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by Lil Confused on July 19th, 2008

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In relationships: Do we subconsciously, or consciously seek out people that are as attractive as we are? Do we avoid someone we percieve as more attractive, and if so why?

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  • by Ambiee on July 19th, 2008

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    I tend to look at men who are average looking, or what I find attractive. There are many times where I look at a man who is well dressed, manicured, and kinda preppy pretty boy lookin, and I wont say a word to them, because I don't feel like I'm pretty enough or what they would choose. It's kinda like a stero type situation, and I think that could point both directions.
    I've also not been attracted to someone based on looks, but mentaly and emotionaly have been totally attracted to them. My ex, I wasn't attracted to him, some point I was in love with him, and now I find him one of the sexiest men I've ever been with.

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    • That's an interesting point.. about your Ex being attractive to you now. Has he changed, or is it your perception that changed?

      Lil Confused

      by Lil Confused on July 19th, 2008

    • It was my perception that changed. We had rough beginnings. His fashion abilities and things weren't of my taste. I made an attempt to influence and change some, but didn't work. My ex was very hard headed. Also, he had a mole that buged the shit out of me, it became no exsistant at some point. He's also a very hairy man, and I was grossed out by it. Now that we're not together, I long for a hairy man. I miss him next to me, rubbing my hands through his hairy chest. When your perception of somone changes, it could make or break how you feel about person, minus the negatives that may have been.

      Ambiee

      by Ambiee on August 5th, 2008

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