Asking the "other womem" out there~What goes thru your mind when you are dating a married man who has made no moves to leave his wife when he knows thats what u want and has told u he will leave her? Is it worth it? Why do you hang on?

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• I cannot understand how you can feel no shame in being some MM's "dirty little secret" knowing that if his wife were to find out she'd be devastated. She has most likely put yrs into her marriage and relationship. Taken care of him when he was sick, Been thru hard times good times raised children with him....how can u feel no shame for being selfish. Would it not bother u to know you were the cause (as well as the MM of course) of someone elses undeserved heartache? Where is tour compassion for another human being? For innocent kids? I find this very difficult to understand.

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  by Anonymous on August 1st, 2008

• That's the way that some people are, some people can be selfish, greedy people who have no regards to anybody's feelings.

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  by Im BACK on August 1st, 2008

• How is she being selfish? She can do what she wants with whoever maybe the married woman should learn to keep her man happy

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  by Little Devil the Pumpkin King on August 1st, 2008

• I agree. Thank you, questionbag.

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  by Im BACK on August 1st, 2008

• i cannot believe you have no SHAME!! You are hurting another woman by NOT sending the MM away!! If women like you would say "oh sorry but you're married and I won;t do that to another woman" and walk the F**** away.....there would be alot less cheating (same goes for the reverse gender) If ppl would respect others in all areas, including marriage committment....and NOT trespass on another's claim there would be alot fewer kids living in broken homes. I certainly would never want the OW/OM who homewrecked MY FAMILY to EVER be anywhere near MY KIDS-Talk about bad role models And Y should my kids respect her when she is the cause of their pain, someone who did not respect them.. what happened to compassion and respect honesty and integrity!!!??

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  by Anonymous on August 8th, 2008

• not saying the husband isn't at fault however he broke his vows and if the other woman voluntarily entered into a relationship with him knowing his marital status...then she is a backstabbing two faced low life!!! Do Unto others....reap what u sow, believe me Karma is a bitch and most time it shows up in the disguise of an ex spouse there to kicking your sorry cheap ass!!!

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  by Anonymous on August 8th, 2008

• It isn't always the other woman's fault. It takes for two people to cheat,and the husband is also to blame.

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  by Im BACK on August 9th, 2008

• the husband is to blame of course however when the OW KNOWS he is married, KNOWS the wife as well KNOWS there are kids and STILL gets into an affair with the man she is EQUALLY to blame. She did not break vows to the wife but she did break the common courtesy of respecting a fellow human being!! She is in that case cheap, and extremely lacking in class. She has set out to DELIBERATELY harm another. No matter how she tried/tries to justify it or make it pretty..she is still WRONG and KNOWING he is married makes her even more WRONG. Do unto others as u would have done to you...Karma is a bitch and in cases like this Karma usually shows up disguised as the betrayed wife out to kick your sorry ass for being such a disrespectable, low class whore.

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  by Anonymous on August 10th, 2008

• @ Anonymous it seems like ur anger is misplaced u expect a woman who has never met u to care anything about ur feelings or that fact that a guy she met is married if the man who made the vows to u dont!! come on in a perfect world ur feelings would matter to her but the reality of it is once she has met him shes only hearing one side of the story..u keep saying the husband is to blame to but in ur comments u can tell u totally blame the other women!! no right.

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  by stopitthisreality on October 16th, 2010