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by Bunter on November 29th, 2006
I am an Indian guy dating an American girl for 8 months now. It has been nothing but fantastic. I don't think being an Indian changed the fact that I was a man and she was a woman and the universal law holds true in every case (opposites attract). I suggest, you get the mental block of "race" and/or "ethnicity" out of the window and be yourself and as you indicated "...do not get the oppertunity to meet people", you need to go to some social places. Are you shy? reserved in nature? Verbal skills? Your Q doesn't indicate that you have communication problems. Believe in yourself and am sure you'd get along with someone who likes being with you. All the best.
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You're reading I am an attractive british born Indian guy 5'11, and slim and would love to go out with a white girl as it is my preference. Only problem is I do not get the opportunity to meet people. where do I begin. And do white women find Indian guys attractive?
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When it comes to meeting or introducing myself to new people, for the very first time, I think my fears come in the way, which tends to hinder the confidence I have. I am a naturally shy person and Its not a problem with looks. My sister who works in a pharmacy department, her Manager thought I looked like Tom cruise which I found funny LOL :)I think I have been lucky that my two ex girlfriends I went out with previously, had approached me. I did see a girl who worked in a retail store and asked her if she would like to get together for a coffee or something and she said no. Im not scared of rejection cause its a part of life. I think that my way of thinking is perhaps wrong cause to be honest I do have this expectation that women should approach men also. Is this wrong of me. Thanks your advise man, I truly appreciate it :)
by Type-rfusion on December 1st, 2006
Type-rfusion: the kind of concerns you have about women are pretty common for all races, I wouldn't worry about the white vs. Indian angle much.
by Stableboy on December 2nd, 2006
Bunter: good answer, good to have you on board the 'bag!
by Stableboy on December 2nd, 2006
The society in general inappropriately judges women who approach men IMHO and hence I guess women are insecure, apprehensive or hold themselves back in doing so. It may be customary for a man to ask a woman out but I wouldn't say it holds true all the time. Hence, I dont think its something wrong with you or your thought process. I'd say women prefer to be asked out (and it is a priviledge for a man) rather than ask a man out. So make the first move, dont hold yourself back, and like you said, the worst that could happen is a decline or rejection. If you are ready to take it into your stride then there is no looking back.
by Bunter on December 2nd, 2006
Stableboy: Thanks!
by Bunter on December 2nd, 2006
Thanks you guys. I appreciate your comments. That is some serious preceptive thoughts! :) well done
by Type-rfusion on December 21st, 2006
This is a really great answer, honey.
by AntigoneRising on December 9th, 2007