I've never dated and I just started dating my first girlfriend. How do I be a good boyfriend?

I hate to disagree with all the previous answers.

My answer is simple: BE YOURSELF.

If you try to do nice things that are not really part of you, and you make this girl fall in love with this nice details.....oopss, sooner or later you will grow tired of being someone you are not and then she will leave you.

I can assure you that after some (long or short) time your passion will decay, and you will stop doing whatever is not really part of you.

So if it's not in you to open doors for her, do not do it. Let her know from the beginning who you really are. Let her fall in love with YOU, not a manners book.

In the end, even if she rejects you, will be better for both. Yes both, because you will know that she wasn't for you either.

The only part I agree with all the other guys is: DO NOT CHEAT.

Good luck on this new stage of your life!!

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Excellent point that was overlooked. Being yourself is key.
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by Andy Is Wicked Married to Penal Colony on March 14th, 2005
Very Good!! I totally agree " Be yourself"!!
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by heavensglo on March 14th, 2005
Ever Be yourself
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by Anonymous on March 15th, 2005
one needs to learn how to do nice things, keep doing them, and make them a part of themselves.
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by keith wissman on March 18th, 2005
true, however being yourself is the same thing as being honest with her which is stated in other answers.
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by QuestionBoy on March 18th, 2005
Great answer
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by Anonymous on January 24th, 2006
Good advice - I married someone who turned out to be a completely different person from the man I had dated!
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by Grandma Roses - my avatar is my real dog on February 23rd, 2006
Good answer. Oh,and excellent advice.
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by A on December 13th, 2008

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