by cdPlaya363 on December 6th, 2006

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How do you get over the death of a loved one?

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  • by Stableboy on March 24th, 2007

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    In short: you mourn...

    It's important to allow yourself to experience whatever comes up, without expectations or judgment. Typically you may go through waves of sadness, anger, numbness, or guilt...

    There's no "right way" to feel, just allow whatever is happening to happen... remain aware, in other words, as much as possible. The process of healing is natural and takes time.

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    • couldent have said it any better Stab1eboy

      sage

      by sage on June 2nd, 2007

    • Thanks, sagerose.

      Stableboy

      by Stableboy on June 2nd, 2007

    • wow getting to this one kinda late, but is what your saying that mourning isnt the problem here, it's the solution. thanks

      cdPlaya363

      by cdPlaya363 on December 17th, 2007

    • Well yes, basically. Mourning would only be a problem if you're hanging on to something too long -- i.e. trying to keep the past alive with too much rigidity. Lots of things in life involve going through painful or uncomfortable emotional processes that are normal and healthy. To avoid those processes makes life stop flowing, and causes all sorts of malfunctions.

      Stableboy

      by Stableboy on December 17th, 2007

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