technicians box there are 400 chips, 12 of which are faulty. How many ways are there to pick two chips, so that one is a working chip and the other is faulty? pairing each faulty chip with each good chip leads to a matrix with dimensions 12x38. Maybe that will help you figure it out...

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The maximum distance a molecule has been moved from its normal position by a wave is Amplitude?

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If a person breaks up with you, isn't the respectable thing to do is for that person to tell you why? I'm not so sure... A lot of times, you can't explain it in terms that your now ex is gonna get. And, it's definitely hard to explain it in terms where they're not gonna get their feelings hurt. For instance, suppose I'm dating a girl who, when we first started dating, she's a ray of sunshine. After dating for six months, she's just a downer. I can't...

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Guys, what makes you notice a girl most? Her smile, the way she walks, the way she touches her skin or hair, or her sexy laugh? What catches my attention is her style, her hair, her smile, (her bod, too -- can't help it, I'm a guy...) What keeps my attention is her personality, though...

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Henry sold 120 magazine subscriptions1x + 2 days. if he sold at the same rate for another week, then how many magazines did he sell in the extra week? If I flush the toilet, and 90 percent of the turds go down on the first flush, and then flush again, this time 80 percent of the remaining turds go down. What percentage of the original shit is left? Yeah, I know, a double flusher, plus one... pretty gross...

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Wats the right role playing game for me i like creating poeple and im vilent oh ilike getting my charachter stronger and i wont buy any thing and when im done with my character id like to sell him for money i like mmeting other people online You know, I never saw much point to role playing games. You just do the same thing for hours and hours. (i.e. wander around till you get in a fight, then push X repeatedly, until the creature dies. Rinse, and repeat...) If you do it longer, the reward is just more of the same, except that now your dude gets to use a bigger sword. Yawn...

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Guys: Would a girl all dolled up with high heels on, or a girl with her hair up in a messy ponytail and tennis shoes catch your eye first? Same girl? Probably be more likely to strike up a conversation with the low key one. Something less intimidating, about her. Also, (and I know this is a broad sweeping generalization, but it is how I FEEL...) the girl who's all dressed up reminds me of all the party girls who've snubbed me, or not been able to carry on a conversation, because they're too focussed on being...

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Does anyone one else think it is a little strange when one of your questions gets rejected as nonsense after a dozen people have answered it and had no problem with it? What a silly question... Pure nonsense! :)

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Women i want to know. when i'm nice i seem to get treated badly and all i get left with is anger, but when i only care about me and be a dog women seem to like me better what is up with that. this whole situation is confusing me The problem isn't being nice, it's being boring. It's a fine line to walk, to be a good guy, worthy of her time and respect, without being a chump who has her on a pedestal, and she can't relate to you. The reason they like you better when you're being a dog, (so to speak) is that you're not putting up a front. Women will put up with a lot of shit from us, if...

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Why is it that girls who are somewhat mean to thier B/F seem to be treated better by them and those who are nice get walked all over? Because guys are suckers. The kind of guy who puts up with a lot of shit is the same guy that doesn't know to move on. But, then girls are also suckers, and the kind of girl who puts up with a lot of shit is the same girl that doesn't know when to move on. Anyway, if you know how to spot the good girls (guys), you don't have so much struggle built into your...

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When a guy starts dating a girl... can they sense whether they are their first boyfriend or not? And vice-versa? What kind of signs indicate that they have and haven't dated before? There's definitely a few tell tale signs that you're inexperienced. For one thing, everything's a little awkward. If you're worried about it, I'd just be up front about it. If the girl's really into you, it won't matter a bit.

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Is it a turn on or a turn off for the female to be the aggressor in a relationship? Can be. I think a guy's gotta work for you a bit. But, what is most frustrating is when the girl's not particularly receptive. If a guy is relatively inexperienced, and you are into him, you're almost gonna have to be aggresive. I lost my virginity to an aggressive girl. It was great. I think the conversation basically went: "Have you ever had girl do this...

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I notice that some people put certain words in Italics when writing letters, is this the same as putting the word in a bold text, if so, why don't they just bold it to begin with? It's not quite the same, just a way of setting something off from the rest of the text. It's actually proper usage in some instances. Personally, I like to italicize when I'm quoting someone else, so you know relatively easily which part is mine, and which is taken from another source. Of course, many people are complete idiots when it comes to writing, so if your question...

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Why does that asshole walk up behind me while i'm sitting at my cubicle, calling me a slacker? What should I say/do to him? He's just screwing around. It's typical male pattern bonding. Don't worry, no one else takes the guy seriously, either... If it were me, I'd respond, over the top, denying nothing... "I was trying to be invisible but you blew it. Thanks, dick." or maybe: "Yeah, the key is low expectations. Gotta keep the bar low, or they'll start expecting me...

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Is there any schematic / drivers for a psx controller to pc parallel port on XP? Actually, here's one more take on it, drivers and all... http://www.hardwaresecrets.com/article/149

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Is there any schematic / drivers for a psx controller to pc parallel port on XP? I got to wondering a bit more, so I did a bit of research on the subject. I was right about the serial interface. Only thing is, there's a bit of handshaking going on, so it's not quite as straight forward as I'd hoped. Here's a link to a page where the guy is doing this, using a PROM with a BASIC program running on it to handle the details of the handshaking. I...

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Guys: What's the bravest thing you have done to start talking to a girl you were interested in? Girls: What's the bravest thing you have seen a guy do to approach you? What was the outcome? One of my buddies climbed an 8 story hotel building, balcony to balcony, to talk to these girls. Of course, they were suitably impressed. Kept calling him spiderman. Don't recommend it, though...

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Is there any schematic / drivers for a psx controller to pc parallel port on XP? They sell a commercial version of this, cheaper than the controller you'll have to chop up to build one yourself. And that would be a lot easier than trying to build one. If you were determined to build one yoursef, I imagine it would be relatively easy, hardware wise. I would think they'd use a serial port instead of the parallel port, because there just aren't that many...

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Iam 24 and my girlfriend is 20. Last week whenever I met her, she gave a tight slap on my face 4 times on various occasions and I don't know what is the reason & she also didn't tell anything. What should I do now? Actually it depends... It could mean she thinks you're an asshole. Or it could mean she's a bit kinky. It's all context. And since you give no further explanation, no one here can help you...

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I have crush on this guy but when he lifted up his shirt i seen his belly i started to get butterflies it was like heaven why is that It's called attraction... You'll have to spend some time with the guy, get to know him, see if you feel the same way once you know his soul... Then, it's love...

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GIRLS...Would it be totally weird for a guy to approach you in public, tell you he noticed you, and ask if you would like to hang out/talk on the phone/email, etc? *Is it appropriate to talk to someone you don't know like that?* I'm no girl, but if you think about it, how else are you gonna meet a girl who's worth a damn? Most of the bar crowd is a bit boring, and young... Or older, and a little creepy. Only other options are online dating, which kinda has "desperate" built right into it, or meeting a girl through your circle of friends... I think that it's more about how you go about...

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What do guys really think about girls who won't put out until a couple of months into the relationship? I would think that you need to take a step forward in your thinking. All those stupid dating rules that you hear are pretty arbitrary. If you find someone and you click, I'd say sieze the moment, before it's lost forever...

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What are guys really thinking when the skinny blonde girl in mini shorts and a spaghetti strap tank top does a presentation at the front of the class? I probably wouldn't think too much of it either way. Rest assured, I would appreciate her femininity, but I would probably hear what she's saying too. As far as do I think she's a slut? Not so much...

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I know this sounds weird, but do any of you ever think it's cool when you see a guy in long sleeves and pants and a hot girl in a mini-skirt and tanktop standing next to eachother? Seems pretty metro to me, to wonder whether a couple's outfits should match. I think I've got better shit to worry about, unless I'm going to a halloween party, in which case, I might work with her on a theme...

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If your talking on the phone with someone would you want to know if they were maturbating? It's all in the context... If you're talking phone sex, then I believe it's basically understood that they are... If you're talking 'midnight caller, heavy breathing,' that's pretty scary.

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What is worse, despise or hate? Yeah, but hate is often used in such an off hand way, like: "I hate broccoli." If someone takes the time to find a stronger word, rest assured that they feel more strongly about the subject. Despise certainly SOUNDS stronger...

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What do you do when you love your friend but he/she doesn't? Not the answer you want to hear, I'm sure, but keep looking. You can really beat yourself up over this stuff, wondering about all the whys and what not. But, if you move on, you're bound to find another. Also, people often don't realize what they're missing until you're gone. I had a girl who was on the fence about me for a long time. Wasted a lot of time...

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Do you think rap music is annoying? Not entirely. I have no problem with rap music as a form, but I think that a lot of the mainstream rap is just a bunch of posturing. Guys raised in shitholes, making good, and having no idea what to do with the money. I think that content wise, most of these guys have very little to say or add to society. Of course, there are plenty of exceptions. Guys who actually know how to connect...

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What is the proper military protocol for saluting Presidential candidates? I don't believe you salute until the guy is sworn into office. If you saluted before, that would be like saluting an officer who had not been commisioned. Of course, even after his term is up, you'd still be required to salute the guy, following protocols similiar to a retired general / admiral...

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According to the Bible, by what means is purification from sins accokplished? According to the Bible, it is based on acceptance of God's natural order, and faith that Jesus' death was enough to redeem your sins. (Knowing this, I'm still on the fence, so don't feel like I'm preaching, please...)

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Did god create man, or did man create god so we had a reason behind why we're here...like, on earth (personally i believe the latter) Of course you believe the latter, the question almost implies it. Chicken or the egg? Kirkegaard wrote an entire book about this, and he said that the issue with faith is that when your inside of it, it makes sense, and when you're not it doesn't. He said that you gotta make a leap of faith either way. Personally, I can't take the leap, and so I wonder about this all...

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Im in love with this girl and im scared to tell her how i feel becausse we been down this road before and it didnt work what shouldi do? Shop around a little bit. You'll probably realize that you feel that way around lots of other girls too. You're probably too focused on this one girl to see it, and that makes you seem clingy. That is a real deal killer for most women. (and most men as well, ladies...)

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How should i approach a person to ask if their feelings are mutual? Strike up a conversation, and on a conversational high point (hers, not yours) tell her that you think she's great because... (give her a strong, PERSONAL compliment) Tell her you'd like to spend more time together. (And say it in a way that connotates desiring a relationship with her.) Hell, tell her that you find her incredibly sexy when she: (fill in the blank) You only...

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What kind of girl would not mind having an insecure guy as her boyfriend/husband? Girls marry weak guys. But they do not respect them. They marry this guy because he is predictable, and easily manipulated and controlled. But without respect, it's just a matter of time till her heart starts to wander. Every girl NEEDS to look up to her man, to see him as her hero. A weak man does not inspire the sort of weak in the knees, heart turns to putty in his hands...

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Why would my ex girlfriend send me an email asking "When can I get my bowl back?" We recently broke up and she said she just wants to be alone for a while If you want her back, dude, start dating other people. One of two things will happen: your ex will get jealous and decide to earn you back, or you'll find someone better. It's win-win... If you want to lose her forever, stay home, depressed about your current relationship sitch, and call your ex twice a day, begging for her attention...

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Okay , well theres this guy who likes me and i like him as well , but we never really talk about anything , and he says we dont talk much anymmore , i want to start talking more , but i never know what to talk about ? can you help me? Do something fun when you hang out. It takes the pressure off the both of you. You don't feel like you have to entertain each other, just hang loose and enjoy each other's company. The more time you spend together, the easier it is to have those deep conversations, cuz you're more comfortable, and have less desire to impress each other...

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Why are beautiful girls so cruel? Because you put your ego on the line when you talk to them. If you weren't attracted, it wouldn't hurt... And let's not forget how much attention these girls get, some desired, some not. Anyway, the less you NEED her validation, the less you care about this sort of thing, and paradoxically, the more attracted she's likely to be... i.e. : have more shit going on...

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Wherever i go, girls never wanna chat to me. i try and chat to them and be friendly but all that happens is they walk away! i dunno why they don't want me and i just wanna prove i can be good for them. i feel like i'm never gonna find anyone! help me! :-( Have you ever heard that it's not what you say, so much as how you say it? That's particularly true when you're talking to girls. Smile, put a little happy energy in your voice, and make it seem like you want to talk to her.

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Indian man single coming for job in seattle, would like to know what will be moderate monthly outgoing, including 1 bed room apt, commuting and eating few days outside. what will be total tax deduction on salary of 50k and 60k Plan on 800 to 1200 dollars a month for your apartment, depending on location and taste. If you're commuting by bus, it's relatively cheap, 2.50 each way from Everett, a bit cheaper if you live closer in. If you're driving, try to live relatively close, highways get pretty nasty around rush hour. As far as food, 20 bucks will take care of you most of the time, unless you...

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Anyone sent a text to the wrong person? I read an article in the newspaper about a guy who accidently sent a text to an off duty cop when he was arranging a drug deal. I'll bet he felt pretty stupid when he got arrested.

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What does this obscure competitive need for tallying the greatest number of points mean? Well, if you level up enough times, that means you get to use a really bigass sword... Oh wait... I'm thinking of another pointless, but vaguely entertaining internet pastime...

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After working 4 hours, frank made 21 machine parts. at the same rate, how many parts can he make in 7 hours? 21 parts divided by 4 hours equals number of parts per hour; times 7 hours yields your answer. Hope this helps ya with your homework...

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I have some old tshirts and pants that I'd like to cut or do somethin unique about em, what do you think? Jeans: Rub em with sandpaper or across cement. It gives them that tattered, weathered look. Another option: (depends on your taste) Wear (or cut) holes in them, then use old bandannas to patch up those holes from the inside. Looks pretty cool, cuz you can see the bandanna through the hole. Kinda a stoned Rocker look. Personally, I wouldn't cut up your shirts. If you wear a...

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I am messy and this infuriates my bf. I do all the cleaning but he won't let me hire help bc/ he says it's "just a bad habit" Sometimes i think he has a point. He complains about cat hair and yells at my cat for no reason. He has slapped me "as a joke" Look, only you can really answer that sort of question. Ultimately, it all comes down to this one point: Are you happy, in spite of the flaws in the relationship? Probably not, or you wouldn't be posting to this forum. Go forth,and find happiness...

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I have difficulty writing sex scenes they always come out weak and meaningless. I can write everything else it's just writing sex i have trouble with I've thrown all my inhibitions to the wall but i just can't write a decent sex scene. any suggestions? Years ago, I took a creative writing class. The oft repeated mantra in that class was "show, don't tell" Which is to say, focus on sensory details. WRONG WAY: He took her dress off, and caressed her body. RIGHT WAY: He gently slid the straps of her dress past her delicately curving shoulders. The dress slid soundlessly to the floor. As he gently caressed her skin, he...

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On my Misakai MTV 1901A 19 inch TV, the power supply transformer overheats and the TV shuts down. Should I replace the transformer and if so, where can I find one? If the transformer overheats, that doesn't mean it's because of the transformer. If something downstream of the transformer is pulling too much current, replacing the transformer will not solve the problem. the TV shuts down to protect the transformer. In all liklihood, the problem is not the transformer...

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How is it we very infrequently get a piece which is in C Sharp Major? I'd like to know because it would mean Low C would become known as Low B Sharp. I only know this from guitar theory books, so you might get a better answer from someone else. The way I understand things, you are exactly right. In C sharp major, the 7th (one half step below the octave) would fall on C. But, because you can't have two 'Cs' in one scale, they conveniently rename the note to Bsharp --But, the pitch is the same. There's a few...

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Has anyone ever had to deal with a break up where the man said he still loves you,and that his feelings for you didn't change. But he doesn't see that you will work together?It's not the same as when your s/o says to you, they have fallen out of love! When he says he still loves you, it's probably true enough, in a sense. He still cares about you enough that he doesn't want you to be hurt, but at the same time, you are not fulfilling some need that he has. I can't tell you what that is, and only you can take a good look at your relationship and figure it out. Your relationship is probably hohum, and he wants more. You...

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Do you think it's inappropriate to attempt to kiss someone on the first date? All depends on the girl. If she's giving you lovey dovey eyes, and you don't try to kiss her, she's probably gonna get her feelings hurt. There's a little art to the kiss. Just make it a sweet kiss, and not a deep, passionate, I want to rip your clothes off right now kiss, and see how she responds.

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A Girl asked me out and I said yes, but when I met her, she was someone other than who I thought she was. I don't love her, but I think she loves me. The thing is, I still want to be with the other girl that I mistakened her for. What should I do? If you don't have any feelings for her, you're just stringing her along. When you eventually break up, (and you will) it will only hurt her more. When you do break up, don't offer a lot of explanations. Just tell her you've had fun, and she's a great girl, but you don't see the two of you lasting. Or use a cliche, it's not you, it's me... Or...

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I want to talk to this guy and i don't know how or wat to talk about he is in y s.studies class Smile and say hi. Don't expect magic to happen all at once. You know how in the movies, a couple meets, sparks up a scintillating conversation, and ride off into the sunset? It rarely works like that in real life... Open the door by saying hi. Be friendly. He should respond... Once you make a small connection, it's easy to build on that.

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How can I fix myspace layout (which was cut and pasted from a site, and I love it) so it looks like it does with IE...on firefox and safari it looks all messed up? Keep your layout simple, and you're more likely to get it to look right on more browsers. Since you didn't actually say what part looks buggy, I can't be much more specific... I use Opera, and it's a very stripped down, bare bones browser. If it looks good in Opera, it looks good on everything...

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Who would use technical documentation? Depends on what the technical documentation is for. This REALLY should be the first question you ask before you write it, too...

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How do you get rid of that terrified feeling of dating again after BAD past stuff? Learn from it, and find better people to date. You want to know if a guys worth a damn? Does he seem genuine? You got a winner... If not, you got nothing...

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Me and my roomate signed a lease 4 months ago, We both agreed to breaking the lease and signed the 30 day release form.. Now she claims that she is not goint to pay for any penalties and fees since it was my idea to break the lease, Can I If her names on the lease, she's legally as liable as you are. Small comfort when your credit's being ruined in the meantime. If you want to pressure her to pay her half, tell her that it will also be a strike on her credit, and she'll have a hell of a time renting her next place. Your only remaining option is small claims court...

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What if I have broken my lease but my contract does not state any penalties for breaking my lease early even though there is a section to be filled out and signed by me in my contract that is blank? I live in Oregon The landlord's gonna have pretty weak case in court, when he tries to collect. Did you give him a month's notice, or just move out? If you didn't give notice, he can probably charge you 30 days rent... Of course, these things vary state to state, but other than the 30 day's thing, the only other thing he can do is charge for damages, and hang on to your deposit....

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If my renters break their one year lease early, can I sell the house and they still pay the rent until I sell it or their lease is up, which ever comes first? You have to look at the rental agreement you signed with your tenant. Normally, if you break your lease early, you pay a penanlty, and that's it. The rental agreement is a contract, andthe only way your gonna be able to get them to pay if they move is to chase it through court. The court is not going to side with you unless it is explicitly spelled out in your rental agreement that you...

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My "best friend" has dated a few of my ex's. It doesnt bother me. but the fact that i would NEVER do that to her, does. She's had sex w/a few of them too. Why is she doing this? & Everytime i say i like someone, she becomes good friends w/them wat do i do Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery. Some girls tend to play wierd social games, where you don't see a guy as attractive unless he's already the subject of someone else's affection. If she's dating your ex's you need to just let it go. Unless she hasn't given you a "cooling off" period... Then, it's pretty dirty. I think this girl...

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Is it okay for a guy to spend his birthday at a party for his guy friend, instead of spending it with his girlfriend of 6 years? Why weren't you at the party, oh possessive one? If you had an invite, and didn't go, ya got nothing to complain about... It's not about you, it's HIS day, and you need to let him have his fun. If you don't want to be there, that's up to you. Now, when it's YOU'RE birthday, he should definitely hang out with you. (assuming you don't have...

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What I gotta do to get a boyfriend? Be friendly. Smile. Talk. Enjoy yourself. Be less self conscious. Take the social initiative. Be willing to be the one to make the first move. (But, be classy about it.) If you're out having fun regularly, you will run into someone...

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This girl likes my boyfriend and is spreading around that they kissed which is really immature. Any advice? Ummm... Have you considered that it might actually be true? Do you trust your bf? If so, let it roll off your shoulders... If not, don't ask, just quietly look for confirmations... If it is true, dump him like a bad habit, and find someone else. Life's too short to get played. No matter what, be bigger than the situation. Do not get involved. Don't fuss....

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MY GFRIEND TOLD ME THAT SHE LOVES ME BUT SHE WANTS TO BREAK UP BUT I CANNOT ACCEPT IT .IM TELLING HER I DONT WANT TO BREAK UP SHE IS TELLING ME TO KEEP SOME SPACE I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO .WHAT SHOULD I DO .? She's bored, dude... You probably should have done something before it got to this point, because damage control is harder than maintenance, if you get my drift. If I were in your shoes, I'd avoid her for a while to geive her some space. Take care of some of those things that you've been putting off. Go have a beer with the guys. If you do spend some time with her, GO DO...

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How come everyone seems normal until you get to know them? Because "normality" is a myth. There's no such thing. We're all wierd little quirky people who do a ton of wierd shit, at least if we're not putting up a front. Socially, there is also no such thing as "normal" behavior, only "safe" behavior. We just prefer to play it "safe", which, incidently, is BORING... Of course, once you've...

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I plan on purchasing a used vehicle next week, I need advise on the exact process as far as financing. I'd prefer to go through my local bankfor a loan, but I need to know exactly what to bring with me to the dealership when I am there to buy. Go to the dealer, and find the car you want. Only negotiate TOTAL PRICE. Do NOT let them draw you into negotiating finacing or anything else at this point. Once you have figured out what the car will cost, (DO NOT accept the first offer, or even the second.) have the dealer draw up a buyer's order, which you then take to your bank. The bank will give you an application for a loan,...

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What statement best describes your opinion of President George W. Bush? Proof that American politics is not about grace and charisma, or the ability to make hard decisions --It's all about who you buy. (Or who buys you...)

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What does the word "Canada" mean? When they were naming canada, they just threw a bunch of letters in a bag, and had a canadian randomly draw them... 'C' eh? 'N' eh? 'D' eh? Unforttunately, an american was recording the letters for presentation to the naming committee... Viola! CANADA...

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What is the best thing to do for a painful mouth boil Chloroseptic Spray, numbs it out, and I believe it has a antibacterial agent in it too.

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Why do men forget everything and women remember everything? Different priorities. If you think that guys don't remember anything, ask a guy very specific questions about HIS interests. It is nothing short of amazing how some of my frineds can remember all the specs for a particular car, or how to work out timing angles, without consulting a book. Oh, and don't even get me started on sports fans...

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When making a simple electric generator, what factors can change the outcome of your experiment? The voltage produced is proportional to the number of windings, and the strength of the magnetic field. Also, the speed of rotation will determine the frequency output, along with the number of poles. -Unless you're building a DC generator... This is a really tough question to answer, having so little information to go on.

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What is the drag coefficent of a standard javelin I would think you'd have to figure this one out experimentally.

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My left side Chest is stronger then my right side, what do I do so their both the same? You work out, right? When you do your chest workouts, use dumbbells, and always do the same number of reps on both sides. If you work the muscles individually, work the weak side first, then the strong side. That'll let the smaller side catch up. Another thing to watch out for is when your doing bar excercises, like bench press. It's really easy to rely on the stronger side of...

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When a women says "i want to be a kept woman" what does this mean? It means she's a gold digger. She doesn't want to work, wants to be taken care of, and really doesn't want to do much in exchange, except be pretty. The best she can ever be is a trophy wife...

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I don't get this guy - he has a longterm girlfriend, but very often, we'll pass each other in work and we'd just look at each other. I'd smile alittle, but he'd just look at me. What's wrong with him? He's considered to be a nice guy. Most people are a bit self conscious. If he has a girlfriend, and you're kinda cute, it could be a little complicated for him. It's not like he's staring you down, or creeping you out, right? He's just not acting conventionally friendly... I'm a like that myself, bit introverted, and I don't let many people into my world. A lot of times, having to observe all...

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Do you think our government should do anything to help people losing their houses? I was in foreclosure a couple of years ago when I lost my job... I had to sell. Did the government help me? Nope... (I don't feel cheated either, I wouldn't expect it...) Sometimes, life has teeth...

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Where do I find the pulley configuration diagram on a 1999 mitsubishi eclipse? usually it's on a sticker somewhere under the hood. It's definately in a Chilton's Manual though... Or, you could go to eautorepair.com, where the book will set you back 10 bucks in electronic format, which is actually REALLY handy, because you can use electronic search to find the correct sections REALLY quickly...

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Understanding that there is no bond of trust, can you be friends with someone who lies? I think that it's better to keep someone you can't trust in the "aquaintanence" catagory. Sure, you can have fun and even hang out with them. That particular character flaw is usually just the tip of the iceberg, though, so keep them at arms' length.

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Do guys REALLY not like skinny girls or is it just a way of making us normal weight women feel better? All a question of taste, and tastes differ, as we all know. Being skinny is not the be all, end all of sexiness, though. If you take care of yourself, and carry yourself well, and are friendly, most guys will find you attractive.

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Why do men cheat? Men cheat because: either a)one of their basic needs isn't being fulfilled in the relationship that they are in. or, b) the guys a slime, and nothing you can do will ever change that. So, if you're taking care of business at home and he's cheating on you, then it's the first one. If it's the second one, get rid of his ass.

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A girl calls at least four or five times a week for a month but never wants to go out? Congratulations, you're her friend. This girl doesn't see you as potential relationship or hookup material. If that's what you had in mind, you need to walk away for a while. She still calls because she enjoys the attention, but she's just leading you on, buddy. You're never gonna turn her into your girlfriend without radical action. If it were me, I'd just...

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I "cheated" on my boyfriend of 6 years AFTER we had been broken up for 6 weeks AND he had spent the past year mulling over whether or not to marry me. Now we're trying to work things out and he doesn't know if he can get over that 1 weekend. what can I do Actually, you didn't do anything wrong. If you guys broke up, and you had a fling, that's a perfectly normal thing to do at that time. It's called rebounding. At that point, you had no idea you were getting back together with your bf. You were probably out trying to have some fun to get over him. At that point, he was probably out partying it up with his buddies, too,...

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Can you give me a circuit of lightning's detector? thanks. I don't know exactly how thy're doing it, but here's what I'd do... (This is just a block diagram, I could probably throw together a more detailed schematic, are you trying to build a homebrew lightning detector?)

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I'm having a problem with static electricity when I listen to my vinyl records. Sometimes it sound like crumpling cellophane, is this a grounding problem? I've tried Gruv Glide, and Zerostat, neither has helped much. If it's an ongoing problem, it might not be due to static. Check the routing of the wiring going to your speakers, and make sure that it's not running parrallel to any power cabling. You may be getting electrical noise induced in your wiring. Another posibility is your connections. Also, make sure that your speakers are wired in phase with each other, because a lot of times,...

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Could someone explain to me the operation of a constant current source. It would be very helpful if you could include a basic schematic, but any explanation would help. Well, thanks for your input. I'm actually shooting for a purely solid state design, but I'm gonna take the time to go over that tube stuff you posted, because maybe there's something in there that will shed some light on the question. I can sorta see how a constant current load could keep the gating component in the more linear portion of it's range, reducing...

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Can morality exist without ethics? I think that morality and ethics are two seperate modes of making value judgements, and one does not necessitate the other. In practice, however, the two seem to go hand in hand.

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Can aesthetics exist without moral sensibility? I would say that both aesthetics and morals are tied to the larger concept of 'values'. Aesthetics is the value that you place on beauty and harmony of design, while morals are the values that guide an individuals beliefs. Values are based on the minds' ability to assign a heirarchal importance to ideas. So, in the sense of all squares are rectangels but not all...

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Why is everyone so rude these days? What happened? There are always some people who are just predatory. Those people mistake kindness for weakness. They generally live life with a chip on their shoulder, and everything is vaguley threatening to them. They cannot interpret your kindness the way that a "normal" person would, because the way their belief system is structure EVERYBODY is ALWAYS on the hustle. My advice? Cut...

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Why is everyone so rude these days? What happened? I think we're all basically self absorbed, which, when combined with the anonymity of our living conditions, leaves us in a postion of feeling out of touch with the people around us. I think that we're generally not intentionally rude, it just works out that way. I also think that people who make an effort to be polite lead much more fulfilled connected lives.

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I would love to travel from seattle to the east coast but I cant afford it. I would want to work in one place for about a month or so and then move on to the next state.That way I could explore more. Is there a cheap way to do this? check out couchsurfing.com Of course, you need to be willing to take a certain amount of risk, and your end of the deal is that you actually have to try to be interesting. Another option is to get an RV, and just work temp jobs, or contract positions. Or, if you work in construction. Another option is to get involved with a national social club, and meet people when you go to events. ...

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My wife is more mature than me and is at her wits end. she used to party more and i want her to again i dont want to party like im 20 again (im 30) but i do want her to relax a little. what can i do to help her feel comfortable with letting a little loose A lot of people think that when you get older, you can't have fun any more. It's not so much that, it's just that your tastes change. Of course, you don't want to go "party" with the youngsters in their early 20s. There's no substance to it. Don't call it partying... Just arrange to get together with some people who are your age. Have a barbeque....

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Can you give me a circuit of lightning's detector? thanks. You probably need to be a little more specific regarding the application. What is it exactly that you want to use this thing for? Do you just want to built a lightning rod that will let you take some data on lightning strikes? Is it for a plane? Tell me what you want to use it for, and I may be able to help you...

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What would u do if there was some strangers who parked their car across the street from ur alley and got high there? assuming your just talking about pot? Laugh about it, maybe blog about it. If it were crack? call the cops, maybe?

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Why do boys hate marriage? 1) Because most of the time, we stand to lose way more than you do if it all goes south 2) Because we're afraid that once you get comfortable around us, you'll become bitchy and demanding. 3) Because it seems like it's the death knell for all our good times 4) Because the guy feels like he can get a better deal if he holds out 5) Because that's how society has...

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Electrical can you give me an explanation why a back EMF is developed across a coil when an alternating potential differance is applied across it? The counter EMF is due to energy being stored as the magnetic field of the coil. You don't actually need an AC current to create that field either. With AC, it will show up as a reactive impedance. In the case of AC being applied across the coil, as the AC changes directions, the coil will alternatley charge it's field, and collapse it's filed, driving reactive power into...

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How far would a 240 volt or 50 hrz electric moter from a washing machine drive a car in the time of a long cicycle say an hour 30 mins to 2 hours? I'm guessing that the washing machine motor wouldn't create enough torque to move the car an inch. With an AC motor, when there is power applied, and the motor isn't moving, you create a bad situation indeed. The motor would burn up.

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How do I connect a wire to the car battery for an aftermarket neon light? Most cars have a terminal block at the fuse box, with a couple of small bolts for just this sort of thing. The advantage of using a terminal block is that a terminal block is generally fuse protected, so if there's a short in your wiring it won't mess up anything outside of THAT circuit. (which can happen if a piece of bare wire touches the frame) The attatchment is pretty easy,...

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Estimate the magnetic field that might be obtained close to thick piece of copper wire which is connected across the terminals of a car battery? I really think you'd have to figure that one out experimentally, because there are so many unkowns. If you REALLY wanted to figure it out, you'd need to know the source impedance of the battery, so you could calculate the current through the wire. The length, width and type of wire used would make a difference too. I actually don't recommend that, because, by shorting the...

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The signal that we recieve in a cell phone is also basically a voltage signal. So can we use this signal to do the work any voltage signal would, rather than passing it through a de-modulator network for getting back the message?Somebody explainme please? A typical cell phone reception is in the range of micro Volts. Before it can be used by most electrical circuits, it's gotta be amplified. That's basically taking a small signal, and making it bigger. The reason for the demodulator network is that a cell phone transmission is Frequency Modulated, similiar to an FM radio. So, the intelligence of the signal is coded into a high...

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I'm training to be a programmer but am required to complete a module in networking (not my forte). Please can somebody explain how (for example) a TV can supply digital output from an analogue signal? Is it because of a modem or cable type? Before tackling this question, you should understand the difference between an analogue and a digital signal. The analogue signal contains "intelligence" (data) in the form of various electrical voltages (or currents depending on the application) These voltages are usually interpretted by amplifiers, and manipulated to obtain the desired output. (look up CRT on wikipedia for the...

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Is the electrical energy of a magnet similar to the stored energy of a battery? The magnetic field effect of a magnet is due to all the domains pointing the same way. Each atom kinda acts like a mini magnet, and when they all point in the same way, they create a charged field. A battery works becuase it has an excess of electrons on one terminal with respect to the other. If you connect a battery to a circuit, the electrons try to move to the terminal with the...

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In layman's terms, what are watts, volts, amps, ohms? I've never been able to keep them straight. I'll give it to you in layman's terms, without resorting to the running water analogy: Voltage is energy potential. It is the measure of electrical charge. Measured in VOLTS Current is the movement of that charge along a path. Measured in AMPS Resistance is the oppostion to that current flow. Measured in OHMS. Power is a measurement of electrical work. Just wait,...

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Does a beam of electrons moving eastward result in a conventional electric current that flows westward? The discussion of "hole flow" vs. "electron flow" is an old EE discussion. It's just two ways of visulaizing the same phenomenon. In hole flow, what is a ctually moving is a positive charge, due to a deficit of negatively charged electrons.

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Why cant we harness the electrical energy in a magnet? Faraday's law says that a conductor in motion near a magnetic field will exert an electrical potential, and current will result. Thing is you need three things: a magnetic field, a conductor, and relative motion. The obvious example is a generator, where you have a conductor traveling through a magnetic field. A similiar idea is transformer action, where a changing magnetic field...

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Is it okay for my girlfriend to have a guy bestfriend? Assuming this is a guy she knew before you came along, I don't think there's any reason to feel threatened by her male bestfriend. For one thing, assuming he's hoping to win her heart eventually, just by hanging in there long enough, the guy probably has no shot. --Or, virtually no shot. ("friends catagory" = No chemistry) Besides, your girlfriend picked you over...

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What ever became of internet connections through powerlines to your wall socket? Actually, this technology is still being used by the power company in some areas to read your meter. The principle is that you can have digital signals "encoded onto another signal, sort of "riding on top of the signal", in this case that's the Power coming into your house. The downside is that you lose a lot of speed due to noise. So, this technology mostly went...

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I own a 2001 GMC Sierra i installed aftermarket power windows they went out so i bought doors from a silverado 2002. I installed all the wiring harness and the security light came on and the gas gage and vheicle gear display dont work how do i I'm guessing you're a real rookie, here... I would say it was a strange decision to change the whole door out to solve what is either a small electric problem or else, a defective motor (on both sides, a little strange, though...) How did you determine that the pinout for the connectors on a GMC and a Chevy truck were the same for both years? My suggestion: Put the original...

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Why are some people so proud to be (and announce that they are) pricks, @$$holes, bitches, and similar labels? Because there is a common misconception that being an asshole makes you a strong person. It doesn't -- just alienates you. Of course, if you look at the problem through their eyes, they won't see it that way, they just think people are always trying to take advantage of them, and they have to keep up a strong front. (That's also their explanation for why they feel so alienated -...

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I have a 91 chevy 4x4 350 engine small block when the truck is started it runs rough like its missing plugs wires fuel filter o2 senors fuel pump rotor caps are all new? When you changed your wires, did you do them one at a time? Make sure the wires all got routed to the right chambers. Another thing is your spark plug gap. If the plugs are misgapped, the engine might not be firing on all cylinders.

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My 1997 Blazer will not start. It was running a little rough so yesterday I changed the cap, rotor and plugs. It ran fine yesterday after the work. Now this morning it would not start. I do have spark at the plugs. Any ideas? This answer may be a little nonspecific, don't know how much you know about cars. Since it started yesterday, the engine's probably fine, physically. How's the starter circuit? Does it sound weak? did you try jumping it? How old is the battery? For the motor to start, you need three things: Spark, air, and fuel... So, you checked your plugs, and you've got...

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What is the meaning of ZENOPHOBIA? The correct spelling is Xenophobia. It means a general distrust and suspicion of outsiders. It can range from mild to paranoid.