by pontoof on February 23rd, 2005

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I met a guy online, then we met and had sex on the first date. He left town and I haven't heard from him since. I feel bad for rushing things. Is there any way to let him know that I would like to go back and start over?

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  • This is a tough one. Did you all "connect" (pardon the pun) in any other ways besides sexually? What I mean is, did you spend any time getting to know each other and find that you had a lot in common?

    I have to agree with Jack Scotty on this one, he probably was just looking for sex. I don't believe most guys (or women) who use online dating services are like this though nor can I quantify it with any statisticss. However, the key here is that he left town AND he has not contacted you.

    Don't bother feeling bad about rushing things and letting him know you would like to start over because. . .well, to put it bluntly, he already got what he wanted out of this deal. Sad, but probably true. It's probably just better to regret then forget. Find somebody else and be more cautious when using an online dating service in the future.

    I know this is probably not the answer you wanted, but I hope it helps.

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