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by nevets - badgicide on November 1st, 2007
What is the worst thing someone ever did while all you could do is watch?
by Freedom00 on February 7th, 2012
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Which is the most sad incident in your life?
by whatsupp on February 24th, 2012
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When do you feel sad?
by PL is on vacation right now on January 16th, 2012
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someone leave, and there is this pain, this sudden pain of good bye. where is it coming from within you?
by Shunyata on December 17th, 2011
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If I ________ I’d look sad.
by morrislook on January 28th, 2012
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You're reading If you are unhappy, are you more apt to try to change the circumstances of your life or to change yourself?
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Darn!
I was checking my old account for any feedback I might have missed (1 new comment!) and to get the links to my past questions... and I forgot to go back to my new account! I must be consistent and only use this account.
by nevets - away on November 1st, 2007
Went to each link and read the questions..assuming they reflect what you were experiencing at the time you asked them, where are you now? Sometimes simply changing your circumstances will allow the growth it takes to mature and let things go...if you are sitting in a vise that keeps squeezing you ever tighter, you need to get out of there first before you can reflect on anything else..the circumstances prevent the growth because of the pain they are causing..get out of the circumstances first..worry about your insides later. :)
by RosieGHM Jetpacker on November 1st, 2007
Unfortunately I am still in the process of changing my circumstances with regard to the first question... but I will get out of that vice soon.
by nevets - away on November 2nd, 2007
Okay then...I'm rooting for you and fervently hope that the "soon" is right around the corner! :)
by RosieGHM Jetpacker on November 2nd, 2007
@ Nevets Chin up! (-:
Rosie is wise
by Yeux on November 4th, 2007
Thank you, Pathia..that is so sweet of you. I'm not sure I'm wise so much as old! The older one gets, the more experience one has! :)
by RosieGHM Jetpacker on November 5th, 2007
Thanks Pathia. :-)
@Rosie: Any luck with the IM program?
by nevets - away on November 5th, 2007
No, nevets...but I have your emails with links..I'll try again at some point. I get just "so far" and no further with it. At some point when Old School comes over to visit I can ask his help. We are in the process of moving to a new place..starting Saturday when we took out our first load of stuff..today we take out another load..we have to be out of here by Nov. 30..plan to take out all the large stuff the weekend of Nov 17/18 and then keep moving garage stuff and other non-essentials. So I probably won't be trying the IM until we're settled on the other end. Thanks, though, for trying so hard on my behalf. I know, what are friends for? :) ((hug))
by RosieGHM Jetpacker on November 5th, 2007