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by Mellowyellow on November 14th, 2006

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My girlfriend of almost 4 years has just told me she needs a break. I feel i'm going to lose her if i agree to this break and don't want her to have one. She says she needs time to find out how she feels. She says she can see herself marrying me

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  • by D-Miller on November 15th, 2006

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    Im going thru the same thing as you are with my girlfriend..although we were only together for 16 months but knew each other for 4 years..and she told me the exact same thing..needs time to find out who she is and how she feels...sadly, theres nothing you can do but let her go..give her some time, but do NOT call her..wait for her to call you..any chance you have of getting back with her will fade away if you do that..don't pressure her for anything..and when she calls you then you can go from there, but don't pressure her then either..maybe start out as friends and slowly build it back up..my advice after she calls you is to see if you can see her. Or maybe during the break she'll realize she misses you and she'll want to see you. I saw my girl yesterday for the first time in 3 weeks and alot of feelings were rehashed and now I have a feeling we will get back together. But don't push anything..If she really loves you, she'll come around..every woman goes thru this where they feel they need to be independent... and yes it's sucked at times but you can also use that time to find things out about yourself..look out for YOURSELF and don't worry about her or what she's doing..that'll just lead to hurt and sadness..i know it sucks believe me cuz im going thru it too, but keep your chin up and remember that everything happens for a reason. If it's meant to be it's meant to be and who knows..maybe you'll meet someone else and realize that this wasn't what you were lookin for after all... Good luck and keep me posted..my email addy is DMil24@yahoo.com

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