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by RobotMan on August 25th, 2009

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If your parents could no longer care for themselves, would you let them live with you or put them in a nursing home?

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  • by SandraP on August 29th, 2009

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    Hi, Well seems to me your in an emotional turmoil, is this is about you and guilt.
    Our relationships with our parents are all different, that is why you have had so many answers.
    It is very hard to do the right thing. Ask your self a few questions.
    (1)Have you asked your patents what they want,
    (2)Will you have the time to spend on their needs
    (3)Not everyone can be a nurse especially to their own loved ones the pain of seeing then deteriorate is enough to deal with.
    I am a nurse (35years ) and i would not hesitate to have my parents taken cared for in the appropriate environment.
    Nursing homes are getting better they have caring staff,entertainment, and every thing for their needs at hand. You will be too exhausted trying to care for them on your own with the result you will be stressed out, less patient, and get ill your self, It is best to make the move when they are in sound mind as the transition can be traumatic if their condition deteriorates.
    You may find once they settle in they will be happier and the company will improve their mind. You can visit any time and when you do you will be able to spend quality time. Look for a good nursing home. One that is free from smells, you can tell from their faces if they are happy and the staff should also be smiling. use your gut instinct. I have 4 sons I would hate it if I had to depend on them to wash dress and toilet me.
    We are all different you must do what is right for them and you look at it HOLISTICALLY
    Look to spend as much quality time and not labor.
    what ever you do all the best wishes. You could always pray to god for the answer he works in mysterious ways.
    Take Care.

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