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by AJ Sacher on July 8th, 2005

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I'm repeatedly being rejected by girls left and right. What am I doing wrong?

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  • by Anonymous on December 6th, 2005

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    It sounds, like some of the other answers have said, that you are coming onto a lot of different girls. This in itself is pretty off-putting- someone who asks out every girl they meet can come across as a bit of a creep, or just plain desperate. Also the more you get rejected, if other girls are aware of the rejection might begin to think "Well, if all the other girls rejected him maybe there IS something wrong with him.." This might be unfair, but it seems to me that the solution is just to plain slow it down a bit. Nobody wants to date a guy who asks her out just because she's female and single, she wants to feel like you asked her out because you really like HER, and if she knows she's the eighth girl you've asked out that week, she's not going to feel that. So stop asking for a while, get chatting to the girls you like, be their friends, listen to them, get to know them and resist the urge to jump in there and ask for a date. If you behave like a friend, a decent guy, and, dare I say it, a gentleman- the chances are they will respect you far more- then, if you still feel you'd like to take it further, go for it, and ask. If she refuses, don't get too cut up about it, and don't stop being her friend (everyone will assume you're only ever after one thing, which might be true but no need to advertise the fact!!) Who knows, you may find at some point one of your newfound girl friends even asks YOU out.

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