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by blondefisher on May 1st, 2007

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Do most men have secret fantasies they are afraid to share with their partener? Would you share them if you felt your partener coud fulfill them? Or are most of the fantasies something you like when no one is around?

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  • by cbuck1 on May 2nd, 2007

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    I can't speak for most men, but as for myself I don't share my fantasies with my spouse for two reasons:

    1. They involve things that I know she doesn't want to try because of comments she's made in the past (such as anal sex)

    2. They involve other women.

    I think it's healthy and fun to share fantasies and act them out if possible with your partner. But most partners, at least in my experience, are not open enough in their sexual thinking to make this possible.

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    • Gr8 answer... honest and realistic.

      Snooch

      by Snooch on May 2nd, 2007

    • I agree...that is good that you keep some things private...

      Jane

      by Jane on November 15th, 2007

    • nothing wrong with a healthy fantasie life!

      colorado kid

      by colorado kid on March 9th, 2008

    • Of course, failing to share them with her, might lead to sharing with another, more willing woman.

      BrendaStronghart

      by BrendaStronghart on March 9th, 2008

    • I have fantasies that i would never want to act out so sometimes they are better left private

      Jane

      by Jane on March 9th, 2008

    • Chuck...you should try to share them anyhow. My hubby had some of these same fantasies you say and he thought the same about me as you do for your wife. All because of things I had said. In reallity I said them because i didnt want him to think I was "trampy" and a good wholesome wife for lack of a better way to explain to you. In reality I would have tried almost anything with him (only him) because I love and trust him. It could be the same for your wife.

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on October 29th, 2008

    • i think its great that you love her enough to not try to force her into unwanted sex acts. hats off to you.

      ladyshakespeare

      by ladyshakespeare on October 9th, 2009

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