by Loudside20 on October 23rd, 2007

Loudside20

Question

Help answer this question below.

Your with a chick you LOVE her but how do you tell her she is a bit plumper than you like her to be and its hard to be sexual with her cuz you dont like it much. Again im in love with her just not workin out well cuz of her size seh became

  • Like
  • Report

Answers. Showing one answer.

  • by ADIMADMOM on October 23rd, 2007

    ADIMADMOM

    You are not in love with her. If you were, her size would not be an issue. I do not suggest saying anything to her about it unless you want to hurt her. Since you claim feelings for her I am going to assume you don't want to do that. Instead, find somebody more to your taste and let her find someone who will appreciate her as she is.

    Comments
    • THANK YOU

      Little big mouth

      by Little big mouth on October 23rd, 2007

    • I agree with Adi! You must not love her that much if you think she's fat AND a turn off! I suggest you take another look at how you feel about this woman, and maybe realize how lucky you are to have her.
      P.S. Even if she has put on some weight, you NEVER say anything about it! Chances are, she already can tell how you feel, and it's making her feel worse. A good idea might be to start walking each evening, (tell her you are worried about YOUR health, and maybe she will walk with you). Or, the next time SHE brings it up, ask her what YOU can do to help. And, remember, some day the roles may be reversed.

      BrokeDog

      by BrokeDog on October 23rd, 2007

    • Amen Brokedog. Well said.

      Grammy Robin

      by Grammy Robin on October 23rd, 2007

    • I do like that answer. I do love her. I do everything in the world for her and we do things together all the time. Even sexually. Problem is that I am not as sexually active as i was because my previous girl of 3 years got prego and left me for another dude and moved like far as hell away. I dont want that again so the times it comes up lately i just think that her looks adds to my allready not wanting to be physical all the time

      Loudside20

      by Loudside20 on October 23rd, 2007

    • Plus when did i say she was fat.. she isnt FAT.. shes my height 5'8ish and 183lbs.. she is def overwieght. However I never said FAT and a turn off.. i never get turned on much by her phsycal appearance. But when she is dressed up with nice ass pants im tottaly turned on by her ass n shit. She is an awesome girl and all i want is to work it out. u guys are all being way to protective of the question i just wanted to know how to talk to her about it

      Loudside20

      by Loudside20 on October 23rd, 2007

    • Sounds like there is a lot more to the issue than just her physical appearance. You have some hurts that are playing a part in this. That would be the way to approach the subject. Talk about your fears and feelings, not her possible inadequacies. Good luck! I hope it works out for you. Next time give us more info - we girls are protective and very touchy about the weight thing - sorry if I misunderstood.

      ADIMADMOM

      by ADIMADMOM on October 24th, 2007

    • Yeah, that girlfriend thing kinda threw us, Loud. But, I do think you want to be better with her. Listen to Adi, and you and your g/f work on it together. And, I wish you all the luck, too!

      BrokeDog

      by BrokeDog on October 24th, 2007

    • Wow i havent logged on here in forever.. to comment on my stupid behavior i shoudl have realized if i came here to ask this question then i truly wasnt happy, Since the post.. I am accually living with my Fiance shanno, who isnt the same girl and we just had our baby girl born tues at 530.. we have a great thing going and we are both happy. so yeah I am now in love!

      Loudside20

      by Loudside20 on August 21st, 2009

    • Wow ... 2 years later, LoL! Congrats, Loud! Cherish that baby, man. I just sent my last child off to college. They really DO grow up so fast! Once again, Congrats on the baby AND the fiance! Good luck!

      BrokeDog

      by BrokeDog on August 23rd, 2009

    • Once again, BrokeDog....Well said, as usual.
      Congrats, Loudside20. Enjoy that baby!

      Grammy Robin

      by Grammy Robin on August 25th, 2009

    • Thank you, Grams!

      BrokeDog

      by BrokeDog on August 25th, 2009

    • Like
    • Report

    11 comments | Post one | Permalink

Want to attach an image to your answer? Click here.

Did this answer your question? If not, then ask a new question or create a poll.

You're reading Your with a chick you LOVE her but how do you tell her she is a bit plumper than you like her to be and its hard to be sexual with her cuz you dont like it much. Again im in love with her just not workin out well cuz of her size seh became

Follow us on Facebook!

Related Ads