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by blondefisher on May 1st, 2007

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Do most men have secret fantasies they are afraid to share with their partener? Would you share them if you felt your partener coud fulfill them? Or are most of the fantasies something you like when no one is around?

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  • by Snooch on May 1st, 2007

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    I think many people are afraid to open up and allow themselves the freedom of true sexual openness with someone. Fear of rejection.. fear of letting down the guard completely.. etc.. but if you can allow yourself to open up completely with someone and give yourself to them.. there is nothing you cannot accomplish in the bedroom with them.
    I hate to sound corny but there really has to be feelings involved and not just some passionate night, affair.
    Giving yourself completely to someone is hard to do but when you do it.. it is the most beautiful thing. It is sexual but the underlining ingredient.. is TRUST.
    I think many people are scared to share their fantasies with their partner and instead just go with the basics.
    Yes, I do share them because the relationship has to be balanced and be equal. Giving and taking. I want to be happy and I want to be pleasured. He wants to make me happy and please me and he wants to be pleased.. and neither of us are afraid to tell each other.. even red faced! -0=)
    I do think people have fantasies at times when no one is around.. not because they are hiding it.. but because in that moment.. they were in the mood to fantasize.. and making it hotter.. is sharing it with your partner later on.
    I do believe some things however.. should remain just a fantasy and not acted on and I believe each individual.. knows their limits and the limits of their relationship.

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    • nice answer, except for that corney part. ;)

      zee-ster

      by zee-ster on May 17th, 2007

    • A perfect answer. Including the corny part.
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      Which part was corny?

      BrendaStronghart

      by BrendaStronghart on March 9th, 2008

    • lol about feelings needing to be involved. She was being cute.

      Snooch

      by Snooch on March 11th, 2008

    • you got it!

      zee-ster

      by zee-ster on March 25th, 2008

    • awesome answer...

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on October 29th, 2008

    • hey now.. thanks a lot

      Snooch

      by Snooch on October 30th, 2008

    • yeah, i probably was being cute at the time. now... i am wondering if i might challenge your theory. perhaps a new lover could be approached with a fantasy & it could work out fabulously. although, i'm thinking the odds would be better if it wasn't too high on the kinky scale.

      zee-ster

      by zee-ster on December 4th, 2008

    • I can only speak from my own personal experience. Nothing without emotion ever left a lasting impression with me.

      Snooch

      by Snooch on December 4th, 2008

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