by Toryoh on August 9th, 2009

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My mom has been given about 2 years to live. My dad & her divorced over 30 yrs ago and he's still giving her sh**. Her funeral arrangements are made. I plan on banning him from funeral as he beat her for years. Do you think this is right thing to do?

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  • by BrokeDog on August 9th, 2009

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    I know that abused women seem to have a hard time of cutting off all contact with their abusers, but I would see how my Mom felt about it first. It sounds like he was a total scumbag, coward ... but your Mom may want him there. While I agree with YOU, I would still ask.

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    • I have talked to her...she would prefer if she never even heard his name again, EVER. But she puts up with him for my 2 younger sister's sake. I detest him personally.

      She told me that when she's gone, she doesn't care how I handle it. That being the case, and given all her other arrangements are made, I plan on him not being there, and have told her this. I told her this might piss some people off, and her response was "who cares, because I won't have to listen to their ass anymore".

      Toryoh

      by Toryoh on August 9th, 2009

    • Sounds like a plan, then. I like your Mom's attitude, too, LoL!

      BrokeDog

      by BrokeDog on August 9th, 2009

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