by shortstuff on July 13th, 2008

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I can't make him cum! My boyfriend can't cum whether its sex or b.j's, he says its not my fault and that he's always had that problem. But when he masterbates he can cum within minutes. I feel really shit about myself. Is it common?

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  • by sambaz on October 21st, 2009

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    It does sound like he has become very used to cumming by hand, especially if he can do this within just minutes. He will need to stop masturbating and save it for you. However, men are very visual creatures and perhaps having those senses stimulated during sex, like putting on a porn flick, will help the cause. But if he has always been like that, maybe he has some sort of underlying emotional issues from his past that he has not dealt with. ( just a thought ) You could perhaps dig deep and find out what his sexual fantasies and preferences are and work that into the bedroom too. Play on all senses, sight, taste, touch smell and so on. good luck

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