Whether I sacrafice myself for other people's happiness. I did, it sucks, I live with it and I think I made the right decision, even to this day

Do I go ahead and have her now - or don't I.

get married...glad I decided to. 27 years later and still going strong...he's the greatest.

Answerbag or Counter Strike. I play CS on the weekends and I go on AB while I'm doing homework. Fair plan but I really was addicted to CS and I didn't want to leave my AB family.

The decision to leave an abusive marriage was a tough one for me.

Deciding to divorce my first wife.

Accepting an offer to relocate when the company I was working for was taken over. It was one reason why a woman who wanted to marry me decided against it and I left friends and family behind.

It would have to be when my Whole family decided to take my Mother off of Life Support...We all decided it was for the best

To go from renting to buying. Big step.

To not fall in love again....It is to painful and i have to good of a heart with not enough space for disappointment anymore...

Whether to contest for custody of my kids or not. Decided not to... They wanted to live with their mother, and I knew it would damn-near kill her if I did.

Whether I should pull the trigger or not.........I pulled the trigger!

To let go of something I really liked / loved :-)

Well, I'm 18. So... anything I say now can be edited in maybe 15 minutes when I have to decide what DVD I want to watch. But, on a serious note, my hardest decision involves a certain boy and a day we've set aside to discuss our feelings and watch james bond movies. I don't know what I'm going to say to him, and I've been trying to decide for months. This is arduous.

The decision regarding whether or not to circumcise my son at birth.

My father was in a nursing home and unlikely to recover. I had to decide whether to let them put a permanent feeding tube in him. I knew what he would have wanted, but it was a very difficult decision. I said no to the tube and he passed away several days later as expected.

To get divorced.

I agree, to get divorced, and to give custody of my child to a man that dosent deserve it. Love to give everyone his address, so that folks can send him some additional hate mail! LOL

Am I going to kill myself and when and how?

To give my son up for adoption. He needed so much more than I could give him. That was 10 years ago and my life has never been the same.

no decision is hard the trouble starts when you act upon it

I haven't made it yet, but I know I'm going to have to make it soon. Do I move to Scotland to be with the one I love or stay here close to family and what I know? Or does he move here to the US away from everything he knows in Scotland? It's an ongoing discussion of pros and cons of each situation.

The decision to tell my oldest son he had to live somewhere else if he didn't get at least a part-time job. He had been hit by a drunk driver when he was 17 and was legally blind, but I didn't know his vision was that bad at the time. He was turning 21 and I told him he had to have a job within 3 months. Three months came and went. Then I told him I would give him one more month. When the month was up, he still didn't have a job nor had he filled out an application. He brought some apps home but didn't fill them out. I told him he had to leave because I didn't want to enable him. He packed his suitcase and left. That was the hardest thing I ever had to do in my life but I wanted him to have a better life than to live with his mom forever. He found a few different jobs and lived with some of his friends for awhile and then went to live with his father about 30 miles away. He had lots of different jobs because he would never tell a prospective employer he had impaired vision. He eventually received SSI and moved into an apartment of his own about 13 years ago. He had not worked for about 15 years. He died suddenly and unexpectedly January 13, 2009. He was a wonderful guy and no one ever heard him complain about his life. In retrospect, of course, I wish I'd never done that . . . but I did it for him and it was the hardest thing I ever felt I had to do. I miss him so very much.

To sacrifice a very special friendship.

Whether or not to take my Mom off of a ventilator.

To break a promise for someones best interest and knowing they wouldn't like the decision I felt I must make.

The decision of when the time was right to put my beloved dog to sleep. I still miss her and will never forget her.

Joining the military. It was also the very best.

For my Mother to go into care! rather than come live with me!! the right decision as it turns out as she is well looked after 24/7 something I know I could not commit to no matter how hard I tried!! :-/

life or death

Putting a beloved pet down.

dropping out

putting a child up for adoption

pull out