Ask a Question
or
Create a Poll
  1. Home /
  2. Questions /
  3. Relationship Advice
  4. / Dating
  5. / Cheating In Relationships
  6. / Trusting Someone Who Has Cheated Before
  7. / Staying With A Cheater

by gwynfryd on October 10th, 2005

gwynfryd

Question

Help answer this question below.

My boyfriend cheated. He is really sorry and asking to work things out. This is the first time that he did this. Should I stay and give him a chance or should I just break up with him?

  • Like
  • Report
Share:
Other

Answers. Showing one answer.

  • by Tantric on January 21st, 2007

    Tantric

    Cheating is our worst nightmare come true. The ramifications are earthshaking. The trust is gone, completely gone,

    I feel that it is nearly impossible for a Relationship Survive Cheating, the only thing worse than cheating is getting caught cheating. Because unlike anything else, cheating is perhaps the most personally demoralizing thing one person can do to another person.
    cheating in my book is automatic grounds for breaking up.

    Comments

    • Good for you !

      Patti jo

      by Patti jo on January 21st, 2007

    • Tantric, you took the words right out of my mouth! Being cheated on is the most agonizing thing I have ever felt in my life. It robbed me of my peace of mind, and the freedom to love without caution or fear of being rejected. It's like living in your own mental prison, and you're afraid to leave, because this nightmare may find you again unaware.

      Macy

      by Macy on June 2nd, 2011

    • Thank you so much for this comment, it helps a lot. The obvious answer is obviously ''dump him if he cheats, cause if he cheats then he doesnt love you. Dump him or you're a weak pathetic woman''. But sometimes its not that simple. We're all humans, we have temptations and we make mistakes. What if the guy's really sorry and you can actually see that he's honestly totaly in love with you no matter what...and what if you know he's the love of your life? Its so hard to take a decision, then. I did not take mine yet, but it feels so good to finaly hear someone saying something less obvious than just ''dump him''.

      Gabrielle_R

      by Gabrielle_R on July 24th, 2011

    • Like
    • Report

    3 comments | Post one | Permalink

Want to attach an image to your answer? Click here.

Did this answer your question? If not, then ask a new question or create a poll.

More Questions. Additional questions in this category.

You're reading My boyfriend cheated. He is really sorry and asking to work things out. This is the first time that he did this. Should I stay and give him a chance or should I just break up with him?

Follow us on Facebook!

Related Ads

Related Questions

Professionally Researched

Answerbag

a Demand Media company