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by Anonymous on April 16th, 2007

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Is it possible to not have an orgasam at all. i have fingured myself plenty of time and it seems almost impossible!

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  • by Ullyses on April 17th, 2007

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    Yes, it's quite possible to not have an orgasm.

    There are two things that help, or hinder, masturbatory or sexual pleasure - how many nerve endings you have around your genital area (How sensitive you are), and your brain (what thoughts you are having).

    If you have relatively few nerve endings then you are less likely to be stimulated enough to orgasm properly. There's not too much you can do about that. If, however, you are simply in the wrong frame of mind, or you inability to orgasm is causing you to be stressed, then there are plenty of techniques to help you relax and enjoy your experience. If your thoughts are the problem then you need to be a little clinical and critical of what you think about while you are masturbating. Next week's shopping, or the touch of paint that crack appearing on the ceiling needs, are not very sexy things to consider. In your brain you have the ability to fantasise about anything you want, however lurid or digusting you want it to be, without the consequences of actually doing it. Some people find that pictures, sounds, or video help them to get the right frame of mind. With practice you will knnow what really turns your body on and be able to make up fantasies around that. Without giving too much away, I've always been fascinated by the pomp of the French court during Louis XV rule. I love fantasies that include the big balls they had, and the sheer extravagance.

    You might prefer to imagine a jungle scene, captured by Incas and forced to become their Goddess, or a walk down a dark alley late at night might get your creative juices flowing. Imagine the breath of someone behind you; their hands grabbing you and all that comes after (though it turns out only to be a sex game with your partner). Get the right storyline and you're already partway to that magical feeling of release.

    Let me know if you want any more ideas - I've loads.

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