Take some time to grieve properly and then take some time to be really good to yourself.

Find someone new.

u can make sure u dont do somthing stupid and find somthing interesting to do

Definitely. But it takes time, like getting over someone's death. If you are really devastated, you might ask for help from a counselor. Otherwise, give it time, and stay busy with other things to take your mind off of it. Things WILL get better.

Time really will take care of it, even if you feel devastated. I try to analyze what went wrong to help myself and grow from the experience. Do things you really enjoy or couldn't get around to when you were together. It doesn't hurt to pamper yourself, get some new clothes if you can or a new hairstyle!

Don't blame yourself. Know that he cannot be the one for you if he does not want to be. His loss not yours. Don't sulk for too long, but don't try to be too strong and skip the sulking phase. Your schedule is now wide open so use the time to do something productive. Do things you have always wanted to do. Don't jump right into another relationship. You need to reset or rediscover yourself. Yes - pamper and spoil yourself. Go to a spa, buy yourself some shoes. "Its alll guuuuuuuud." - Michael Gary Scott, The Office.

There are no secrets. If you were in love, it will feel like someone has just torn up your heart with razors. "Some say love, it is a razor, that leaves the soul to bleed." To help, try to get away from your ex and cut communication. Keep busy with your friends. Try to let go and understand that you will get through the pain in time.

Time heals all wounds. Corny, but tried and true. Just try to focus your energies in different directions. Don't mope and moon...it just makes it worse. Try to avoid the person who caused you pain if at all possible for a while. Give yourself time to heal.

vices. go drink, go find a replacement, get a hobbie, go masterbate alot, whatever. the secret is time and distraction. before you know it, you won't even be dreaming about him or her anymore.. and don't worry, it's human nature to concentrate on the good things you miss at this point...try and remember why your exes in the first place, it helps.

remember that everything happends for a reason, and in cases like this, you've probably learnt from it. take it as a learning experience that is meant to help you along the way with something else. stuff happends, hold your head up high and do things for yourself whether it be going to school to get a degree, travelling, going out with friends more often, going to the gym etc....

have you ever heard the phrase,'it's diamonds that cut other diamonds'? that is exactly the thing you have to do.

I get busy! I make sure my house is REALLY clean and tidy, because ideally...that's how I like it. I buy MYSELF fresh flowers or cut them from the yard, and work on the garden too! I make a point of cooking healthy, tasty meals, and to eat them at THE TABLE, more often than not. I do things that PLEASE ME, bubble bath with a glass of wine and a good book! I make a point of going out to do things I enjoy, things I may have managed to do less of when I was with "that person." I journal my thoughts and FEELING in my journal, as I have since I was 20, so that helps A LOT. I would seek some counseling, if I felt like I needed it and I would cry anytime I felt like it would feel good to do so! Eventually, I would start to see what things about that relationship were not really meeting my needs and what things I may have done that probably didn't meet "that person's" needs either. This is good information because I SHOULD BE ABLE to use it moving forward to do better when next considering my feelings for someone who may come along and to correct problems I may have created or contributed to! Of course this would only apply if the "other person" left me. If I decided to leave them, there would already likely BE a good reason I didn't want to be with them, so I might do all of the above, but I'd probably more RELIEVED than full of grief!

Time heals all wounds. and never listen to any love songs...bad...

Have you become a staff member perry? You carry on like this and you will soon be breaking up permanently :)

well my sugestion is that you do get your good cry in but dont let it ruin your life completely. p.s God put us on Earth to mate & reproduce not date on account of ones looks (so make sure you get the time to know hes/shes the right one if so i dont think youll have these problems

Time will heal. In the meantime, do what you like. Watch those movies the other person would never agree to watch. Try to focus your attention on something positive like work. Start a home project. Call old friends you haven't talked to in a while. DON'T listen to love songs or watch sappy, heart wrenching movies, etc. Not helpful.

Go out and have fun! Call your friends, meet new people! Make sure that you keep yourself as busy as possible, and as happy as possible.

eat ur favorite icecream.. and comfort food... hang out with friends,... find someone new... i litteraly just broke up 2 minuets ago so ya...

Two twelve packs of Cororna beer and a comfortable seat at the lake or ocean. Sit and drown in your own sorrows and try to figure out exactly what went wrong.

Time heals all wounds

Submerge yourself in other things that make you happy and will take your mind off of it. And time.

just totally forget about it! what i mean is don't think about it (ex. hang with friends,excercise, etc.)

watch comedy shows and be with friends as much as you can. Don't isolate yourself. do things that make you smile :) furious masterbation never hurt anyone! (ok maybe a little)