by Zlatko333 on July 2nd, 2010

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I have a girl as a friend, and I love her. This will be a long thing to read, but any advice will really help me out.. Can you PLEASE help?

Okay, so.. There's this girl I really liked as a friend and I was really hanging out with her for a long, long time.. Until I started having feelings for her. I have never asked her if she looks at me the same way, but the way she acts make it clear that she only sees me as a very good friend/a brother.
So, what I did is I tried to slowly distance away from her, slowly stopped hanging out with her and stuff. The reason I did this is because I think that it may help to be just normal friends with her, unlike spending 90% of the time with her, which really hurts, as I hate to pretend and hide my feelings.
So, here's the twist. She noticed I've been avoiding her and texted me, saying 'Hey, what convinced you to not want to be my friend anymore, like you used to be? You don't have to say anything else, just tell me the reason. I see that you don't want to be my friend anymore, but I promise I won't bother you.. Sorry that I was trying to be your friend.'
Now, the way I see it, I have 2 options. 1. Stall it, and tell her everything is okay and that she's just hallucinating, or make up something else. 2. Tell her the truth.
What do you people think I should do? Any help will be appreciated.. Thanks.

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  • by Latinabeauty is ...indecisive... on August 1st, 2010

    Latinabeauty  is ...indecisive...

    That sounds like such a confusing thing to go through. I think you should tell her how you feel. If she knows you like I know you, then she'll be happy about it. You're a totally great guy.

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