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by Namaste formerly future_health_educator on October 4th, 2008
Is your heart filled with anger right now? If so, why?
by A on April 12th, 2012
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When you're angry at yourself about something, do you sometimes invite the anger of others? Almost as if you feel you deserve it?
by Nancy B is lonely again... on March 28th, 2012
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If millions of people are angry about the same thing, is there a valid reason 4 their anger, or is there something wrong w/ them?
by MrX on April 6th, 2012
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What do you say or do when you are angry that you don't do when you are not? Why does anger change things (in your opinion)?
by A on April 23rd, 2012
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Have you ever had a strong urge to punch a cop just for the hell of it?
by Lechuza on April 24th, 2012
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You're reading How can you calm yourself down to avoid arguments? breathing and thinking rationally doesnt work 4 me, any other ideas?
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Me I just walk away
by Dave2222 on October 4th, 2008
thank you.
i try this but i think i must 'stomp' away coz he always follows me 2 check im ok, may tell him to let me get on with it, it may help!
by Tigger on October 6th, 2008
Why don't you tell him that you need some time to think about whatever you are discussing. And you will get back to him later. If he follows you just keep repeating the same thing over and over. He'll get the message.
However I still stay it isn't fair to just walk away w/o talking about the situation when you are calm every time someone says something you don't like. I am sure you want your thoughts or feelings heard, so does the other person.
by Namaste formerly future_health_educator on October 6th, 2008
no i dont walk away all the time
just when i feel like i may start to get a bot heated and i might be a little harsh or hasty!
i will try this in the future thanks
by Tigger on October 7th, 2008