by Anonymous on September 4th, 2007

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Your ex works at a restaurant, that you want to work at. You know people there, but he has friends there too. He's leaving for a new job, but still says he's going to hang out there lots. He says he doesn't want you there, would you do what you want or...

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  • by Seanette on October 14th, 2007

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    If he's no longer part of your life, what you do is really not his concern and he certainly does NOT get to issue commands. I'd ignore the jerk, count myself better off to have gotten rid of him, and do what *I* wanted.

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    • Thank you for your answer, but i got the job, and then he ended up staying for the sake of me coming into his "family" (as he describes),and told his manager if i came to work at the restaurant, then he would leave. He's worked there for 5 years and is of course friends with the manager, so the manager took his word, and i didn't end up getting the job. It's sad how you think you know somebody, especially when you're dating them, but it's a rude awakening when you realize they never were who you knew...

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      by Anonymous on October 15th, 2007

    • I'm really sorry he's still interfering with your life, but I'm sure you'll get a better job. Remember, living well is the best revenge, so if you're doing better as a result of this than you would have if you'd gotten this job.... :-)

      Seanette

      by Seanette on October 15th, 2007

    • Thanks for looking at the situation, with a positive outlook. I think thats a quality most people don't have! Yeah, i'm lucky to not be working there, because i would have to see him all the time, and i think that would have really effected my life. He already lives right across the street and I see him enough as it is, so i'm glad it worked out the way it did. And i like my new job as well, thank you for listening!

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      by Anonymous on October 18th, 2007

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