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by jd123 on January 4th, 2008

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My girlfriend touches and flirts with other men is this normal?

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  • by Taylor on January 25th, 2008

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    I depends on the degree of touching and flirting, I think.

    My wife is very friendly, and she has a 'way' with the men, but she's not phony, at all, if you understand me.

    But, she is comfortable touching or laying her hands on a man. She will readily 'feel your shirt', for example, of touch your arm when she's talking to you.

    For some women, that is a natural thing.

    I guess it's up to you to decide if she's being friendly flirty or inappropriate.

    The one thing I 'will' tell you is that if she is naturally a warm and touchy person, trying to beat that out of her will make her absolutely MISERABLE and she'll resent you for it, in the end. The relationship will never last if you can't allow her to be who she is, providing she is just being 'herself' and not trying to prove she can get any man she wants.

    There is a big difference between those two types of women. It's up to you to determine which type your girl is, and if you can handle it, in either case.

    Personally, I love the comfortable way my wife behaves with people. She's warm and friendly, but doesn't give the wrong impression to anyone who doesn't want to read more into it than there really is. :)

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    • Good answer, although, wouldn't she be trying to turn him into someone he's not as well?

      A

      by A on May 17th, 2008

    • Hiya, A-girl! How are you?
       
      In what way do you mean? Are you referring to the paragraph about allowing her to be who she is? If so, then he's just not the man for her. She wouldn't ask him to change, she just wouldn't have a relationship with him.
       
      Fortunately, I'M that man, and I have no desire to change her and am quite comfortable with how she is. :)

      Taylor

      by Taylor on June 3rd, 2008

    • I am alright. How about you?
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      Well, if the guy isn't comfortable with it, and the girl is, then she'd be forcing him to be comfortable with it by going along with it, even though she knows it hurts him. Does this make sense?
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      Well, it's good that you're comfortable with her.

      A

      by A on June 7th, 2008

    • well said! :)

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      by Disko Fari on September 8th, 2011

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