by Sheriff Raff -Answerhag on February 7th, 2009

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My father who is German does not like me to spend money on anything nice for him. An older German woman I know doesn't like her daughter to spend money on her for Opera tickets. Are Germans so cheap they don't even want others to spend money?

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  • by JakobA I^_^I the alooney on February 7th, 2009

    JakobA I^_^I the alooney

    There are lots of possibilities.

    Most likely I guess is they do not want you to spend money on them. And while the reason for that could be thrift, it certainly do not mean that they are 'cheap'.

    Or maybe they know you well enough to predict that you will buy them something utterly useless and unwanted, witch will then make them obligated when your birthday comes along. (PS: it really IS very difficult to find a good gift for people from a different culture and of different age)

    regards JakobA

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    • I don't celebrate birthdays or holidays and neither do my parents so when I ask my husband to bring my dad some special beer or a cake to their house, it's because we want to. Recently, I gave them a kitten that my co-worker's son needed to find a home for and I paid for the shots and the neutering...at one point he didn't want the cat neutered because he didn't feel it was necessary. This is what I am dealing with.

      Sheriff Raff  -Answerhag

      by Sheriff Raff -Answerhag on February 7th, 2009

    • Well, I can easily imagine him not wanting a cat in the first place; I sure dont, my flat smells bad enough with just me ;-)

      Daring to venture a guess, I think the present your parents want the most is to have you visit, and spend some time with them.

      JakobA I^_^I the alooney

      by JakobA I^_^I the alooney on February 7th, 2009

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