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  • Ask him about it. I think he'd know better than anyone else would.
  • Unfortunately, there is a reason. He isn't thinking about you and doesn't want to talk to you. Now, there is a million reasons why this could be, but the best thing that you can do (especially, if you're the one that is initiating all the contact) is just to leave him alone. If you distance yourself and do not call him and if he truly cares about you, an alarm will go off in his head, he will wonder why you haven't called, and he will come running. When you make it too easy, guys can become bored, easily distracted & can take advantage of girls. So, let him be...if he loves you, he will call!
  • Well lets see, there are thousands of possible reasons, but here are a few prominent ones: 1.He just got off work and he's tired 2.He is out doing something with someone else 3.He could be busy 4.You and him arn't serius enough to warrent him calling you 24/7 5.You may be acting to needy/clingy and he isn't interested.
  • Maybe he is busy. It depends how long it is since he called. Talk to him , maybe you are more emotionally involved in the relationship than he is.
  • It usually means he hasn't called you....what are some of the reasons that you haven't called him?
  • It means you don't have a boyfriend. You've either been dumped or only had a few dates and he's not interested.
  • It is possible that he didn't pay his phone bill.
  • I usually get sad and think that he don't want me anymore! LOL But maybe he is busy or just isn't in the talking mood! So try to find out before you start assuming things!
  • It means that he clearly worships the ground that you walk on and is merely testing the theory "absence makes the heart grow fonder" What a man he is I think that you should propose to him immediately!
  • It means you should pick up the phone, call HIM, and ask him why he doesn't call you. He will be able to answer better than any of us!
  • Depending on how long it's been since he hasn't called could mean a many of things. It all depends on the type of guy that you are dealing with. If you are secure in your relationship and you trust him then you shouldn't think bad of him. If not then maybe you should ask yourself, If he has ever given you a reason to think that way of him. Weigh out your good thoughts with his actions and see which one weighs the most. : )
  • My bf, well now my ex bf, broke up with me three days ago. We had a lot of issues together, I was always needy, he claimed. The reason I was so needy, is because he didn't take the time to make me priority. The reason I'm telling you this is, because this was happening to me. I always think in relationships, it should be balanced. You shouldn't have to think, why is my boyfriend not calling me? Should I call him? What if he thinks i'm being too clingy? All those questions should not be in your mind. Because I don't know your relationship, or how good its going I can't tell you exactly what it means. But what I can assure you, is that he is not making you priority and for a girl, like me, maybe not like you, it's a big deal! I like to see someone putting in effort to be with me, and to communicate with me.
  • Maybe its just that hes going through changes, mine did that and he just stopped talking to me for like 2 weeks but this was in the 3rd month of dating, and were both young so they say that men go through these changes when college and work kick in, but he really proved to me that he wanted this to work more than anything so i let him back in and let me tell you its been nothing but the best, but that was after he got his ass pretty chewed!! lol to the point..if he really does love you HE WILL call!!
  • Maybe its just that hes going through changes, mine did that and he just stopped talking to me for like 2 weeks but this was in the 3rd month of dating, and were both young so they say that men go through these changes when college and work kick in, but he really proved to me that he wanted this to work more than anything so i let him back in and let me tell you its been nothing but the best, but that was after he got his ass pretty chewed!! lol to the point..if he really does love you HE WILL call!!
  • it means that, unfortunetly hes busy. and he doesnt have time. he could be out doing errands, or something else. if hes in school, he could be doing lots of homework. one thing, dont worry about it, if he loves you/cares about you. He deffinetley will contact you/call you! iv'e been there. dont worry, when a guy says i love you, trust him! and make sure that no matter what you always hold that trust, love is a risk, and a neverending journey, just take things slow, and like i said, he deffinetley does care about you, He probably doesnt have time/ or is busy! i hope this helps!!!!
  • The only person who can really answer this accurately is your boyfriend himself. Not calling you does not necessarily mean he is not interested. I disagree with that. He probably has a reason and hopefully it's a good one. Ask him.
  • U should phone him, if he avoids u, then forget him!
  • If your boyfriend doesn't call you, it normally means that he wants you to be able to stand on your own ground. Being less clingy. Clingy means having affirmations and confirmations every moment of the day, calling repetitively, it's cute in the beginning but it will wear off its welcome. If he has clearly said that he loves you but needed time and you pursue him too quick after having a mutual break time, this will only confuse you and make him lose interest in you very fast. By being rash and too hasty, your boyfriend may go to another girl for comfort, it may be sexual and it may not be. Believe me, I've learned the hard way. If he cares alot about you he will call eventually and even after he's called, don't expect him to call you every single day. He still needs his time too. Eventually when he seees that he can leave you by yourself without typical separation anxiety, both of you will have to make a choice to move forward together or will you be happier on your own.
  • if he didn't call then he doesn't care
  • if u began to feel confused then your relation is in danger
  • in my opinion... how come he loves you and he doesn't care to know what you are doing in your day... if he loves you he will call you to know everything about your day.. the ignorance is not good.
  • he is just not into me... :(

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