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by MP1116 on July 30th, 2004

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My girlfriend is always busy with her studies and we rarely ever spend time together. She never allows herself to take a break, and I don't want to end the relationship, but it's really getting on my nerves. How do I confront her about it?

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  • by Alaskacatalog on October 14th, 2007

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    HER STUDIES. Not her friends, shopping, her dog, or hobbies.

    Cut her some slack. How many women have put their lives on hold while a man became a Dr or lawyer, worked so he could get through school? She is only using her own time- not yours, not your $...

    SUPPORT her, unless she is only a girlfriend and you really don't have any future plans w/ her. Spending time w/ her is important to you, but you have 50 yrs for that. She needs to do this now.

    Show her you care. Bring her food [better yet, make it while she studies in the other room], quietly watch TV and ALLOW her to study. She will love you more, and MAKE time for you. Being selfish now will cause you to lose her- and if you force her to choose, she'll resent you for it- no matter which way it turns out.

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    • gooooooooood answer

      Seraphim Shinobi

      by Seraphim Shinobi on October 14th, 2007

    • i agree, this is a gd answer :)

      one more and then Im going home

      by one more and then Im going home on October 14th, 2007

    • This answer is awesome!

      A

      by A on December 20th, 2007

    • great answer... and dont forget, there are always holidays!!!! Just make the time you do spend together meaningful!!

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on January 26th, 2009

    • you're right alaska... this is the best answerfor me

      msuzuki

      by msuzuki on September 21st, 2009

    • Exactly! :)

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on October 9th, 2009

    • Great answer. And you can still spend time with her while studying. You can always snuggle with her while she's reading. :)

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on October 9th, 2009

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