My boyfriend has had stripper friends since before we got together and I'm not comfortable with him keeping them as friends. He lies about keeping in touch with them. Should I let it ruin our relationship?
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The best thing to do here is follow your gut. The only wrong decision you can make here is the one thats leave you unhappy with the situation you are in. Think deep down inside yourself and ask, is this something I can tolerate or do I need to draw a line in the sand? If you need to draw the line then there is nothing you can do but wait to see if you boyfriend is willing to cross over it. The trick is to be willing to except the fact that he won't. I have always felt that in a marriage you need give and take, push and pull, ying and yang. But in order to do this there are always individual needs that have to be met and you have to put up thresholds in which you are un willing to sacrafice your feelings about. Is this one of them. If deep down you say yes then you should feel absolutely comfortable letting him make up his own mind of where your relationship will lead.
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Look, let's not BS around. You found him attractive in the beginning because he was flowing with sexy chicks, and wanted to know what made him special. Now that the bloom has gone off the rose, you want him all to yourself. You need to either move on or deal with it.
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