I can't make him cum! My boyfriend can't cum whether its sex or b.j's, he says its not my fault and that he's always had that problem. But when he masterbates he can cum within minutes. I feel really shit about myself. Is it common?

okay so I've been messing around on and off with this guy and the first time I gave him head and the first time we had sex I had to call it off on both occasions because he could sit there all day without ejaculating and I would be close to gagging when I gave him head and after about an hour into sex I would just be plain old tired and begininng to get bored with the whole thing so I was always the one to stop things because I had multiple orgasms while he was not even halfway there. We have a very open sex life and are completely comfortable talking about sex and have come to the conclusion that although he would enjoy coming to me as long as I was enjoying myself he was too and he could ejaculate by himself some other time when I was not around. To him, it is not a big deal and he still enjoys sex with me even though we both know he isn't going to ejaculate. It used to frustrate me because I thought I was doing something wrong but it's not us it's them. I've read up on it and

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dude.. tell him to not jack off so much THAT IS THE PROBLEM
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I can't make him cum! My boyfriend can't cum whether its sex or b.j's, he says its not my fault and that he's always had that problem. But when he masterbates he can cum within minutes. I feel really shit about myself. Is it common?

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