No it does not at all . i have been there asking this of myself before and after some time came to the conclusion that I am every much into women as any straight guy is. I look at them the same way as i always have and find them pretty, attractive, sexually stimulating etc... Though I do not feel that way or am I in anyway really attracted to other men. I become comfortable in the fact that on occasion with the right friend or? I also enjoy mutually pleasuring each other for the pleasure of it. I am soft core or light bi. I am not really into anal and do not swallow. I do not kiss on the mouth or act like a lover. I am totally comfortable with body's against each other etc.. taking turns exploring and playing with each other etc.. Basically if we are watching any porn it is of couples/women/threesomes/foursomes. never really enjoyed gay stuff and basically the bi stuff is more hard core than I am into. I have not yet met a man who effected me in anyway that an attractive sexy women does. I have thought a few handsome but not in a attraction way for me. I have on a couple of occasions met a man who had what I found to be a very nice package before. basically they all look like what they are to me but as I said on two occasions I have seen a package on a man that I enjoyed looking at and desired to play with it " basically was attracted to it not the guy." Also in both cases they were of average sizes . not hug hung. My wife is aware of my bi side and is ok with it though she chooses only to once in a great while to join me as a spectator or even join in. We have a totally great sex life. Often times when playing with another guy we talk about our sex lives past and sex lives with our wives . I love sharing my story's about wife and I with other guys and they seem to love hearing them as well. So I am basically straight as far as my attraction, desire for women. Do not have the same for men. am open minded enough to be able to share mutual pleasures with another man as friends not lovers and for the pleasure of it. There are a lot of other men like myself out there but they stay hidden. Women doing the same thing is way more acceptable it is actually not looked down upon like men doing the same thing. Most women I have met who play with other women are not really gay. they like there men as I like my women. but they are comfortable playing with other women and actually have more of an attraction to each other than soft bi guys do to each other. So no you can have a guy do it to you or even do it to him or better yet take turns doing it to each other just for the pleasure of it with out falling in love or turning gay over it. Hope this helps you