I'm 30 and have never had an orgasm, despite many partners with many different 'abilities.' What am I doing wrong?

Are you on any medications where sexual problems are a side effect?This is the case with me and so unfortunately I can never climax from anyone eating, touching or fucking me. It just takes too long and I lose patience and just give up. If this is the case with you, try masterbation. Get a vibrator with several different speeds (so you can choose the one that feels best) put in on your clit and don't let off (unless of course it becomes painful or too intense, in which case the speed may be too high) until you cum. Also penetrating yourself with a dildo while masterbating usually sends me over the edge, so why not give this a try too? Oh, if you don't want to go through the embarassment of going into a porn shop and purchasing the necessary equipment (I know it's embarassing but you can try to get over this feeling by realizing that the clerks of these shops are used to selling these things to people all day long, so they're definitely not judging you), change out your shower head for one that's removable and have fun with that! Take your time, don't rush anything by focusing on just reaching orgasm, enjoy the whole experience. It may take an hour or even longer, but hang in there. It will be worth it. :)

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