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by muffin on January 23rd, 2008

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I feel disgusting after having anal sex (for the first time) with my husband. It was a good experience, we both wanted to try it for a while. After I felt trashy, I told him I never want to do it again. Why do I feel this way?

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  • by My Favourite Life on January 24th, 2008

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    It sounds like you are experiencing a value conflict. You believe (because of societal or religious norms) that this is wrong and you can't reconcile this. If you enjoyed it, don't collude with your own deprivation. You are engaging in consensual sex with your marriage partner. There is nothing wrong with what you are doing. I would suggest you read this post: http://mflife.wordpress.com/2006/10/12/anal-sex-101/ , and the next time you are in the mood, surprise him with a special request. If he is like me, he will love the ad hoc invitation. :) I hope you can get past this and not be so concerned about external judgments, though I know this is difficult for most people...to live their own private lives without the guilt of non-conformity.

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