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by AJ Sacher on July 8th, 2005

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I'm repeatedly being rejected by girls left and right. What am I doing wrong?

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  • by bowlinggreen on August 26th, 2006

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    If you're asking out a lot of girls in the same circle (the same social group, class, club, etc.), they will find out that you have asked out others too. Girls don't like to feel like they were number 27 out of 30, they want to feel that they were chosen for a reason. A reason other than that they are decent looking and seem nice enough and are single. Also, get to know the girl a little bit, but not so much that she's your buddy. Also, don't tell her anything that might scare her. If you have anything heavy to share, hold it off until trust has developed. For example, if you're 40 years old and a virgin who plans to have a dozen kids, that's scary. That can put the image of a non-stop pounding p*nis in her mind that would scare her.

    Pay for things without becoming a sucker. (don't pay her rent). If you're attracted to a girl in school who forgot her money but wants a soda, that's a nice time to step in.

    Practice good grooming and hygiene and pay attention to how you dress. That doesn't mean that you should copy whoever is the trendsetter of the week. Find a style that suits you.

    But I think the most important thing is not to become (or show) that you are desperate and NOT to ask out different girls who know each other. Sometimes if she says no at first, you can try asking at a later time after she knows you a little bit better.

    I've known different guys who were in your shoes and they eventually figured out what worked themselves after many failed attempts. Not everyone is going to have broad appeal, hey, we can't all be Brad Pitt, but really, you only need one girl to have that really good experience with to turn your luck around.

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