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by Pabloboy696969 on July 11th, 2008

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Ok hears the thing my girl dont believe that I love her and she wants me to prove that I love her and i dont know how, but I wanther to know that I love her more then anything I know you cant prove it but she wants me to. Please someone help

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  • by gmeades on July 11th, 2008

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    Sounds like a pretty futile situation, my friend, as you are totally at her mercy. Only she is the one who is in the position of saying whether anything you say or do is acceptable as "proof", regardless of how you feel or the amount of effort you put into it.

    The best thing to do is to accept it. Accept she feels as she does, and simply take the attitude "so be it".

    Why put yourself through untold suffering trying to find some secret that no one knows the answer to, perhaps not even your girlfriend. It sounds like she's not happy with you, and she's toying with you, to be honest. I'd let her know that if she's not happy with you, you can accept that, and perhaps it's best if you just broke up. First of all, it would get her to rethink the game, if that's what she's doing, and secondly, it would relieve you of forever being victimized by trying to find a way to keep her satisfied with finding ways to "prove" your feelings. Eventually it'll become too wearing to sustain, and the sooner you put an end to the game, the better.

    If she cares for you, she'll find a new appreciation for you. If she doesn't, why would you want to continue in a relationship where you're placed in such a pitiful situation constantly...?

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    • Precisely.

      Carmella

      by Carmella on July 11th, 2008

    • Hey this is my different account but she's not even my girlfriend she is my friend but I know I love her immensly

      Ineedansweres97

      by Ineedansweres97 on July 1st, 2010

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