What I would like to know is: Is anal sex a sin? Lets forget homosexuality, and lets focus on the sexual acts. I am gay, and I prefer having anal sex, it feels really good, and I'd like to let all straight people know that there is a method we use to clean out.. And it really is clean when cleaned. Excuse me, I don't wanna gross anyone out here, but even though its clean, if I think about it, no matter how much I enjoy it, and no matter how right it seems to me, I still cant deny the fact that its unnatural. I don't see us having gay sex in heaven, neither do I see a golden toilet with a pipe to clean out our asses. And what seems even more unnatural to me is two woman licking each other.. Its very unnatural, and its filthy. And yea, its filthy when we guys stick our privates up a place which is only made for one thing logically. I mean, just because we can stick it up there, doesn't make it natural. Adam could have found many things to stick it up in.. Please excuse my crude expressions, but yea, how do even non believing gay guys see it as natural? Whats even more gross is that allot of gay guys don't even know how to clean out there... So things get quite messy and stinking..
There is this myth that animals are gay, to those that are going to argue with me about this, please provide one picture that clearly portrays the penis penetrating the anus. Cause I have never seen it. There are no gay animals, we wan't to classify our privates as magnates, depending on what genes we get, that will stipulate which private we will be attracted to. I don't see a difference between gay peoples privates and straight peoples privates, the only difference I see is that they prefer playing with mates that have the same privates as they do.
Once again, I'm gay, I can NEVER ever ever picture myself with a woman, I wan't to be with my man, I love him, and we have a very meaningful relationship. We also share allot of common grounds with straight couples. So all of that seems so right to me, and I cant find any fault with that. And as much as I find anal sex a turn on and as much as I want it, there is that logic that tells me that that particular hole wasn't made for penetrating.
On the other hand I wish I could be a follower of Jesus, but I am a abomination to Him. His Word (the Bible) says so very clearly, I don't know how people can deny this? If I say a coca cola can is red, do you get what I'm saying? But humans always try to find a way to justify their deeds, and will argue with me, and tell me, "excuse me, but did you see the white coca cola writing"? Then I try and tell them yes, but the can is still red, to which they reply: "Did you read the fine print"? "Did you tase the coce"? to which i reply, yes, i did, but i wasnt talking about that, im trying to point out the fact that the can is red. And so people will avoid this fact. If you believe in the God of the Bible, well, then all you have is the Bible to teach you of Him, and if you believed He is a almighty God, then of course you'd at least believe that He would preserve His word, we are talking about a God that can resurrect people and move mountains, how can you not believe that He cant even reserve His word? And you want to tell me your a Christian? Not a chance. So ya, there is no way to argue around the corners with me. so please, if someone comments on my comment, don't try and convince me that people have more power over Gods word that they changed it. I believe that whats written in there is the truth, I have no doubt, and at least I understand english well enough to know that God said its wrong. So please define this: One man shall not lay with another man as with a woman? If you want to tell me that it is just laying, well then lets not even go near sex, that means they cant even lie down together. Common people, we aint stupid here, dont make things complex, the Bible is plain and simple.
Excuse me for going off the subject, but ya, basically I know what I believe, and I can read what a simple sentence says. I dont claim to be a Christian, however, I do believe, but I do not practice, and yea, I dealt with the fact that I'm going to die in hell. But yea, my question to gay people like me is, can you admit the fact that its unnatural to stick ure willy up a poop hole? Its really logical.
Comments
He also created Hitler, Stalin, and chairman Mao; so God must be Ok with the murder of nearly one billion innocent people. . . or He allows free will so that the wicked can be judged. The innocent suffer at the hands of the wicked for this reason. When it comes to homosexuality, God created us with weaknesses so that we can grow, not so that we can settle to be the imperfect beings we were born.
by alwaysright on November 19th, 2010
Frankly, I don't care how religious people of any faith categorize homosexuality. It's personal - and based on faith, not fact.
Much more important to me as an American, is discrimination against one segment of our society. Our Constitution gives us all the freedom to be who we are. That homosexuals are denied equal rights is not acceptable. (If any other group were told they couldn't marry, for instance, there would be an immediate uproar. By the way, if priests, ministers, rabbis, etc., don't want to perform marriage ceremonies for gays, they don't have to. Religious practices are not dictated by our government - remember, our Constitution declares that there is separation of church and state.
by anna941 on November 19th, 2010
Discrimination is a constitutional right as well. We can discriminate against Wlamart because we think they are too big, or too blue, or too what ever. Quit making up constitutional bull, anna941.
by alwaysright on November 20th, 2010
God clearly likes homosexual people. God keeps creating us.
by adamjohn on November 20th, 2010
As to God creating Hitler, Stalin and Mao, he was also responsible for the Great Flood, so even he partakes in a little genocide now and then. God seems like just the character to create men like that.
by Tamilze on November 20th, 2010
@Âhlberg, 941, adamjohn: Thank you
alwaysright: Discrimination is not a constitutional right. There are many laws in place to keep people from discriminating when hiring, discriminating as segregation, and so on.
And yes, I figure if God does exist, then he must be okay with the murder of millions of people.
Even then, I'm tired of talking about one subject and someone else coming in and switching it to a completely different subject. Kindly stick to the topic at hand, please.
TL;DR: Homosexuality has little, if anything, to do with murder.
by Anonymous on November 20th, 2010
Yes God does like Hitler, Stalin and Mao.
by adamjohn on November 22nd, 2010
@adamjohn: Not sure if serious...
by Anonymous on November 22nd, 2010
Well I figure that Christians don't believe homosexuals were created by god but that homosexuality is a strain of sin, a product of Adam and Eve's actions when they "tainted" mankind with imperfections. That would also be why you get evil people like Hitler, ect.
I figure that Christianity contains too many trivial parts that it must be a man-made religion. If not so why do we not see Christians behaving in a way god intended with Adam and Eve, walking around nude, but of course the church does not support that.(Heads up: When Adam and Eve took a bite from the apple they behaved differently and recognized their nudity.) There had to be plenty of incest in the tale of that guy on the boat. The list can go on forever.
What I stand strong on is why would any god condemn something as wonderful as love weather it is a love between man and man or woman and woman or woman and man. Love is the strongest, most beautiful thing on this earth, why would any god even attempt to break something that beautiful? Because of who we share it with? I think it is rather obvious that man condemned homosexuality, not god. I have no problem with Christians but for the ones who condemn homosexuality need to think things over. A god you'd want to believe in is one that supports humanity and does away with the monsters. Are homosexuals really bad people? Homosexuals can be just like any other heterosexual person but that one small and insignificant difference makes them evil and unworthy? They can praise god all they want, follow his will, be a positive part of the world but that isn't good enough, they have to give up who they are? That is like yelling at an Asian person ordering them to stop being Asian. Plus science is and has provided evidence that homosexuality is not a choice. If it isn't a choice then it must just be human for some people to be gay (back to why would god condemn humanity?). I think I'm stretching this out too much, I can't think straight right now (I'm living with crazy).
by Burgerman on November 22nd, 2010
Yes, I am being serious about Hitler, Stalin and Mao. Do you really believe that the Germans elected Hitler on over 80 per cent of the vote because he was an evil dictator or because of evil people like you and me? As for the Creation Myth, I'll write about my understanding of that another time?
by adamjohn on November 23rd, 2010
Sorry, I just can't stop laughing. You are arguing that since God created everything God must be part everything created?
by One mans opinion on November 23rd, 2010
I'm sorry, are we talking about the Christian God, or my God, The Dark Lord Satan?
by Anonymous on November 23rd, 2010
One Man's Opinion: Yes I am arguing just that; just the same as St John and the author of Genesis.
The Editor: I am talking about the Christian God.
by adamjohn on November 24th, 2010
Okay. I just thought I would make it apparent to EVERYONE here that not everyone is a Christian.
by Anonymous on November 24th, 2010
WRONG! Sin is not given definition by the user... that's why so many idiots here are confused that this is a pro or anti gay question. The question isn't do you think it's ok to be gay it's is it a sin & the answer is yes. Your opinion doesn't matter, there is only 1 correct answer to this question. YES!
by seedsower on November 24th, 2010
"...Because FOX news told me so."
by Anonymous on November 24th, 2010
Hello everybody. Chill out! This is not debating this is just full of people making light of a person's personal opinions. If you want to be informative don't mock ideas or the writer. Behaving this way makes a good point (if you are trying to make one) not even worth considering by the person it is directed at, just makes them upset and think your full of garbage. DEBATE! and do it right. And read that thing I posted before! It is very informative! It answers so much but all people want to do is mock someone else, like it gets them off because they can point a finger. Some human being that kind of person must be. Let those who have absolutely nothing to be ridiculed for cast the first stone! That's it, I'm making an internet web-link page on internet etiquette: because it isn't cool to be a fool... on the internet. By the way, does anyone know how to make a website? I'm messin' but seriously, DEBATE! DEBATE! DEBATE! Make a point, don't deride any opinion because it won't help you make a point to the person on the opposite end of the computer! I'm sleepy!
by Burgerman on November 24th, 2010
If god is doing such bad things (Hitler,Mao...), I don't think he consider this as a sin because it's nowhere near.
by Henderson on November 25th, 2010
by adamjohn on November 25th, 2010
Burgerman, I am used to being mocked. I am used to taking up unpopular causes. Yesterday I wrote to Kenneth Clarke, the UK Justice Secretary about my concerns about prisoners who are raped in prison. Most people don't care about the prison population but I think they should be treated decently. Their punishment is deprivation of liberty. They are not there to be abused. In fact, the State sets a bad example if prisons are abusive places.
I support many other unpopular causes (you will find a few of them on here) but I think that is sufficient for now.
by adamjohn on November 25th, 2010
I know but that behavior, mocking, is just unacceptable and just doesn't get a point across or satisfy an audience because we'd all figure no one wants to accept a piece of information, wrong or right, if it is from someone that is being a "jerk" about their opinion. Almost every opinion is worth hearing out but if it is just going to be junk, people should just keep it to themselves or clean it up.
Secondly, its nice to hear you support non-abrasive treatment of criminals, I completely agree with that 100%, but let us just focus on the issue at hand if we are to engage in a discussion on this page in a manner that really helps get down to a point. I also would like to add that the world is full of problems, everywhere, and I'm grateful you're pushing for change in your neck of the woods. *Pat on the back for you
by Burgerman on November 25th, 2010
Thank you Burgerman.
by adamjohn on November 26th, 2010
I'd like to thank Burgerman and adamjohn for calming down the situation.
by Anonymous on November 26th, 2010
You are welcome. I hadn't realised that things had got out of hand.
by adamjohn on November 27th, 2010
@ adamjohn anytime you try to use the Bible to justify homosexuality you automatically fail because in Genesis God created Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve. Also in most other major religious homosexuality is clearly a sin. How would God be a part of a behavior?
by One mans opinion on November 27th, 2010
God is the creative force present in the world connecting all living and non-living things (John 1 early verses).
by adamjohn on November 28th, 2010
@ one mans opinion: If God didn't want gay people here, he wouldn't put them here.
by Anonymous on November 28th, 2010
Tell me, Editor, are you a Devil Worshipper? If so, why?
by adamjohn on November 29th, 2010
@ adamjohn Maybe he didn't
by One mans opinion on November 29th, 2010
@adamjohn: Yes I am. Satan has had fewer people killed in his name than the Christian God, Buddha, Allah, whatever you want to call God. I figure that Satan must be very chill if he doesn't get all mad at other people's opinions and/or rights.
by Anonymous on November 29th, 2010
Why would you worship evil?
by adamjohn on November 30th, 2010
What is "evil"? What is "evil" about Satan? Plus, please read my previous comment, it explained this already.
by Anonymous on November 30th, 2010
I don't believe that Satan exists. In the Bible, Satan is a poetic figure to illustrate the nature of evil. The Bible illustrates that evil can be attractive but hollow. Evil has no substance of its own. Evil is just a distortion of positive human characteristics. For instance, envy is a distortion of love. When seeing evil, I think that it is important to identify the positive characteristic and straighten it out. For instance, if I were to steal my next door neighbour's car, there is nothing wrong in my wish to travel. The only thing wrong is my lack of willingness to pay for it. The solution in this case, would not be to give up my desire for car ownership but to get a job and earn the money to buy a car. Evil is only a distortion of good, and seeing as it has no reality of its own it cannot have a god either. Satan is just poetic description.
by adamjohn on December 1st, 2010
Ah, I see and understand your viewpoint. However, I simply prefer to follow a being whose proven to be less egotistical than the others.
by Anonymous on December 1st, 2010
@ adamjohn
What?
by One mans opinion on December 1st, 2010
Sorry, people, but I need to edit my other comment before this one. I meant to say "who has" instead of "whose".
by Anonymous on December 2nd, 2010
One man's opinion, what are you trying to say?
by adamjohn on December 4th, 2010
As far as I know, anything that takes us out of Love for ourselves, god or each other...Would be a sin...
Sometimes here on Earth we are so worried GOD and about NOT sinning, that we forget about Love each other HERE...Love is Love is Love...Especially if it is a biologically imprinted need...So Love would fit into that idea, either way...The way the church would have it, that we would must also need to include any biological deformity as not being "pure" as well...Give me a break!
Regardless of what anyone tells you...You already know what is okay, and what isn't...Our Heart's (Love)know more than any self imposed "belief" old or new that tells us all what is so, and what isn't...Just listen to that, and you'll always be in LOVE!
by everyman1 on December 19th, 2010
everyman1: I'm not sure what you're saying, but it seems good hearted.
by Anonymous on December 19th, 2010
I think he is saying that the quality of a relationship is more important than the type of relationship.
by adamjohn on December 20th, 2010
Fully agree.
by Anonymous on December 20th, 2010
@adamjohn
I am having a really hard time understanding where you are coming from based on your example.
"Evil is only a distortion of good, and seeing as it has no reality of its own it cannot have a god either"
If there is good there must be evil. And if there is law and order there is also the breaking of the law or sinning against the law
by One mans opinion on December 20th, 2010
Okay, I will try to explain. Supposing I was envious of my next door neighbour's car. Envy is distorted love. There is nothing wrong in admiring the car. It only becomes wrong if I try to take the car away from him. If I like the car, wouldn't it be better to save up and buy one of my own?
by adamjohn on December 21st, 2010
Why is envy a distortion of love and not it's own emotion or state of mind? Good and Evil are such broad terms, how is one a distortion of the other? I would think they are opposites. And how does this relate to the sin of homosexuality?
by One mans opinion on December 21st, 2010
The love is that I like the car. The distortion is that I might be tempted to steal it.
by adamjohn on December 22nd, 2010
The question should really be: What is homosexuality?
Every homosexual is different (in a sense).
Years ago, psychology courses explained homosexuality as deviance.
deviance from the norm.
Doctor Laura tried to explain homosexuality, from a Psychologist reality... and, was chastised. (But, she was right.)
Chromosomes birth defect: Women are X. Men are Y. One too many, and the person has tendencies of the opposite gender.
That is why men are more feminine, and women more masculine.
That is one type of born homosexual.
Hormone imbalance............... is one other explanation.
Being raped, mistreated, abused... makes one resent the other gender. So, it makes for a possible homosexual, sort of.
One woman pretended to be homosexual, to gain fame and fortune, pretending to love a famous actress... Never was gay.
Some people wear clothes........ Some are just entertainers.
Are they really homosexuals?
Some like to be liked. They don't belong well... so, they become something... where they'll be wanted?
Some want to be noticed. It is all a me, me, me, look at me... I am so special, different... I'm all that.
They speak with a lisp? Why is that?
They move differently, in overly dramatic manners? Why?
If it is an abnormalcy, a genetic defect, a maladjustment...
should we be focused on them getting married?
Should we first try to understand what is homosexuality, and is it different for everyone?
Then, what are the needs of children?
Should children be raised in altered circumstances, ON PURPOSE?
It is bad enough... when children are raised in bad situations, by birth... but, to create or adopt children in a not yet fully understood situation... is unwise.
Should gay marry?
Should a woman become a man? (Vice versa?)
I see one famous person on TV... has started out as a female, and is now a very handsome man?
We tell stories about our childhood... How do you say... I was a woman, but, decided to play God, and fiddle with nature...?
It reflects a person who is not happy, maladjusted, searching for something... searching for a way to make a point... (?)
Jurasic Park was supposed to teach us NOT to play God even if we think that we can.
As years pass... we women and men... go through various phases... mentally and physically...
You, at 20, see mini skirts, makeup, breasts...
We, who are born "normal"... focus on life, more than skirts, makeup, and, as we age... we can't wear the mini skirts, or makeup, and, as for the breasts... look at those who have cancer and need them removed... and, look at those of us... whose breasts have gone South forever.
Joke aside... gender is not about mini skirts, makeup, and such...
Gender is who you are at birth.
How you DISPLAY yourself... can be a normalcy, a put on, a mess.
Look at the tattoos all over the body...... A mess.
What is going to happen when they are 30-40-50-60-70-80?
It is NOT feminine, sophisticated, mature.
It is a biker... biker chick mess...
If we say this... it will cause an uproar... yet, it is true.
One famous young lady had looked a mess...
Went on a TV show. She changed, and became a lady...
She liked looking like a lady...
But, those darn tattoos................... How they mark her...
Point is.........
At 15-20-25....... you want to be noticed, be wild, exotic, and you want to belong, stand out........
You want to stand out? Write a book, learn an instrument, study a lot, become a good doctor, teacher, etc.........
You'd stand out, not stick out.
There is positive notice, and negative attention.
All homosexuals like you and pay you at 15? That makes you a piece of dirty meat... Like a whore. Think of diseases...
Integrity, morality, honesty, accountability, respect.
Real values.
When you look in the mirror, who are you?
Who are you inside?
Children learn what they see.
If a teacher is a homosexual... children will learn that behavior.
Is it upsetting to read? But, it is true.
Parents say sentences, and make gestures...
Children mimick everything.
Should they marr
by Smiley9357 on February 2nd, 2011
You are really funny Smiley!
by adamjohn on February 2nd, 2011
to answer your question we all know what homosexuality is and most of us have a common definition of homosexuality. The cause of it is irrelevant in this discussion. The question was is homosexuality a sin, the answer is yes
by One mans opinion on February 15th, 2011
Hello God!
by adamjohn on February 16th, 2011
Alright, people, I get the 50th comment! Please, continue with your arguments. I enjoy watching you (ahem) "debate".
by Anonymous on February 16th, 2011