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  • Fear of intamacy...fear of commitment...all the things you've heard about on Lifetime.
  • The same reasons some females do. For many different reasons I am sure. I would think one reason is they are not ready to give up the mind games.
    • Supersoftball
      What mind games? So a guy who is not feeling this same level of closeness is playing a mind game? Just because you have some sort of sex with a guy you think the relationship is getting closer, often times it's not, it's just sex and it doesn't mean as much to us as it does to some of you.
  • Either they're just playing or they're not ready yet for something bigger.
    • Supersoftball
      How about he simply does not feel the same way as she does or you do at this time or not at all?
    • Myang
      yes that's one of the possibilities behind. Maybe he's not really in love with the girl.
  • I would say because they lose interest, want to spend more time with other girls, or decide its not worth their while to put any effort into a continuing relationship.
  • On occasion, we may feel a fear of the intimate or the compassion that we might not be able to provide. The fear of lack of commitment on our part scares us too we hope that we can't fail you, but in the back of our minds, we know that it might happen and it kills us that little bit.
    • Supersoftball
      Oh please! Are you trying to sell a book or music? Stop with the I feel your pain sister stuff. It has nothing to do with intimacy as if you'll have that market cornered or commitment issues. You girls/women (ladies have it figured out) situational and relationship awareness assessment skills are wrong. We often times know how we feel about the status of our relationships and because of your ego protection mechanism, you rationalize that it's us/him, when all it may be is that he/us do not feel the same way yet.
    • Vyzix
      Excuse me for attempting to use my view... myself, a guy, know exactly why I've pulled away from a relationship and tried to help answer her question by how I've done it. I apologize for the misunderstanding.
  • The one you have is pulling away, we all do not do this. You may have this feeling it's growing closer he may not and he is staying on his course, not your's.

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