And as I've told you before, I've actually literally been abandoned by my father, my mother, my sisters, my bother and every husband I ever had. When you have actually suffered abandonment "feels like" and imaginary don't even measure up. And so what if they do? Aren't you a grown up? Can't you take care of yourself by now? Others will never understand you. ACCEPT IT OR GET THERAPY.

Ok. Here's another approach. You have established no one understands you. What do you plan to do about it? And why do you feel EVERYONE NEEDS TO UNDERSTAND YOU? What makes you think you're so special everyone needs to investigate and understand YOUR feelings? People need to focus on understanding themselves and not worry about anyone else.

Nobody should live in my head and body to understand me. I think that’s a silly thing to say. I’m referring to relatives and people who know me. I don’t expect strangers to understand me. It’s emotions and actions of another that can be understood. That’s what I mean to say. I’m sorry to hear those things about you and what you’re going through. You probably think I don’t like you when I speak my mind about the things you say about me in past comments but I like to get along with people even if they verbalise their religious delusions which I don’t want to know about. I’m easy going with people regardless of their physical appearance. It doesn’t bother me if strangers don’t understand me and as I said it’s people who know me and if I know them that there should be an understanding between each other. That’s what makes a proper relationship. In fact, I do listen to what people say to me. I take on board the main points of what is said and anything that makes sense. I’m very responsive when people say things to me and I know what it feels like to be abandoned so I hear you about that when you have been abandoned by your relatives. I know what that feels like because there are relatives of mine who have abandoned me as well. Of course I can take care of myself but empathy and understanding is important in a relationship to make things work between each other. There’s no need for me to get therapy and I don’t listen to anyone about that. Some people can sense how others feel emotionally but others can’t because they don’t have what it takes to empathise and understand which means they are either a psychopath or sociopath. If a person doesn’t feel anything towards another that means they are insensitive but that’s their problem and fail with proper relationships. It’s true that people need to understand themselves first but some people don’t do that because they lack in self awareness.