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suzybear
ANSWERS: 100
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Depression. Impotency. Can't think of anything else that would make men lose interest in having at least sex with their hand.
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Stress is often a cause for loss of libido.
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Many times focusing on the physical attributes of their partner. It's almost inevitoble that once 2 people get together in a long term comitted relationship they start to let themselves go. They don't take as much of an interest in their physical appearance as they used to and they might put on a considerable amout of weight or might not wash their hair or shower regularly etc and so forth. When it is the woman who does this many times a man becomes disinterested in having physical relations with her because he is turned off by what he sees in front of him. I am not saying that a man is right in doing this. When you comitt to love someone you are supposed to love them through both the good and bad but some of us men forget that and allow our shallow side take over and thus that is ine explaination of why some men lose interest in sex with their partner.
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When it comes to life situations... spending too much time working will do it. (all work and no play yadda yadda yadda) Having a companion (either gender) that doesnt take care of his or her self (which of course can go either way) Not speaking from experience... but sometimes religious dedication may cause some to loose interest if that person decides to focus on that... Mostly I think its when a guy looses interest in his significant other... or.. he could even be cheating.. thats a big signal...
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Men lose interest at all ??
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To much internet. Guys are visual, get it for free on internet. Virtual Reality.
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A number of people go off sex for a while, especially during times of stress. Very often, the lack of interest is as much a symptom of depression.
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I could be stress, or it could become boring!
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A miracle
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Haaa! I've yet to know of a man who has lost interest in sex. LOL
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In any case, I know I wouldn't be one of those men.
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a loss of interest in the person he's sleeping with maybe? when the sex gets "predictable" and boring perhaps.. I'm trying to figure this one out myself!
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Depression,tiredness a number of pyscological reasons
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If a man has no respect or trust for the women he loves. From experience
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A reduction in the natural production of testosterone.
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Drinking to much, stress, depression & high blood pressure sometimes effects that part of their sex drive also. But sometimes(not always) they've got interest in an outside source instead of their current housemate.
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Thank you for your answers. One questin though,i guess only men can answer this: If a man loses interest in sex, would he still masturbate? Me and my husband have been married for 4 months and we have had sex only twice since we got married. I am from another country and came here to be with him so I was unemployed for a bit and I understand that it was stressful for him to be the only breadwinner but I am working now and we still havent had sex. But I know he masturbates. He says he simply lost interest and doesnt think of it etc. As much as I want to believe him, it doesnt convince me. I look after myself and try to seduce him etc but it wont work. I dont know what to do,i feel so unloved and lonely... Please give me an opinion... Thanks a bunch in advance for any answers...
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I haven't met one yet that has had that problem. Most of them say they can never get enough, or they are lying about how many partners they have, or how kinky their mate is. The other day a friend of mine told me that he was having his ceiling fan reinforced for some reason.
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lack of activity, lack of personal hygiene (sp) don't come around often enough to keep the fires going, never shuts up, too fat sometimes esp when no activity or willingness to do the fun things in bed. This is a good start.
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An affair with someone else???
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my experience with my husband ... sex was every second at first last year dead... i found out he was cheating..
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perhaps it might be due in part to familiarity with the other partner. It's like two magicians trying to show each other the same tricks. Keeping it interesting and an open line of communication with your partner/spouse/GF/BF whatever about what it is you/they like. It doesnt matter if the woman he's dating is a supermodel. Eventually the sex turns stale. It's how you keep it interesting with that other participant that keeps things spicy. Ladies dont be afraid to drop the role as wife or mom or whatever. When you are having sex with your man make love like it's the first time. gentleman, this also goes for you to. Drop the office or the kids screaming at you and take time for your woman. Dont ever take them for granted and be sure to never miss a day without saying I love you to your woman. Hope this helps.
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Drink and Drugs. Many prescription drugs including Blood pressure medication can affect sex drive. Depression or some other kind of illness. Possibly another partner somewhere.
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Ha, that's a funny joke.
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Their death usually does it--unless there is life after death.
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lack of interest in sex (thats my reason i just don't give a damn about sex never did it)
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bad breath and bad teeth
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maybe it is that the man wants his wife to always look the way she did when they got together, regardless of the fact that she has given birth to his two sons and tried to recover quickly from 2 hellish c sections and is so far unable to combat the fact that c sections cause very ugly belly sagging and having children and producing milk causes the breasts that used to be nice and perky to sag and be unattractive. The man should think just for one moment how his wife is feeling now that she is no longer attractive. He should talk to her and let her know that it is not her body, it is his inability to see past that and quit being so selfish. He has probably put on some weight and changed alot as well. Maybe she isn't as attracted to him as she used to be,but she loves him just as much as she always has and looks past the outer shell.
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It could be a physical problem or mental. Some meds will drop your libido. It could be all the things everyone has already listed also.
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Uh, sorry, can't help. Hasn't happened to me yet... ;-)
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When my husband is stressed he he gets that way, but if I walk around in his shirt with no underware he snaps out of it. :)
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a demanding woman is about the only thing that wrecked it for me. Do you demand he cums, or don't cum? Answer the phone or try to ask some mundane question when he's going to town? Doze off, or tell him to hurry up? Crap like that does it too. First time I ever had that problem was about 4yrs into my second marriage she arranged a fashion show with a hottie younger gal and when we were all enjoying them giving me a double header. She told the girl: "go ahead and fuck your brains out and enjoy yourself, we're getting divorced anyway". Droops hit me right then like a pin to a balloon. Thats the first time I ever knew about a controlling woman could ruin sex. I should have filed the next day! Never got much better after that.
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That happens ??
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Babies.
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There are so many answers for this question. I don't think there's enough room here for them all. So I'll just give one of them. And that maybe because someones always got a headache.......LOL
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Monotony! this can happen with both guys and gals, but more so with men. Couples often go through periods where it is just the same "ole thing" time after time. Men especially like variety. If couples in these ruts would just open their marriage or partnership or bf/gf during these times, they will recapture that great intiment feelings between themselvs. Open relationships are not for everyone, and they should have a stable relationship before going into such relationships...it cannot repair a broken marriage in almost every instance. Here is a bit of information that will help explain what I am saying with better sources of information. and it is Christian based to for those Christians out there whom may not agree with what I have said... http://www.libchrist.com/swing/happysafestudies.html Here is additional information that may be of interest as well... http://www.libchrist.com/swing/guilt.html
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The same thing that gives a man interest in sex.....women.:)
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I'd guess one of two thing's, either too much sex, or age related loss of libido. Of course there could be other factors involved, such as a medical condition that could cause a man to loose his sex drive. Have a great day.
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Memory lost if he is still living then in the other case death. If a man isn't interested in sex with one person doesn't count him out on being interested in sex with another person.
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I am sorry...I am unqualified to answer that question unless it is the answer of....DEATH
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i think it depend on saying no from your partner if always saying no for many reasons ( tired , dont like today ) what ever was the reason is that makes you dont ask again dont do it again
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Probably the same thing that makes a woman lose interest, hormones. If it is a problem, seek professional advice. If not, forget it.
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Not trying to be funny or anything but i once farted and a guy got mad and said it turned him off.
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Competition: another woman on the horizon. My 2 cents.
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I really don't have a clue.
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This doesn't apply to me but as I understand it, beer and TV.
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anti-depressant meds, alcohol, tv and internet all mixed together.
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When the answers that he is looking for have nothing to do with sex.
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mabye he just gets tired of it, it gets old and he does it too much.
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if the girl is just not into it
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Don't know...never had this situation before.
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A wife.
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I worked in a factory with 250 women for 20 years.
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I don't know, I just lose interest without thinking too much about the cause. Either preoccupation with other tasks, stress or something of the like would be my guess.
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If his partner yells too much at him
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basically he's not happy, I know it sounds like an oversimplifaction but it kind of is, but kind of isn't. If he isn't attracted to you he's not happy, if he's depressed then obviously he wouldnt be happy, I think if you find out what it is thats on his mind you will find the problem
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Someone already touched on this but I'll repeat it because it's valid: If a woman (wife) repeatedly denies her husband sex, for whatever reasons (even good reasons), a devoted man will not turn to other women, will not turn to porn or other sensual diversions. He will, however, begin to shut off his own "sex machine" in order to deal with the issue mentally/emotionally. His fear of further disappointment might make him rather difficult to "jump start" since his celibate relationship was dealt with at a great price. Also, alot of guys don't like to admit they've lost the ability for sex "anytime, anywhere". This temporary disability usually rears its ugly head for the first time when stress or an unusually heavy workload introduces itself. That usually happens in our forties, when the children that resulted from our earlier sexual successes start driving us crazy.
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When the football is on TV
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hmmmm...I asked my husband and he said he'd have to read up on it...always the smart ass..sorry no help, I tried
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Health problems....homosexuality.....Drug interactions..herion.....excessive alcohol use....etc...
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The mind. If the mind is not right the unit will not work right.
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When his woman is no longer interested in it or doesn't want to explore.
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Another man, another woman or being impotent
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Becoming a father?
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if she starts relying on his compliments for her self esteem.. i would think. Or nagging, would probably turn him off more than anything.... though, saying that, i'm sure there could be room for hard fast sex lol
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bad odour....
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Higly stressed out In denial about being gay Was only dating a women for her looks or sex then when the initial attraction wears off they arent turned on mentally by her
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He has a tooth ache.
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if he is having a lot of sex he will lose interest
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bad sex
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the girl not shaving hahahhaa or she does it bad!!!
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Men never lose interest in sex. They just lose interest in sex with you.
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Halitosis.
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Loads of things can affect a man's libido - physical health issues, stress, depression, over-work, fatigue, etc. etc. Family situations can impact his desire and attraction to his wife (that have nothing to do with his wife), body changes in himself or his partner. The list is pretty long, actually.
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as a man thats getting older it is much better to have sex with a women you trust and love.which if you have problems with trust like me means takes a while in between to getting laid
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Depression, stress, prescription medication, drugs, etc. It could be anything.
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ejaculating
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broken or strained penis i guess.
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Apparently, and according to several sources I asked, dying makes a man lose interest in sex....apparently being dead does it for them....go figure!
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Time. Men lose attraction to women when they are together for years. I know woman dont wanna hear that, but its true. Show me a beautiful woman and I'll show you a man who's tired of f*ckin her.
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nothing makes me lose interest. however the biggest turn off is when a woman is boring in bed
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lack of it
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massive-bation LOL
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A wife gaining 70lbs after wedding. Though, that does not put me off sex. It puts me off wanting sex with her.
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it could be stress. Stress can do a lot of things. Could be that you are tired. Try some romance and see if that works.
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just getting bored with the same old fat wife
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If the woman is overweight or she wants kids.
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Don't know, its never happened to me...
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he has already had sex with you, now wants someone else
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Old age
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Castration
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a nagging woman an inhibited woman
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U aint doin it good enough! Make sure u get it in there(if u know what i mean)
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He's fuckin someone else or you aint doin it good enough. Pull some tricks outta your bag
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Some times there are things a man is working to achieve in life and it may require leaving women alone because they may throw off what he is trying to accomplish. And, I will agree with those that said depression.
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Decapitation yo?...
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Pooping
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my guy loses interest if we have too much and its starting to hurt him... other wise mine really doesnt sometimes he will say he isnt but some how we manage to have sex and then he is in a great mood and very sexual.
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If you vomit on them...
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repetition... i.e. boredom
- M.C.S. - Dave 
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